A beginner (lost)

[Twosees]

Hey guy I'm a black 17 yr old from South Africa. I want to improve my dating/intimate life because I feel like it's a thing I've beeen overlooking for months. My game is not alright and I'm scared of approaching girls. I even got dumped because I was too shy to hang with this one girl I liked
From there onwards I've been sort of playing victim.
I want to stop talking about girls and actually bang them. In a fulfilling way.
Not chase. I just want to impact girls life. In a general and sexual context.

Anyway there's this one white girl that got dumped by some guy I know. Drugs was affecting him. So now she's single and we kind of bond with each other. Don't know what I should do about her.

The thing is I don't want to focus on her

As you can see I'm kinda lost. So I need. Help on where to start.
Twosees

 

[Bboy100]

The first thing you need to do is purchase a copy of Chase's ebook. Its the foundational stuff that we build most of what we do here off of. If you cannot afford it or don't wish to spend the money, go to the main site and read this: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-g ... -ever-need

Then click all the subsequent links to other articles on it. Then on those articles, click the subsequent links and so fourth. You'll eventually have learned most of what you need to know.

As for this girl, more information is needed. Is she from your high school? How do you know her? what past interactions have you had with her? etc.

Whatever the case, don't get too stuck up on her. The point here is not to teach you to get one specific girl (because whether or not you actually get any specific girl is not 100% in your control). Its to teach you to attract the kind of girl that you like (there are many of them).

Good Luck!

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

A beginner,

In order to improve your abilities with women read as much of the website as you can and use the following link to get out there. This will help you build your confidence. It is an easy step by step plan.

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