FR A slap in the face

[weekendwarrior]

Hi Guys,

I went out at the weekend and met some crazy chick. She was an alternative/goth chick with purple hair, extremely hot, the hottest chick in the club and she knew it. We made eye contact a few times across the smoky room, exchanged warm smiles, I first went to approach, and her friends dragged her away. She danced near and bumped into me, so I opened her, and she hooked quickly.

We went outside to talk while she smoked, her friends came, and gate crashed interrupting us. I tried to win over her friends and think I done well, I run out of steam with all the interruptions, noted she was busy with her friends and left her to it. It’s a small one roomed club, she can find me easy enough.

I started talking and dancing with this other chick, the purple haired chick came back and started bumping into me again to get my attention. We hung out for a while and things were going well until she demanded I bought her a drink.

H: Buy me a drink
M: You know where the bar is if you want a drink (joking grin)
H: Do you know how many guys here will buy me a drink? (Very serious tone)
M: Well, go and get one of them to buy you one then (joking grin)
H: Either you buy me a drink or I'll get someone else too (very serious tone)
M: Well get someone else to then, I'm not buying you a drink
H: Do you know how many guys in here would just buy me a drink?
M: Ask on of them to buy you a drink then
she BITCH SLAPPED me… I couldn't believe it

I was totally in shock that it happened, I can't remember what was said or why I even continued talking to her. She went to slap me again, but I caught her arm and put it behind her back quicker than she knew what was happening. She was very turned on at this, I guess most guys let her get away with this. She apologised and asked me to buy her a drink again! I told her I wasn't buying a chick that slapped me a drink, she gave up and went to dance. She kept dancing near me, but I lost all interest in her.

Warrior

 

[StrayDog]

auto rejection makes some bitches act a damn fool. She wanted you, not a drink. She is so used to getting drinks as a sign a guy is into her that she associated you rejecting her request with you rejecting her. She clearly has no game, pressuring you from that one angle like like "buy me a drink buy me a drink buy me a drink"

I started talking and dancing with this other chick, the purple haired chick came back and started bumping into me again to get my attention. We hung out for a while and things were going well until she demanded I bought her a drink.

The interaction probably needed to move at this point (as things were going really well) and since you weren't moving things this was her way of trying to move things forward.

When a girl is clearly interested in me and asks for a drink just as means to get closer. I usually play it something like this
Me: Do I look like the kind of guy who can afford to buy drinks for everyone who asks, just willy-nilly?
Her: YES!
Me: Shit, I need to stop shopping in the fancy section of goodwill. (change the subject/ qualify her) Hey, let's hit the dance floor I know you got some killer moves

If she still insists on a drink, I might be more upfront "Look it's fun talking and we can keep hanging out but it's starting to feel like you're only in this for a free drink." If she really is just fishing for a drink it will become very clear. If not hopefully she has the instincts to change her failed seduction strategy.

I was totally in shock that it happened, I can't remember what was said or why I even continued talking to her. She went to slap me again, but I caught her arm and put it behind her back quicker than she knew what was happening. She was very turned on at this, I guess most guys let her get away with this. She apologised and asked me to buy her a drink again!

Probably could have taken her to a hidden corner and fucked her right then and there. Something like "OH you like playing rough I see. We might have to go work this out somewhere in private. I am sure we can come up with a reasonable solution" (said with clear sexual intent, and leading her to the bathroom). How drunk was this girl anyway? She is clearly trouble if this is how she flirts. Maybe could have been a fun time though, if you are brave enough to go there (and she wasn't actually just sloppy drunk)

 

[weekendwarrior]

Thanks @StrayDog before this chick demanded a drink I was moving things forward, she just came back to me and I moved her of the dance floor to the side where it's less chaotic. This was to get her away from her friends before they pulled her away again, the bar was taking us back to the chaos and back to her friends.

When a girl is clearly interested in me and asks for a drink just as means to get closer. I usually play it something like this
Me: Do I look like the kind of guy who can afford to buy drinks for everyone who asks, just willy-nilly?
Her: YES!
Me: Shit, I need to stop shopping in the fancy section of goodwill. (change the subject/ qualify her) Hey, let's hit the dance floor I know you got some killer moves

Thanks a lot for the conversation example! Really appreciated, I'll use this the next time this happens!

Probably could have taken her to a hidden corner and fucked her right then and there. Something like "OH you like playing rough I see. We might have to go work this out somewhere in private. I am sure we can come up with a reasonable solution"

I thought this when I noticed how turned on she was but she didn't stick about long before saying she was going to the dance floor. I didn't think fast enough for this transition.

At this point she didn't seem that drunk, a couple hours later she was extremely drunk and I wouldn't have took her home anyway. Definitely too drunk to fuck.

I do think this is how she flirts, another guy tried talking to her and she pushed him. He went flying back a few steps crashing in to the wall and he didn't do anything about it. She tried pushing me earlier but I didn't budge, I think it turned her on that I wouldn't put up with her bull shit.

Warrior

 

[ulrich]

Sounds super weird. She might be a freeloader.

I think you dodged a bullet there.

 

[Don Giovanni]

I did laugh a bit

When I get hit with this kinda questions I ussually try to turn things around…

H: Buy me a drink
DG: Maybe… Wait a minute, why don’t you buy me a drink?
H: Do you realize how many guys will buy me a drink here?
DG: Do you realize how many girls will buy ME a drink here? Do you think this dick is free?
H: hahaha (usualy)

Of course with a witty smile all of the time. But who knows, maybe you would get slapped even harder

 

[StrayDog]

I did laugh a bit

When I get hit with this kinda questions I ussually try to turn things around…

H: Buy me a drink
DG: Maybe… Wait a minute, why don’t you buy me a drink?
H: Do you realize how many guys will buy me a drink here?
DG: Do you realize how many girls will buy ME a drink here? Do you think this dick is free?
H: hahaha (usualy)

Of course with a witty smile all of the time. But who knows, maybe you would get slapped even harder

Never done this switch it on her technique (gonna give it a go next time), but I have become rather adept at getting women to buy drinks. Often by their own volition, though sometimes per my request. It's way easier than one might think. I have had women remark something to the effect of "Usually guys are buying ME drinks. You must have a cheat code or something"

I do think this is how she flirts, another guy tried talking to her and she pushed him. He went flying back a few steps crashing in to the wall

This girl is a riot! What a trip to be on...

 

[Don Giovanni]

Never done this switch it on her technique (gonna give it a go next time), but I have become rather adept at getting women to buy drinks.

The goal here is not get her to buy you drinks but to pass her shit test. Agree with the rest you said.

 

[StrayDog]

The goal here is not get her to buy you drinks but to pass her shit test.

I'm picking up what you're throwing down

 

[StrayDog]

Since we are on the topic of "buy me a drink" shit tests. Another response that has worked well is
"Okay, but only if you buy me a pony"
It is absurd and unexpected and usually gets a good laugh. It also highlights the absurdity of asking a relative stranger to buy you anything at all. Deflates the whole thing in a humorous way. If she pushes against it you can stick to your guns in a playful way and pretty quickly transition out of the topic of anyone buying anyone anything.

 

[weekendwarrior]

I did laugh a bit

When I get hit with this kinda questions I ussually try to turn things around…

H: Buy me a drink
DG: Maybe… Wait a minute, why don’t you buy me a drink?
H: Do you realize how many guys will buy me a drink here?
DG: Do you realize how many girls will buy ME a drink here? Do you think this dick is free?
H: hahaha (usualy)

Of course with a witty smile all of the time. But who knows, maybe you would get slapped even harder

Thanks @Don Giovanni the demand for a drink happened twice, I only written about the second one that resulted in the slap. The first time I basically said your conversation write up except I didn't say the line about do you think this dick is free.

I thought I got out of this situation until she went back to demanding a drink again a minute later.

Warrior

 

[weekendwarrior]

An update for this chick, she was out the following week and this time with a guy that was clearly in the friend zone the night I met her. I noticed he bought her a drink and I wouldn't be surprised if he bank rolled her entire night.

She was dancing with him and made her way closer to me. This was a failed jealousy plot, my wing noticed she was desperate for my attention. I wasn't jealous, I was turned off. At one point acting drunk she threw her hands in the air, spun round a couple times but put her hands on/round my shoulders and tried to dance with me. I didn't react or look interested in it, the friend zone guy looked so annoyed. He quickly pulled her off me.

I didn't give her any attention and just enjoyed my night. She left the venue leaving the friend zone guy who later stormed out on his own.

Definitely think I've dodged a bullet with this chick!

Warrior