FU A BIG TEASE?

[RDawg]

Hey fellas, hope things are going well! As, I am writing this report, i'm a little disappointed in myself and how things went. To begin, I was out last night for a university "pub crawl". There was about 200 university students on this pub crawl and for the most part it was a good time. So, i'll start the story at the last bar, which will call "BUS N Beers". The Pub Crawl started at 7 and we hit about 5 bars, the last one being BUS N Beers at around 11PM. Also, the pub crawl was "super hero" themed, so everyone was dressed up in different super hero costumes. I decided last minute, that I was going to dress up as CONSTANTINE. For those of you who don't know who CONSTANTINE is, he is basically an exorcist/detective with some powers from DC comics (pretty cool to say the least). Here is a picture of him below.

Picture that, but add a beard and longer hair and that was me.

Alright, enough of the CONSTANTINE stuff, i'm sure you guys understand now. Back to BUS N Beers, so at the bar/club I was kinda posted up with my buddy against a pull near the dance floor. We were just chatting and sipping our drinks, while kinda discussing, what the plan is for the after party. Anyways, some girl on the dance floor, moves towards me and is "EYE BALLING" the fuck at me. She is just starring at me and then she smiles. I smile back and move towards her slowly. She moves towards me as well. We being to start chatting.

Her: (Smirks at me an gives me a flirty smile)
Me: Hey, how's your night going?
Her: Good so far! You don't seem drunk enough for this pub crawl.
Me: Oh, i'm pretty drunk, but i've sobered up a little haha. You look a little drunk yourself
Her: Ya, i'm kinda drunk haha

So we continue to make small talk but the "odd" thing was, she couldn't keep her hands off. She was super touchy and flirty. She kept rubbing my arms and touching my hair. I continue to talk with her and I deep diver her about several topics including:

- School (She was a 4th year bio student, aspiring to become dentist)
- Nationality (She was Polish and could speak it the language good)
- Travel (She's been to Europe and plans to travel to Europe and South America)
- Work (She just started working as a personal trainer at my gym)
- Hobbies (She likes working out and she likes animals)

Well, me and this girl should just FUCK right now because I already love her, especially the fact that she's European, smart, she likes to workout, and she's a personal trainer.

I basically connect with her and relate to her on all these topics. We both had very similar interests.

So after all this deep diving, and her constantly touching me this whole time constantly, as well as me touching her, I decide to pull.

Me: Listen, i'm having an after party at my house. Come back with me
Her: (Pause) Where do you live?
Me: I live by the mall
Her: Oh you live by the mall? I work there at the gym
Me: haha really? I work out there all the time.
Her: Ya, I just started working there like 3 week ago, as a personal trainer.
Me: Oh, that's awesome! I wonder if we have ever seen each other there before.
Her: Oh I don't know, I don't if I ever seen you there, i'm still shadowing some of the trainers still.
Me: haha ya maybe, there is a lot of people that go there.

So, this above conversation is where i found out that she is a personal trainer at my gym, and works there. Now, girl kinda takes a step back now and tries to pull me into dance with her. I pull her back into me and say.

Me: Alright, let's get out of here.
Her: I don't if I can, my friends are here
Me: Listen, you can text your friends, they will be fine.
Her: Umm.... ya i guess.
Me: Okay, let's go.
Her: Mhmm, well it's still kinda early to leave, let's keep dancing.
Me: Listen, we've been drinking since 7, it's 12 now and it's been a long night.
Her: Ya I know, ur right.
Me: Okay, let's go back to my place, and relax a bit.

(Forget what happened here but I think the girl backed off randomly and tried pulling me to dance with her)

I think might of complied and I somehow ended up dancing with her. So me and the girl are dancing now, and the sexual tension is through the ROOF.

So, now i end up dancing with this girl for 3 songs and then I pull her into a room with couches. I tell her to sit and we both sit. She sits with her legs on top of my lap and she's touching my knees and tickling me. She is teasing me big time now. I'm touching her back all over as well. So we chat for like 5-10 minutes and then I try to pull again.

Her: I'm not sure where my coat is.
Me: Tell you what, will go find your coat, will grab mine and then will get out of here and go back to my place.
Her: Oh I don't know. I can't leave my friends.
Me: Listen, you can text your friends, they will be fine.
Her: No, there my ride home.
Me: Where do you live?
Her: XYZ
Me: Listen, will go back to my place and then you can take a cab home from place later. I'll give you money for a cab if you need it.
Her: No, I gotta go with my friends. Let's go dance

GIRLS GET UP, GRABS MY HAND AND BEGINS WALKING TO THE DANCE FLOOR.

I go dance with her for a few songs but now that i'm writing this report. WTF was I thinking????? I should of never left my stance, I should of been a stiff asswhole.

So after, a few songs of dancing, I pull her right back into the room with couches and say.

Me: Alright, listen let's get out of here. We can dance back at my place.
Her: No, I can't leave. My friends
Me: Your friends will be fine. You can text them if you like.
Her: I can't.
Me: Listen, just come back for 30 minutes. We don't have to do anything you don't want too. You can leave after those 30 minutes or can you stay longer if you'd like.
Her: Well, what are we gonna do for 30 minutes?
Me: We can sit back, relax, watching a movie and have a drink.
Her: I can't.... I Just can't. I don't usually go home with guys like this.
Me: Yes, you can. I know you like me and I know you want too. You wouldn't have asked me where I live earlier, if you didn't want too.
Her: Ohh, oh said I like you? and what I can't ask any questions?
Me: You wouldn't keep standing her and touching me if you didn't like me. And ya, you can ask questions, but when you ask where I live, your obviously interested in me. I'm not stupid.
Her: (smiles. Has nothing really to say)
Her: ahh I just can't. I don't just go home with guys like this
Me: Listen, I like you, think your cool but I know if we don't hangout after, then we probably won't ever see each other again and that's just usually how thins workout. I'm busy with exams soon and I won't have any time to do much.
Her: Well, I could give you my number if you want.
Me: Well, like I said, i'm busy with exams and I won't be able to hangout. I got a lot of things going on in my life.
Her: Well, I'll see you at the gym then probably.
Me: Well, maybe but I bet you we won't. I gym 3-5 times a week and we probably don't gym at the same time.
Her: What time do you go to the gym at?
Me: Usually 4
Her: Oh ya, maybe your right but I guess if it's meant to be, it's meant to be then.
Me: okay...
Her: let's go dance
(She begins to try and pull me to the dance floor, like forcefully, fucking bitch is strong for a girl that's 5 foot 3)

Whatever, I hold my stance and I try to pull her back. She begins to dance on the wall sexually and make sexual faces at me. I just stand my ground and kinda shake my head, like WTF LOL? She comes back to me and keeps try to pull me to the dance floor. I keep denying her because now it's almost like a power struggle going on. Shes try to pull me, i'm trying to pull her. It's all fucking games now.

I SHOULD OF JUST WALKED AWAY THIS POINT BUT WTF DO I DO? I FUCKING EVENTUALLY DANCE WITH HER BUT INSTEAD OF FUCKING DANCING. I THROW HER AGAINST THE WALL AND START GRABBING HER.

Her: Ohhh.... are you ticklish?
Me: Not really. Why?
Her: She begins to tickle me a bit and she puts her hand in my pants and then pulls out quickly (big tease)
Me: You know what I like to do to girls that tease me and tickle me?
Her: Oh what?
Me: I don't think you want to know
Her: oh ya?
Me: Ya, I like to rip them apart and break them
Her: Ohhhh yaa (big smirk on her face)
Me: Ya. I bet you'd like that
Her: Ya, I never said I wouldn't.
Me: (laughing)
Her: I got to find my coat, come with me
Me: Alright

We go grab her coat, she runs into her friend.

Her: Alright, I gotta leave with my friend.
Me: Listen, just come back to my place
Her: I can't. I can give you my number.
Me: Alright, well I can't take your number. My phone is dead. Take mine
(I put my # and name in her phone)
Me: Text me your name
Her: okay
Me: Were gonna grab a drink or bite soon
Her: haha alright
(I go to kiss her goodbye)

BITCH MOVES HER FACE AND WON'T KISS ME. SHE KISSES ME ON THE CHEST INSTEAD. SHE THEN SAYS OF OH JUST KIDDING!!! I LAUGH AND GO TO KISS HER AGAIN, SHE TURNS, KISSES ME ON THE NECK INSTEAD AND SAYS BYE. FUCK YOU BITCH

BTW, the girl has yet to text me and there is a 99% chance, I will run into this girl in the near future at my gym lol.

In conclusion:

Pros:
- I'm glad I wrote this report up because I do notice some of mistakes here and this will help me for the future

Cons:
- This girl was a fucking big tease
- secondly, I fucked up, i should of walked away earlier from this girl because she turned out to be a waste of time. Even though she was fucking hot and was so my type. Short cute European blonde, with a fit, sexy body and ass
- NEXT TIME BE MORE STIFF

 

[ray_zorse]

Enjoyed the read, props for persisting though you are right, Drexel Scott would prob say you rewarded her resistance. As mere mortal I hesitate as to whether I can be such a hardass without losing the interaction altogether, but I think it is indeed necessary, esp as u prob have the fundamentals to pull it off

One thing to keep in mind is Polish girls are generally pretty conservative Catholics, they are supposed to live at home with parents until marriage, not use birth control or have sex before marriage, ask their dad for permission to date guys etc... now in the real world most are DTF but some may buy into that shit more heavily than others (same problem w Vietnamese but I am trying not to let it affect my mindset since I may be unconsciously transmitting expectations of conservative behaviour, its very hard to not to do this though).

Next time you can say "kurwa mac"... mother of all whores! "nie chcem zatanczyc, chcem yebac"... I don't want to dance, I want to fuck! (like an animal)... hahaha haven't got a Polish kb here unfortunately but I can tell u pronunciation later hahaha

cheers, Ray

 

[RDawg]

- Ray

Glad you enjoyed the read. Ya, I believe Drexel would of said that lol, as he has told me that before. It was an unusual situation and I felt at time, that it might of been just best to walk away because it didn't seem like things were going anywhere after a certain point. The girl was teasing me "BIG" time throughout different points of the interaction. I felt like it might of been better to spend time on another girl after a certain extent but instead of doing that I continued to persist and eventually made a few mistakes. Funny thing is though, is that she added me on Facebook yesterday and I messaged her trying to set a meet up with her. She basically didn't give me a "clear" response if she could meet up or not, so I just left the things in her court to decide if she wants to meet up.

As far as Polish girls go, you are right. I went to high school with a few people that were Polish and they were conservative Catholics but not to any extremes like "no sex before marriage", or ask their dad for permission to "date. However, it probably does influence their sexuality and process of dating to some extent.

Hahahahahah! Ya, i'd love to hear the pronunciation later lmao!!!!!

- Rdawg

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Rdawg,

A pimp like always.


Could have fucked her somewhere in the venue or right outside the venue. If she's resisting to go home, make it easier for her "okay, for now let's just go outside and chat," then just pull her into some dark alleyway. Sounds sketchy, but it'll excite her and turn her on.

You shouldn't have acquiesced to her demands to dance. I submit to little shit like this all the time, but when we reflect on the encounter, we realize that it slowly gives her more and more investment points (she knows he has you and YOU get more interested in the chase). I'm going to write an article on this, but you should definitely look back on reports and see it from the girl's perspective, in every way you can. When I do this, I see SO MANY things wrong with my interactions.

From the looks of it, you almost got the lay, but her friend cockblocked. Perhaps prior to the run-in she gave her friend "the look," so maybe it was cooperative, but most likely the friend stepped in of her own accord. Females are silly.

Also, nix the farewell kiss; that was the final nail in the coffin, she knew she had you. What you should do instead, and this has worked on multiple occasions before and gotten a girl to COMPLETELY change her opinion of me and want to fuck me (but usually friends would cockblock at this point), is I say "alright, I'm gonna be real, we have an insane sexual connection right now. Kiss me just once and let's find out just how much we want each other; if it's not good, then we leave, no worries" (or some derivative of it; make it a short and sweet "now or never" moment). By the time I'm nearing the end of that last sentence, they're always about to eat my face. And when the kiss ignites our tension, they go nuts and want to fuck me. Actually going to try this a few more times and test it to see if it can finish the job.

Killer persistence, btw.

- Hector

 

[RDawg]

Rdawg,

A pimp like always.


Could have fucked her somewhere in the venue or right outside the venue. If she's resisting to go home, make it easier for her "okay, for now let's just go outside and chat," then just pull her into some dark alleyway. Sounds sketchy, but it'll excite her and turn her on.

You shouldn't have acquiesced to her demands to dance. I submit to little shit like this all the time, but when we reflect on the encounter, we realize that it slowly gives her more and more investment points (she knows he has you and YOU get more interested in the chase). I'm going to write an article on this, but you should definitely look back on reports and see it from the girl's perspective, in every way you can. When I do this, I see SO MANY things wrong with my interactions.

From the looks of it, you almost got the lay, but her friend cockblocked. Perhaps prior to the run-in she gave her friend "the look," so maybe it was cooperative, but most likely the friend stepped in of her own accord. Females are silly.

Also, nix the farewell kiss; that was the final nail in the coffin, she knew she had you. What you should do instead, and this has worked on multiple occasions before and gotten a girl to COMPLETELY change her opinion of me and want to fuck me (but usually friends would cockblock at this point), is I say "alright, I'm gonna be real, we have an insane sexual connection right now. Kiss me just once and let's find out just how much we want each other; if it's not good, then we leave, no worries" (or some derivative of it; make it a short and sweet "now or never" moment). By the time I'm nearing the end of that last sentence, they're always about to eat my face. And when the kiss ignites our tension, they go nuts and want to fuck me. Actually going to try this a few more times and test it to see if it can finish the job.

Killer persistence, btw.

- Hector

It never crossed my mind about fucking her in the venue or outside! This is something that I haven't really experienced or done yet. I need to do this next time!

Fuck I know man, I did something similar again with a girl last night. I submitted to her demands to dance and I basically lost this girl shortly after. I ended up giving her my number and nothing came out of it. Looking back at the interaction last night, I went from this "guy" that had super high value in eye's of the girl at the beginning, all the way to a lower value guy in her "eye's" by the end of the interaction. Hopefully you get that article up soon brother, because I think it would help a lot of people!

Ahhhhh, now that you say that about the friend..... Throughout our entire interaction, she quickly went up to her a friend a few times and said something, while we were dancing on the dance floor. Not sure what her and her friend said to each other but it probably did lead to her cock blocking possibly.

Yup, a big Fucking nail in the coffin lol. Oh, well I know better next time now haha!

"alright, I'm gonna be real, we have an insane sexual connection right now. Kiss me just once and let's find out just how much we want each other; if it's not good, then we leave, no worries" (or some derivative of it; make it a short and sweet "now or never" moment)." I will definitely try this out next time!!! haha this sounds awesome!

Thanks for the feedback brother! Much appreciated! I love your style and I constantly learn new things from reading your reports. Keep the articles and reports coming!

- Rdawg