FR A few approaches lately

[Definitely_not_a_gymrat]

Hey guys, this is a few approaches I did lately, few nightgame, one daygame session, just looking for feedback for anything I could have done better, not even in the interactions themselves, but if there are any ways to increase volume, or carry myself better energy wise.

NIGHTGAME:

Went out with a few friends, drank at the pregame, didn't even bother trying to order alcohol at the bar, I know people say you should order one drink to avoid looking like a cheapstake, but the reason I don't order a drink is because I genuinely feel like shit after drinking two sips of the bar drinks for some reason. Bar was a little packed, but not sufficiently packed to the max, upstairs floor was still relatively empty.

My main opener for the night was "can I pull you for a chat?"(popularized by a show called Love Island right now which is really popular, chick crack), and you guys look like you're scheming something/I was going to wear that outfit tonight(her outfit).

Spoiler: Approach 1

Went up to a girl near the bar, said "can I pull you for a chat?" She said she had a bf, but really liked the line, and told me I should use it on other girls. Tbh not much else to say here.

Spoiler: Approach 2

Saw a girl wearing a Jets outfit, and I said "you know the Jets suck right?" She immediately started bantering back, creating a bit of a flirty vibe between us. However, I asked to "pull her for a chat" to test for compliance and she said no, we exchanged names and I said that I would probably see her around tonight. Didn't see her again.

To my friends, it looked like a really good interaction, since she seemed to be giving lots of energy, however, I didn't get the compliance.

Spoiler: Approach 3

Probably the most receptive girl of the night. I see her looking at my friends and I, seeing as I was the most likely to approach, I went for it, told her she stole my outfit for tonight. Created a bit of banter back and forth. Then I asked her to pull her for a chat, she said yes, I led her to a seated area of the bar, and we had a bit of conversation. Convo was kinda dry, learned some basic things about her, used that to tease her, bar music was loud so it was hard to hear her.

Eventually, I ask her to dance, to create physical escalation, to which she says yes. I lead her, hand in hand, a bit further away.

Since she was compliant, I should have had the lay in the bag.

Well, her fat friend pulls her away from me, I'm not about to get in a tugging war, that looks very bad. Stand there a few seconds to see if she comes back to me, but she's just dancing with her friend, who is legit blocking her off from me or any other part of the bar. Fridge protecting the snacks, I just decided to move on.

Spoiler: Approach 4

Approached a girl at the bar, by saying that she stole my outfit. She was very receptive, so I asked to "pull her for a chat." She said she couldn't leave her friend till her bf came, but she was open to talking to me. We talked a bit, flirted, she was giving me her full body attention and everything, but I couldn't do anything, since she would not leave her friend. Took her number for later, told her "I know a good place where they ACTUALLY make good cocktails, Imma show you" before taking the number. Right before I left, took her in my hand, spun her and kissed her on the hand. She complied with that.

Saw her later, tried to convince her to come out to another bar with me, she said she couldn't because her friend/cousin(I can't remember tbh) was working at this bar.

Had a few more approaches that night, one that stood out was a bitchy girl(Ik Chase says not to call girls bitches, I'm not calling her a bitch, but she was acting a little bitchy to me asking 1-2 normal questions). I just turned my attention away from her, don't need all that.

A couple days later, went to the beach with some family friends, and said fuck it, imma approach one group of girls(I couldn't resist tbh). I did it in a way where it didn't attract too much attention.

Spoiler: Beach approach

Went up to a group of six girls, asked them where the bathroom is, and where I can get coffee. Used this to start a convo, told them I was from a different state, compared the beaches here.

I told one of the girls congrats, she thought it was because I guessed she was a bride, no I could see that the other girl was pregnant. Eventually I told them I was playing football with my friends, and that they were welcome to join.

One of them said "I don't think I'm very good, idk if ill join. Maybe ill join." I just shrugged and said ok. Eventually I realized it was time to go, said nice to meet you all.

While I was walking away I heard them giggling, one of them saying "I like the attention." Idk if this is a good thing or bad thing relating to my approach.

I did get the girl from apporach 4's number, texted her "Hey [name] nice meeting you last night. Ur never gonna guess what happened to me" as an attempt to tease her. She never responded. I texted her "dear diary, a cute girl vanished on me" still no response to that either.

Any major points I need to improve on? Any feedback welcome.

 

[average_daygamer]

Nice work on the six set.

Your last question about the text game, it's certainly galling when one doesn't hear back, isn't it.

One thing for text game is to send voice notes. If you are in the US, I believe WhatsApp isn't used, but there must be an SMS equivalent.

The last number I got didn't reply to my initial text or my follow-up, I even made a thread about it on here.

Try pinging the number with a photograph or a video message. You have nothing to lose, you could technically keep messaging her until she blocks you.

 

[Definitely_not_a_gymrat]

Nice work on the six set.

Thanks brother, could’ve gone for it more, kept it calm cuz I feel player accusations from my family friends.

Have done more with five and six sets.

Your last question about the text game, it's certainly galling when one doesn't hear back, isn't it.

Meh, depends, I tend to expect it from night game, but you never know what can happen.

One thing for text game is to send voice notes. If you are in the US, I believe WhatsApp isn't used, but there must be an SMS equivalent.

iMessage is used in America.

The last number I got didn't reply to my initial text or my follow-up, I even made a thread about it on here.

Try pinging the number with a photograph or a video message. You have nothing to lose, you could technically keep messaging her until she blocks you.

I could do that with the next number, I have no desire to text this number further, texted her twice without any response.