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One good way to reduce the chances of running into LMR is to make a girl really want it. Tease her. And I don't just mean once you already have her isolated. I mean throughout the date(s) in general. Take your time, enjoy her company. Take your mind off fucking her, and just worry about having a good time. If you adopt this mindset, what you'll notice if you're at least somewhat decent at reading her signals is that she'll eventually seem receptive to make a move on her. That is, she'll want you to kiss her, isolate her or more. Don't do this. Just casually keep going on with the date. It's important to note that you have to be a sexual guy/your interaction has to have a sexual vibe to it. She has to know that it's not that you're afraid to make a move, but rather, you're simply choosing not to because you're too busy amusing yourself. Without this ingredient, she'll just feel frustrated or like "you don't get it", and you'll have missed an escalation window.
This probably seems kind of abstract to most of you, so I'll give a more concrete example from my most recent LR. There was a point on which we were exploring one of the nearby University campuses, and I asked her if she wanted to grab drinks in a bit (it was implied that it would either be at her place or at mine because she wasn't of drinking age yet. Which in girl's mind codes the same as "want to have sex with me"). She said she'd be down. So basically, she just told me she's dtf. Instead of saying "ok, lets go", I just said "ok, cool we'll go in a bit, lets keep exploring". This was after we've already talked about sex, past sexual experiences, had some light makeouts (which I ended). So there was already lots of sexual tension. Eventually, we got to a nearby pond, I pull her hair down which caused her head to tilt up and kissed her again. After which, she pretty much completely lost it cause she was so turned on. She gave me the sex eyes and told me "let's go get that beer now".
Sure, she was dtf before. But now that I put it off and teased her, she wants me so bad that there's no way she'll give me LMR. Moreover, now it almost looks like it was her idea to go fuck, not mine. Cause she's the one who suggested we go "right now".
I don't recommend this to beginners. Most beginners don't know how to create a sexual vibe yet, and will probably use this as an excuse not to make a move when they should. If you're still working on building up your boldness/courage, make a move as soon as you see the opportunity. This is only for those who have already made some strides in seduction.
This probably seems kind of abstract to most of you, so I'll give a more concrete example from my most recent LR. There was a point on which we were exploring one of the nearby University campuses, and I asked her if she wanted to grab drinks in a bit (it was implied that it would either be at her place or at mine because she wasn't of drinking age yet. Which in girl's mind codes the same as "want to have sex with me"). She said she'd be down. So basically, she just told me she's dtf. Instead of saying "ok, lets go", I just said "ok, cool we'll go in a bit, lets keep exploring". This was after we've already talked about sex, past sexual experiences, had some light makeouts (which I ended). So there was already lots of sexual tension. Eventually, we got to a nearby pond, I pull her hair down which caused her head to tilt up and kissed her again. After which, she pretty much completely lost it cause she was so turned on. She gave me the sex eyes and told me "let's go get that beer now".
Sure, she was dtf before. But now that I put it off and teased her, she wants me so bad that there's no way she'll give me LMR. Moreover, now it almost looks like it was her idea to go fuck, not mine. Cause she's the one who suggested we go "right now".
I don't recommend this to beginners. Most beginners don't know how to create a sexual vibe yet, and will probably use this as an excuse not to make a move when they should. If you're still working on building up your boldness/courage, make a move as soon as you see the opportunity. This is only for those who have already made some strides in seduction.
