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NOTE FOR GC FORUM: I have attached some screenshots to this report which do not show here. so when i talk about chats, they should show, but i dont know how to attach them here. the analysis of the texts is done, so you wouldn't really be missing out on much.
The name Spellbreaker has little to do with the actual girl in this instance. i have been on a dry spell for so long. My last action with someone new was 4 months ago. This was in large part due to my very hectic work/ study schedule, partly down to bad luck (a lot of LMR on the dates i did go out on). I knew i needed to get myself reeking of pussy again, and i think its safe to say i did it with some grace too.
Setting The date, and laying down the process:
I’ve been unable to use tinder much for the past few weeks as david is experimenting with it in St. Louis, so i was left with only instagram. And here I faced a problem for so long: i had been spending time and effort trying to get a result with girls who are on instagram for likes and follows and validation: typical stupid young kids who tag each other on their photos and shower each other with bs compliments. I don’t know how it didn’t occur to me that this is not a good idea: i think my dry spell got to my brain and dried it too. After some frustration with this, i was on a review website (I totally forgot which one, and i hate myself for it) where i saw a catchy username with a cute photo. I could only see her thumbnail though. But i figured i’d try to plug in her username on instagram. Lo and behold, i found her and followed. She followed back -10/12/2017- I should’ve saved the website for more catches like this but i stupidly forgot. Fuck.
She had a cute profile, definitely not one of those attention seeking chicks. I open with a standard “hey im curious” and proceeded by making her qualify and tell me how cool she is. I added just a tad bit of sexual tension and hinted at a meet. She liked it even though she cited safety concerns. I showed some confidence and number closed. On whatsapp, i set a date even though it was a bit pushed and somehow needy, but thankfully i recovered. You don’t need to be firing on all cylinders to succeed. My typical wine offer worked.
13/12/2017
she starts a conversation. I assume she likes me a lot and is interested in exploring my confident and blunt energy, but feels like i lack attainability. So, i turn it up for her by rewarding her for starting the conversation and expressing excitement at the meet. The conversation took a slightly sexual turn with the booty part. Then asked for some more investment with the picture, and put her in a correct state of mind.
Meanwhile, I spent some time writing out a concise yet quite detailed process outline for a few different processes: daygame cold approach, nightgame warm approach, and dates. I was excited to try out the date template on this coming date.
A straightforward, structured date:
14/12/2017
I go to her house with my date plan set and the slightest nervousness. I see her walk to my car: oh shit, she’s quite decent looking. I have a preference for older women but this is very much my type too: timid and feminine, with a petite body and a nervous laugh. She does have a good booty too. And it’s the first time i date a girl who’s dyed her hair red: i’ve always wanted to see how that would look in my palm while getting my cock sucked (more on that later). I give her a confident hug and start with a quick investment idea which i added to my date process: i keep two rings, or two bracelets in my car, and ask her to choose which one she likes more. When i get a response, i ask her to put on the article she chose. Double investment, plus touching. Free brownie points.
I kept the conversation mostly light during our ride to get to the date location. It wasnt easy to let her do all the talking because that’s not her, but i asked about her school and how she spends her time. I threw in a chase frames or two with a “just kidding” to balance it, and noticed her being a bit unreceptive to my first sexual comment. Moved on though. I resisted the urge to dive into deeper topics for now, but she gave me some good topics: one was about the energy of people (which i adore), and the other was about society and judging.I had to jump at that golden opportunity and talk about the dangers of shaming natural feminine sexual desire.
Once at the park, touching was easier, and i gradually escalated, starting by holding hands, wrapping my arm around her, and slapping her booty. The conversation took a slightly deeper turn: she had some nice ideas regarding finding oneself and breaking free from societal expectations, but wasn’t much of a talker and certainly not mature enough to go much deeper. She’s only 18. I focused on getting more investment and compliance, and then we took a seat. The sexual conversation restarted, and she slowly eased into it and started to like my open minded ideas. I had her play with my hair and relax a bit. At one point, i started to notice she’s relaxing more: i saw this as an escalation window and quickly took the opportunity to “take her somewhere nice”.
On our was to my car i ask her about her experience with guys. She asks me to clarify if i meant sexual. I confirm. She said she’s pretty experienced. I assumed that for an 18 year old in lebanon that just means she’s not a virgin, and probably has had 2-3 previous lovers (and I wasn’t wrong not to expect much more). But back to the question, i ask her what she likes in bed. She talks about how she likes genuine lovemaking, sensation and romance. I tell her i know exactly what she’s talking about. I find it amazing how normalizing sex like this makes life a shit ton easier: why haven’t i been doing this ages go? Why the fuck do guys all around the world not do this? Oh well, more uniqueness points for me. I ask her if she likes a guy who is dominant. She says yes: she needs to be submissive, but only to a guy she feels comfortable with. I agree and amplify her point. i also ask if jaw biting turns her on. Very much so. I think this technique is amazing.
5-7 minutes left to arrive home, i decide to change the mood a little- just a little. I put on a very sensual song (imitadora) and translate the lyrics for her. I think she’s turned on by the words. Escucha las palabras… de Romeo.
We get to my apartment. I lead her to the garden first, then a few moments later lead her inside. Standard procedure here: take off shoes, show around apartment (compliance, and comfort building), put on bachata, and pour us some wine. Cheers. Some bachata dancing. Then a kiss. Game on.
At first she was very into the kiss, so i gave her a solid 30 seconds before casually going back to dancing. Then some more kissing. I was actually relieved this was happening as it had been quite long. But i was still relaxed and composed. I carried her onto my bed, and she gave a standard “im not sure if we should do this”. No attention, carry on. She’s a bit lukewarm in bed: at first i started to doubt whether i was really turning her on, especially when she nonchalantly asked me “are you trying to turn me on?”... i’d never gotten that before so i was confused, but i carried on. After a while i noticed that i was doing everything right, it’s her personality- she’s very cold when it comes to showing emotions. I take off her top after some difficulty, and then the pants after much more (used the ass biting excuse), but i couldn’t go more. Her excuse was being on a period. I used a standard “oh that actually would turn me on” and suggested getting a towel, but she was adamant. I suspect in reality it was something else: i notice she hadn’t shaved, and most lebanese chicks do shave, so i feel she just wasnt comfortable with that despite my best efforts. Oh well. At some point she said something like “i wish i had actual feelings towards you”, which sounds crude at first, but i think what she meant was she wished for more attainability and a chance for something long-term. Seeing sex won’t go down, I had her blow me. I got to enjoy tapping into Sexual Dictator Amante mode and making her spit on my cock and point out her cute round ass for me. She has small fingers and cute little nails which she polished black, and i liked the look of that on my shlong. Also, her hair had the exact sensual effect i was looking for: red hair is amazing for blowjobs. Her technique was lacking- ugh, these girls really need some proper training on blowjob etiquette! She did eventually make me cum, but didn’t swallow, which i dont appreciate and asked her to change later on. We cuddle a bit, then go back to the living room and put on her leather jacket, get another glass of wine, and dance naked. Some more cuddling, typical post sex questions: when did you decide you want my cock in your mouth? Her response was vague: she just said it was an in the moment decision. She’s very vague with her answers typically: at various times i’d ask her how she feels, and she replies with “nothing”, probably the worst response ever! After some of this, i compliment her on her cock hunger and get her to suck me some more, but her poor technique bruised my penis and we just stopped.
We get dressed and as part of my process for increasing odds of repeat orders from women i like, i took her to this nice cozy bakery for some food. She weakly suggested to pay, but i took it, i think it was the right thing to do in this case- i told her she could pay next time. We talked a little, and she got to see the social me, opening people left and right. I started talking to this cool black guy once we got to sit and got his number because he’s valuable. I noticed an attraction boost there, and she started talking about various things. Overall very cozy atmosphere. She mentioned at one point being bi-curious and that made my dick move: i sense some good opportunities here and i will exploit. And finally before leaving, we somehow opened the topic of a second date, and agreed for sunday- i will add it to this report if in fact it happens and leads to a lay.
In the car i showed her one of my favorite music videos, and just small talk. I drop her off, and she thanks me for a great time. I reciprocate her nice words, and she texts me as i am getting home. I’ll attach some of the more interesting texts for a general feel: for the record, i felt the way the date conversation was carried out helped ease the sexual frame, so it was only natural for me to talk about having her suck my cock and her to refer to my dick and being naughty and all. There’s comfort and acceptance, and even though i didn’t fuck her yet, i have a feeling all the correct frames are in place for that to happen next time.
Overall it was great for me to break the dry spell. I liked the idea of a process and will use it often. It helped me have a clearer mind and know when to be just playful and when to deep dive. Also, it helped me set at least 4 chase frames- something i would’ve never remembered to do alone.
**UPDATE**
Booty Massage Fuckdate:
As mentioned earlier, I had set up a date for sunday. Since I had already sexualized the topic and mentioned after the date that I’m going to give her a nice booty massage, I started a conversation on saturday 16/12/2017 with a booty massage reference.
We agreed for 6:00 on sunday
16/12/2017:
I picked her up at 6:30 and drove her straight home. She’s much more comfortable now than she was the first date- she grabbed my cock as I was driving, out of her own initiative. After we got home, there was some light kissing. I went to the bedroom to light a scented candle. This was the first time i do something like this. I asked her to come into her room and take off her pants. Complied. Also her top. Complied. She lay down on her stomach, her petite ass right in my face. A sexy man, sexy bachata music, seductive candle light and smell, and warm massage oil. Not more she could ask for. I started rubbing her booty- she told me she started to get sleepy so i increased my breathing/ singing on her skin, and gave her ass a few spanks. She is getting turned on, so bra and panties came off quickly. As I guessed earlier, she hadn’t shaved on our first date, and now she had. My guess is that she wasn’t expecting sex on the first date and has probably been inactive for a while so she got a bit complacent. But now she was ready. I fingered her tight pussy a little and started to penetrate her with my cock. She was in so much pain, so it took some time. She was a good fuck, not much good technique but the passion was there. After some penetration for a few minutes i went down on her for around 20 minutes and gave her 3 or more orgasms: i think i overdelivered. Then we went to sex and i fucked her for 20 minutes or so. She has a few orgasms there too. At some point she mentioned that she’s totalled and she wants me to stop. This is the first time i reach this point with a girl. I think i’ve improved. Anyways, i fuck her for a bit longer and drop a load on her stomach. Some cuddling… I’ve taken my feedback questioning to the next level: i asked her how many times she cummed, she said she lost count. That’s good. I also asked what she thought of the massage and the candle scent. She loved it. I asked if she thinks i am the pussy eating champ. Yes i am. Good. i gave her round two sex which was as good. We got dressed, then we danced to Dos Gardenias, which is very romantic. We packed up and went to get a snack which she paid for. She lets me take lead all the fucking time- we don’t move unless i initiate it. Then, took her on a cruise where she gave me roadhead. Damn, I love how i make her comply with everything i suggest- i’ve done a very good job of setting precedence for following and complying. She made me cum but didn’t swallow, which is an issue for me- we’ll address that soon. After that, straight home for her and for me. I was super tired. Here’s some screenshots of the texting next day.
Wrapup:
Miss Spellbreaker was an important one for me: I wanted to break my dry spell before 2018, and did so, so i am glad. Also, it opened up the possibilities for success found online: it was a very simple few instagram messages that led to a date, and my dating skills have improved. My issue where i was having difficulty getting a result on instagram was mostly down to trying to get the wrong chicks. Now that i’ve fixed that, im going to try and see if i can get more. Miss Spellbreaker is cute and tolerable, but nothing extra. Plus, she looks 15. In the beginning i was thinking differently, but i decided that she can’t be assigned a role other than lover: too risky for more. But i think she’s sold quite well and since shes so nice and lives nearby, she will be a good addition to my rotation for at least 3 months- i’ll surely add a few others before our relationship lifespan expires!
The name Spellbreaker has little to do with the actual girl in this instance. i have been on a dry spell for so long. My last action with someone new was 4 months ago. This was in large part due to my very hectic work/ study schedule, partly down to bad luck (a lot of LMR on the dates i did go out on). I knew i needed to get myself reeking of pussy again, and i think its safe to say i did it with some grace too.
Setting The date, and laying down the process:
I’ve been unable to use tinder much for the past few weeks as david is experimenting with it in St. Louis, so i was left with only instagram. And here I faced a problem for so long: i had been spending time and effort trying to get a result with girls who are on instagram for likes and follows and validation: typical stupid young kids who tag each other on their photos and shower each other with bs compliments. I don’t know how it didn’t occur to me that this is not a good idea: i think my dry spell got to my brain and dried it too. After some frustration with this, i was on a review website (I totally forgot which one, and i hate myself for it) where i saw a catchy username with a cute photo. I could only see her thumbnail though. But i figured i’d try to plug in her username on instagram. Lo and behold, i found her and followed. She followed back -10/12/2017- I should’ve saved the website for more catches like this but i stupidly forgot. Fuck.
She had a cute profile, definitely not one of those attention seeking chicks. I open with a standard “hey im curious” and proceeded by making her qualify and tell me how cool she is. I added just a tad bit of sexual tension and hinted at a meet. She liked it even though she cited safety concerns. I showed some confidence and number closed. On whatsapp, i set a date even though it was a bit pushed and somehow needy, but thankfully i recovered. You don’t need to be firing on all cylinders to succeed. My typical wine offer worked.
13/12/2017
she starts a conversation. I assume she likes me a lot and is interested in exploring my confident and blunt energy, but feels like i lack attainability. So, i turn it up for her by rewarding her for starting the conversation and expressing excitement at the meet. The conversation took a slightly sexual turn with the booty part. Then asked for some more investment with the picture, and put her in a correct state of mind.
Meanwhile, I spent some time writing out a concise yet quite detailed process outline for a few different processes: daygame cold approach, nightgame warm approach, and dates. I was excited to try out the date template on this coming date.
A straightforward, structured date:
14/12/2017
I go to her house with my date plan set and the slightest nervousness. I see her walk to my car: oh shit, she’s quite decent looking. I have a preference for older women but this is very much my type too: timid and feminine, with a petite body and a nervous laugh. She does have a good booty too. And it’s the first time i date a girl who’s dyed her hair red: i’ve always wanted to see how that would look in my palm while getting my cock sucked (more on that later). I give her a confident hug and start with a quick investment idea which i added to my date process: i keep two rings, or two bracelets in my car, and ask her to choose which one she likes more. When i get a response, i ask her to put on the article she chose. Double investment, plus touching. Free brownie points.
I kept the conversation mostly light during our ride to get to the date location. It wasnt easy to let her do all the talking because that’s not her, but i asked about her school and how she spends her time. I threw in a chase frames or two with a “just kidding” to balance it, and noticed her being a bit unreceptive to my first sexual comment. Moved on though. I resisted the urge to dive into deeper topics for now, but she gave me some good topics: one was about the energy of people (which i adore), and the other was about society and judging.I had to jump at that golden opportunity and talk about the dangers of shaming natural feminine sexual desire.
Once at the park, touching was easier, and i gradually escalated, starting by holding hands, wrapping my arm around her, and slapping her booty. The conversation took a slightly deeper turn: she had some nice ideas regarding finding oneself and breaking free from societal expectations, but wasn’t much of a talker and certainly not mature enough to go much deeper. She’s only 18. I focused on getting more investment and compliance, and then we took a seat. The sexual conversation restarted, and she slowly eased into it and started to like my open minded ideas. I had her play with my hair and relax a bit. At one point, i started to notice she’s relaxing more: i saw this as an escalation window and quickly took the opportunity to “take her somewhere nice”.
On our was to my car i ask her about her experience with guys. She asks me to clarify if i meant sexual. I confirm. She said she’s pretty experienced. I assumed that for an 18 year old in lebanon that just means she’s not a virgin, and probably has had 2-3 previous lovers (and I wasn’t wrong not to expect much more). But back to the question, i ask her what she likes in bed. She talks about how she likes genuine lovemaking, sensation and romance. I tell her i know exactly what she’s talking about. I find it amazing how normalizing sex like this makes life a shit ton easier: why haven’t i been doing this ages go? Why the fuck do guys all around the world not do this? Oh well, more uniqueness points for me. I ask her if she likes a guy who is dominant. She says yes: she needs to be submissive, but only to a guy she feels comfortable with. I agree and amplify her point. i also ask if jaw biting turns her on. Very much so. I think this technique is amazing.
5-7 minutes left to arrive home, i decide to change the mood a little- just a little. I put on a very sensual song (imitadora) and translate the lyrics for her. I think she’s turned on by the words. Escucha las palabras… de Romeo.
We get to my apartment. I lead her to the garden first, then a few moments later lead her inside. Standard procedure here: take off shoes, show around apartment (compliance, and comfort building), put on bachata, and pour us some wine. Cheers. Some bachata dancing. Then a kiss. Game on.
At first she was very into the kiss, so i gave her a solid 30 seconds before casually going back to dancing. Then some more kissing. I was actually relieved this was happening as it had been quite long. But i was still relaxed and composed. I carried her onto my bed, and she gave a standard “im not sure if we should do this”. No attention, carry on. She’s a bit lukewarm in bed: at first i started to doubt whether i was really turning her on, especially when she nonchalantly asked me “are you trying to turn me on?”... i’d never gotten that before so i was confused, but i carried on. After a while i noticed that i was doing everything right, it’s her personality- she’s very cold when it comes to showing emotions. I take off her top after some difficulty, and then the pants after much more (used the ass biting excuse), but i couldn’t go more. Her excuse was being on a period. I used a standard “oh that actually would turn me on” and suggested getting a towel, but she was adamant. I suspect in reality it was something else: i notice she hadn’t shaved, and most lebanese chicks do shave, so i feel she just wasnt comfortable with that despite my best efforts. Oh well. At some point she said something like “i wish i had actual feelings towards you”, which sounds crude at first, but i think what she meant was she wished for more attainability and a chance for something long-term. Seeing sex won’t go down, I had her blow me. I got to enjoy tapping into Sexual Dictator Amante mode and making her spit on my cock and point out her cute round ass for me. She has small fingers and cute little nails which she polished black, and i liked the look of that on my shlong. Also, her hair had the exact sensual effect i was looking for: red hair is amazing for blowjobs. Her technique was lacking- ugh, these girls really need some proper training on blowjob etiquette! She did eventually make me cum, but didn’t swallow, which i dont appreciate and asked her to change later on. We cuddle a bit, then go back to the living room and put on her leather jacket, get another glass of wine, and dance naked. Some more cuddling, typical post sex questions: when did you decide you want my cock in your mouth? Her response was vague: she just said it was an in the moment decision. She’s very vague with her answers typically: at various times i’d ask her how she feels, and she replies with “nothing”, probably the worst response ever! After some of this, i compliment her on her cock hunger and get her to suck me some more, but her poor technique bruised my penis and we just stopped.
We get dressed and as part of my process for increasing odds of repeat orders from women i like, i took her to this nice cozy bakery for some food. She weakly suggested to pay, but i took it, i think it was the right thing to do in this case- i told her she could pay next time. We talked a little, and she got to see the social me, opening people left and right. I started talking to this cool black guy once we got to sit and got his number because he’s valuable. I noticed an attraction boost there, and she started talking about various things. Overall very cozy atmosphere. She mentioned at one point being bi-curious and that made my dick move: i sense some good opportunities here and i will exploit. And finally before leaving, we somehow opened the topic of a second date, and agreed for sunday- i will add it to this report if in fact it happens and leads to a lay.
In the car i showed her one of my favorite music videos, and just small talk. I drop her off, and she thanks me for a great time. I reciprocate her nice words, and she texts me as i am getting home. I’ll attach some of the more interesting texts for a general feel: for the record, i felt the way the date conversation was carried out helped ease the sexual frame, so it was only natural for me to talk about having her suck my cock and her to refer to my dick and being naughty and all. There’s comfort and acceptance, and even though i didn’t fuck her yet, i have a feeling all the correct frames are in place for that to happen next time.
Overall it was great for me to break the dry spell. I liked the idea of a process and will use it often. It helped me have a clearer mind and know when to be just playful and when to deep dive. Also, it helped me set at least 4 chase frames- something i would’ve never remembered to do alone.
**UPDATE**
Booty Massage Fuckdate:
As mentioned earlier, I had set up a date for sunday. Since I had already sexualized the topic and mentioned after the date that I’m going to give her a nice booty massage, I started a conversation on saturday 16/12/2017 with a booty massage reference.
We agreed for 6:00 on sunday
16/12/2017:
I picked her up at 6:30 and drove her straight home. She’s much more comfortable now than she was the first date- she grabbed my cock as I was driving, out of her own initiative. After we got home, there was some light kissing. I went to the bedroom to light a scented candle. This was the first time i do something like this. I asked her to come into her room and take off her pants. Complied. Also her top. Complied. She lay down on her stomach, her petite ass right in my face. A sexy man, sexy bachata music, seductive candle light and smell, and warm massage oil. Not more she could ask for. I started rubbing her booty- she told me she started to get sleepy so i increased my breathing/ singing on her skin, and gave her ass a few spanks. She is getting turned on, so bra and panties came off quickly. As I guessed earlier, she hadn’t shaved on our first date, and now she had. My guess is that she wasn’t expecting sex on the first date and has probably been inactive for a while so she got a bit complacent. But now she was ready. I fingered her tight pussy a little and started to penetrate her with my cock. She was in so much pain, so it took some time. She was a good fuck, not much good technique but the passion was there. After some penetration for a few minutes i went down on her for around 20 minutes and gave her 3 or more orgasms: i think i overdelivered. Then we went to sex and i fucked her for 20 minutes or so. She has a few orgasms there too. At some point she mentioned that she’s totalled and she wants me to stop. This is the first time i reach this point with a girl. I think i’ve improved. Anyways, i fuck her for a bit longer and drop a load on her stomach. Some cuddling… I’ve taken my feedback questioning to the next level: i asked her how many times she cummed, she said she lost count. That’s good. I also asked what she thought of the massage and the candle scent. She loved it. I asked if she thinks i am the pussy eating champ. Yes i am. Good. i gave her round two sex which was as good. We got dressed, then we danced to Dos Gardenias, which is very romantic. We packed up and went to get a snack which she paid for. She lets me take lead all the fucking time- we don’t move unless i initiate it. Then, took her on a cruise where she gave me roadhead. Damn, I love how i make her comply with everything i suggest- i’ve done a very good job of setting precedence for following and complying. She made me cum but didn’t swallow, which is an issue for me- we’ll address that soon. After that, straight home for her and for me. I was super tired. Here’s some screenshots of the texting next day.
Wrapup:
Miss Spellbreaker was an important one for me: I wanted to break my dry spell before 2018, and did so, so i am glad. Also, it opened up the possibilities for success found online: it was a very simple few instagram messages that led to a date, and my dating skills have improved. My issue where i was having difficulty getting a result on instagram was mostly down to trying to get the wrong chicks. Now that i’ve fixed that, im going to try and see if i can get more. Miss Spellbreaker is cute and tolerable, but nothing extra. Plus, she looks 15. In the beginning i was thinking differently, but i decided that she can’t be assigned a role other than lover: too risky for more. But i think she’s sold quite well and since shes so nice and lives nearby, she will be a good addition to my rotation for at least 3 months- i’ll surely add a few others before our relationship lifespan expires!
