A girl checking you out, but when I approach, she acts aloof.

[andersen09]

So I had these instances where a girl would check me out flat out without any fear. I can see her through my peripherals looking at me slyly. Other times, I'll look at her and she won't even flinch, to let me know "Yes, I'm checking you out, come talk to me". And these types of girls tend to me the very confident types, not the inexperienced kind where they just kind of stare at you in awe.

At times, I'll approach these girls who's blatantly checking me out and start talking to em. It's the types of girls that knows they are really pretty/sexy and have a snobby attitude a little bit. And when I do approach, they'll act very aloof and say very minimum words, despite the fact that she knows that I know, she was just checking me out without any shame. It's happened past 2 or 3 times. It got me scratching my head a little bit.

Any inputs?

 

[foggy]

It's a test. Maintain your frame through her aloofness - this will show her that you are a confident man. Once she realizes you're not going anywhere and that you're not like the rest of the guys who fall deep in a hole with no ladder when presented with her challenge, she will open up.

Also if they are blatantly checking you out, they made it very easy for you to come up and talk to them and now they are trying to make it a little bit harder for you to compensate. It's a game.

 

[andersen09]

It's a test. Maintain your frame through her aloofness - this will show her that you are a confident man. Once she realizes you're not going anywhere and that you're not like the rest of the guys who fall deep in a hole with no ladder when presented with her challenge, she will open up.

Also if they are blatantly checking you out, they made it very easy for you to come up and talk to them and now they are trying to make it a little bit harder for you to compensate. It's a game.

Thanks backstory.

You consistently have good inputs.