Abundance is a BIG deal!

[girlsfollow]

Just wanted to backup what chase said about abundance. My question would be what to do in the face of this (if there is anything that can be done!) because with hyper abundance environments like tinder the girls have no interest in being a girlfriend etc . I'm guessing the answer would be to not try fighting the abundance - just steer clear of it when its biased against you - so when possible avoid the internet and avoid clubs where there are M>F... maybe focus on daygame and activities - meetup events etc

Went on holiday in germany and hooked up with 2 smoking hot girls in the space of one week... on a beach! (plenty of other potentials if I had wanted)

These type of girls in the city would have been totally different - but there they were friendly and warm and receptive (though there was lots still of the classic LMR!). One of them is a virgin too, though we didn't go all the way properly. Could post LR's if theres interest.

Anyone else experienced this kind of change - particularly marked when compared to tinder where the girls have such inflated egos - I met a asian girl on there - she was very sexually open and did some very cool stuff on skype for me to lure me in - but in person she was short very average BUT uptight acting like she is a smoking hot top end girl - I made my excuses and left, but I know she has hoards of quality guys chasing her!

 

[trashKENNUT]

girlsfollow,

Glad you have a great vacation.

Internet girls are like that. Validation from internet can screw girls mindset. But yea..

Zac

 

[PinotNoir]

Dude, completely agree. Just this past weekend, I had more success with women during the day that were busy because obviously didn't use Tinder.

I will still continue to use Tinder just as a interesting thing on the side, and it keeps me mentally in check by thinking, "Okay, look man, there are hoards of beautiful women out here; don't get stuck on one if she isn't texting/calling you back."

For me, the best type of women are during the day (who don't frequent bars/clubs; if they look a bit busy and are NOT on their phone, this is actually a good sign!) and/or are a bit older than myself. These women tend to have less of this abundance mentality and are generally more giddy about you asking them out and dating.

But, when you get more experience and abundance, I assume any type of girl gets easier and easier, but this is just my assumption.