A Dickhead attitude

[devlish]

Dear readers,

for around 4 years now I have know about game and used it to my advantage well by having a bunch of fun experiences and a hot girlfriend. Now that I am slightly more advanced, I realise that I subconsciously piss people off/irritate them. I believe some of this is due to me becoming more 'Dickheaded' (by reading stuff, e.g. how to be a bad boy... etc) because that helps you get girls, and some of this is just naturally in me, which is probably why I come across even more that way.

I tend to slowly create an air of aloofness among people that do not know me well at college. The thing is a lot of them know who I am because I go out a lot and I know a lot of people generally, so you could say I am popular but somewhat in a bad way.

I feel people interpret the way I carry myself as that I'm cool/above them which maybe creates this aloofness. Sometimes I have forcibly tried acting polite and nice without any success.

Could anyone suggest ways to make people view me as a warmer person, someone who would be more socially accepted, because I realise I have a strong character and can come across too strongly sometimes?

 

[trashKENNUT]

devlish,

Do not try to act nice. Never gonna work. Be nice and be warm by smiling. People will be intimidated and you can't really save anyone in a sense.

Also, some people just have that face that is "not supposed to be successful syndrome"

I never understood why i get treated so polarizing until it comes together years later.

Zac

 

[devlish]

cheers, your right zacadam, it must come across weird when i try and act nice lol, I have been doing this far too long without any success.
I have been speaking less and if contributing to a conversation or with a group of friends only saying things that are relevant and not our there so much. I think this has created a better impression to people.