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Hey guys. Still relatively new to this but been seeing some success after reading and 'learning' the articles, patterns, lines, etc. Kinda have a few questions right now though:
1) What are the rules when it comes to multiple women? I understand pre-selection is important, but do we explicitly communicate this? I understand we SHOW it when we can, but say in the context of messaging / meeting a girl at a cafe?
Because I think flexing that you have many options / many women after you makes you look like a player instead, and I'm not sure if it would make the girl jealous or more turned off instead.
Context: I met a girl through online dating, managed to catch her eye, was obviously very different from the 500 other guys she met online and we went out. I escalated, made out and could've brought her home but I didn't (I'm not super attracted so not bedding her is fine with me anyway). Anyways, assuming I still want her as my gf for whatever reasons, if we talk about other guys/girls, should I be like "oh yeah I haven't been dating many others" or like "oh yeah there's too many girls, not enough of me for everyone" kinda vibe? (This is accepted since we met from a dating app anyway)
2) This question is gonna sound odd, but what are the criteria you use when deciding on a text message to send?
As an example: you know this girl really loves bread. As an opener message, do you say:
a) I love girls who love bread.
b) Bonus points for girls who love bread.
c) I have a thing for girls who love bread.
d) You look like you'd be a successful bread salesperson
e) the list goes on... thousands of permutations.
Current life situation makes me rely on online dating for a while. Will start going for day game as soon as I'm done with my commitments. But the point is, when I match with a REALLY cute girl, I want to "game" my messages to make sure she replies me and I get her. But I usually have trouble deciding which "path" or "permutation" to take.
Thank you for your inputs and your time.
Cheers,
S
1) What are the rules when it comes to multiple women? I understand pre-selection is important, but do we explicitly communicate this? I understand we SHOW it when we can, but say in the context of messaging / meeting a girl at a cafe?
Because I think flexing that you have many options / many women after you makes you look like a player instead, and I'm not sure if it would make the girl jealous or more turned off instead.
Context: I met a girl through online dating, managed to catch her eye, was obviously very different from the 500 other guys she met online and we went out. I escalated, made out and could've brought her home but I didn't (I'm not super attracted so not bedding her is fine with me anyway). Anyways, assuming I still want her as my gf for whatever reasons, if we talk about other guys/girls, should I be like "oh yeah I haven't been dating many others" or like "oh yeah there's too many girls, not enough of me for everyone" kinda vibe? (This is accepted since we met from a dating app anyway)
2) This question is gonna sound odd, but what are the criteria you use when deciding on a text message to send?
As an example: you know this girl really loves bread. As an opener message, do you say:
a) I love girls who love bread.
b) Bonus points for girls who love bread.
c) I have a thing for girls who love bread.
d) You look like you'd be a successful bread salesperson
e) the list goes on... thousands of permutations.
Current life situation makes me rely on online dating for a while. Will start going for day game as soon as I'm done with my commitments. But the point is, when I match with a REALLY cute girl, I want to "game" my messages to make sure she replies me and I get her. But I usually have trouble deciding which "path" or "permutation" to take.
Thank you for your inputs and your time.
Cheers,
S