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Haha! Alright.... I'm gonna tell you guys a story about a girl I've been talking to lately.
Met this girl on Facebook. She was looking for a party. We kinda hit it off... exchanged numbers, but never met. A few weeks later, I texted her and was deep diving her. Had a good chat but made no plans to hang out with her. Then, probably months later, she texts me randomly. The conversation was flirty, but once again, no plans were made to hang out or anything. I said goodnight. Then, she texts me, "come cuddle." The next day I continued the conversation and it was relatively flirty, we were talking over text for a few days, it became increasingly sexual...then we didn't talk for a week or so. Then, we started talking again and we made plans to hang out. Exceeept, every time she said she was gonna come over to my house, she'd just start ignoring me....and when I'd ask her about it, she said she would just have gotten busy or something like that. This happened like twice.
We both went home to our hometowns over the holidays but kept talking. She really wanted to meet me and kept on talking about dating me. What!! You want to date? I haven't even met you yet... we were talking on the phone lots. I teased her a little bit toooo much. She kept on telling me i was mean.
So, after the holidays, we both came back. She kept telling me she really wanted to meet me. We live close to each other. When we were both back in town, we made plans to hang out with each other. But the same sorta thing happened as before. She kept ditching me and then saying "Oh I just got busy." Like one time she said she was gonna come over after my classes. Then after my classes she says "I'll come over after I shower and clean." Then after she did that she said "I'm just gonna come over tomorrow". So after that, I actually let her know how much my time is important to me. Then we talked on the phone right after that and her voice was ridiculously sexual. There was so much sexual tension in that phone call. Afterwards, I decided to do a little bit of a push and just kinda repeatedly pushed her to come over to my place. First I was a little bit logical in why she should come to my place but then switched and was being more emotionally persuasive. She ended up coming over to my place, we watched some movies, had some fun, slept, had some more fun in the morning, then she left my place.
And now she barely won't even talk to me! When I text her I'm only getting one word replies from her.
I will admit I have gained a little bit of feelings towards her. I don't really want to see her again, but I thought it was weird how this chick could invest so much time into me and tell me she wanted to date me, and stuff like that (when she hadn't even met me), but then when it comes time to hang out, I really gottta push her to hang out with me.
I realize I was doing a few things wrong. Overall though, an interesting experience for sure. Just wanted to let you guys know about it. The valuable experience I gained from this was when I did the hard push to get her to come over to my place. Also, girls are silly weird creatures, i gotta remember that.
i feel like maybe shes the type of girl who looks through her phone contacts and decides "okay I'm going to try to date this guy"
Any observations, comments are welcomed, I could go into deeper detail if need be.
Met this girl on Facebook. She was looking for a party. We kinda hit it off... exchanged numbers, but never met. A few weeks later, I texted her and was deep diving her. Had a good chat but made no plans to hang out with her. Then, probably months later, she texts me randomly. The conversation was flirty, but once again, no plans were made to hang out or anything. I said goodnight. Then, she texts me, "come cuddle." The next day I continued the conversation and it was relatively flirty, we were talking over text for a few days, it became increasingly sexual...then we didn't talk for a week or so. Then, we started talking again and we made plans to hang out. Exceeept, every time she said she was gonna come over to my house, she'd just start ignoring me....and when I'd ask her about it, she said she would just have gotten busy or something like that. This happened like twice.
We both went home to our hometowns over the holidays but kept talking. She really wanted to meet me and kept on talking about dating me. What!! You want to date? I haven't even met you yet... we were talking on the phone lots. I teased her a little bit toooo much. She kept on telling me i was mean.
So, after the holidays, we both came back. She kept telling me she really wanted to meet me. We live close to each other. When we were both back in town, we made plans to hang out with each other. But the same sorta thing happened as before. She kept ditching me and then saying "Oh I just got busy." Like one time she said she was gonna come over after my classes. Then after my classes she says "I'll come over after I shower and clean." Then after she did that she said "I'm just gonna come over tomorrow". So after that, I actually let her know how much my time is important to me. Then we talked on the phone right after that and her voice was ridiculously sexual. There was so much sexual tension in that phone call. Afterwards, I decided to do a little bit of a push and just kinda repeatedly pushed her to come over to my place. First I was a little bit logical in why she should come to my place but then switched and was being more emotionally persuasive. She ended up coming over to my place, we watched some movies, had some fun, slept, had some more fun in the morning, then she left my place.
And now she barely won't even talk to me! When I text her I'm only getting one word replies from her.
I will admit I have gained a little bit of feelings towards her. I don't really want to see her again, but I thought it was weird how this chick could invest so much time into me and tell me she wanted to date me, and stuff like that (when she hadn't even met me), but then when it comes time to hang out, I really gottta push her to hang out with me.
I realize I was doing a few things wrong. Overall though, an interesting experience for sure. Just wanted to let you guys know about it. The valuable experience I gained from this was when I did the hard push to get her to come over to my place. Also, girls are silly weird creatures, i gotta remember that.
i feel like maybe shes the type of girl who looks through her phone contacts and decides "okay I'm going to try to date this guy"
Any observations, comments are welcomed, I could go into deeper detail if need be.
