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Game goes beyond picking up girls …
Game goes beyond shagging tons of chicks
It goes beyond tactics.
Most people when they hear game think of the tactics mostly.
But game is more than that for the skilled artist who knows his stuff .
Game gives you aces in the hole in situations where chicks would have easily checkmated you.
Most will rely on game for the tactics …ignoring what makes the tactics work.
Or give short-shrift to the thinking and mental models one should adopt if he’s to make the tactics work.
For instance, you can’t walk away from situations that don’t do it for you if you don’t have an abundance mindset.
You can’t pick up or meet hotties if you think of yourself as lowly.
You can’t stand rejection if you don’t build resiliency in yourself.
Heck, you can’t appreciate game if you don’t believe in asymmetric returns.
You’d see guys bash their heads against the wall again and again …
Others just quit because they couldn’t make it work.
And hey, if something isn’t working, it’s because you’re doing something wrong.
Usually.
And most of the time, the “doing something wrong’’ part comes down to your thinking.
It could be you hold unhelpful beliefs or mental models that chain you back inside the box.
Could be that you didn’t understand and did it wrong anyways.
99% of the time though it has to do with your thinking.
I’m not saying with good thinking you’ll win every single time.
I’m saying it does help if you are going to make things work …at least, consistently.
But I wasn’t set to write on that when I started tapping my keyboard.
I was thinking of something else.
And it’s got to do with this part
But game is more than that for the skilled artist who knows his stuff.
Game gives you aces in the hole in situations where chicks would have easily checkmated you.
Most chicks beat guys at game, by far.
And it’s kinda funny that most gals do it unknowingly.
Of course, you have got girls that do it consciously.
Say, she’s been doing this one thing with guys and suddenly guys just lavish her with attention (what women want).
She’ll keep doing that and get more attention from more guys as she wishes.
Whether she learned that one thing from a friend, a blog post somewhere that she read, or just came up with it, doesn’t matter.
She’s doing it consciously now.
Why? Because it works, silly!
One thing that comes to mind for instance:
Girls will dangle their pussy or give guys hope that they can get them by sexually or blatantly flirting with them.
They are dangling carrots and donkeys keep pulling the cart.
I didn’t call anyone not in the know a donkey btw.
It just aptly fits what I’m getting at.
Dangling carrots works because donkeys love carrots, you could say .
We want that that is unreachable yet within our reach .
It’s baked in our nature.
And girls will keep doing this because they know it works.
They know that guys will stick around if they believe they can get them.
And how do you make them believe they can get you , you ask a girl
(Lol, girls won’t tell you this…don’t shoot the messenger )
You make them believe they can get you by always dangling the carrot.
Now , guys stick around and finally they get to bite and chew the carrot.
Most of the time though the carrot keeps swingin’ back and forth…
Forth and back.
And sadly, these guys never get to bite.
How sad that these guys believed just lavishing her with attention…
Sitting there listening and just being by her side will make her pick them over other guys.
Of course, you should be an active listener …
You shouldn’t be listening if you aren’t moving things forward though.
You wind up being just a normal guy to her who is no fun.
You couldn’t break her out of her routine.
And her being a good gal decides to keep you around while still being nice with you.
Niceness that you mistake for interest.
Some will flirt with you , if flirts is what they are,and hint at sex but will never go to bed with you .
Not in a million years.
It shouldn’t be this way though.
And this is where game comes into play .
A skilled artist will have seen it before the girl played her hand.
He’s got his thinking down -pat.
He isn’t thinking that by sticking around and lavishing the chick with attention ,he’ll get into her pants.
He may keep things on a good note while meeting other chicks meanwhile.
And he may get her later on down the line.
But he isn’t betting on that.
This way he doesn’t grow in need of her.
This way he acts against his nature.
It’s hard to chase chicks, at least for him, if he is meeting other girls.
But most of all, he knows that chasing isn’t good a move.
Deep down he knows that the more you chase them, the more they run away.
Thanks, Chase.
If he gets the gal later on, if he does,it’s because he made a good move…
The right move.
He didn’t grow needy of her …he didn’t chase her down to make things happen.
There is an element to making things happen without chasing but that’s for another post.
What I’m getting at is that game affords you aces.
You’d see guys get a girl to bed then lose it after getting into a relationship with the chick.
You still need game after bedding her, converting her…hell, after making her your partner .
Hence my words at the start of this post.
Game will keep helping you every single time.
You’d see guys stick in sexless relationships…never walking away while the gal gets it from other guys or just keeps turning him down because she is “not in the mood”.
Guys that were once ladykillers can lose their choice with women after abandoning game.
Tigers tamed into cats.
You’d see guys get walked over by their partners …get treated like doormats
And they don’t mind it.
It’s not that they just don’t care …
It’s just that they don’t demand respect for themselves.
If I demand respect, I won’t be getting any tonight .
They think.
Been seeing a video online …can’t tell if it’s viral
But you’ve got this chick that says that she can’t spread her legs open for guys that won’t do her dishes .
Then the video goes on to show a guy doing the dishes …dozens,dozens and dozens of them in a rush to go get his “reward”
It’s hilarious and pitiful at the same time that you’ve got comments in the video of guys getting excited over cooch.
I can bet the farm you’d get guys out there doing far worse things…
Just to get box.
Truly , truly Napoleon Hill was right –
“ So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that men freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge it.”
The skilled artist got choice thanks to game .
And having this choice is available to just about everyone who has the willingness in him to learn.
I don’t care if the future seems bleak …girls may be rejecting you left,right and center right now .Stick in there .
By and large,you’ll figure things out .
It’s not guaranteed but for sure you can get things to work.
And it all comes down to what environment you put yourself in,who do you learn from,how much do you practice etc .
But I want you to know that you are not other guys to get walked over and get treated like a doormat.
And always know that you can act against your nature.
You can choose to be the one dangling the carrot.
Now don’t go and lead girls on.
But you know what I mean .
I wish I could write more about this but this post is getting longer .
May circle back and add something more but for now I want you to know that once you understand women ,you’ll never have to be in situations you can’t take yourself out of or maneuver intelligently around .
In a world where women have lost hope about meeting a fun guy that knows what he is doing …a guy that won’t fall for her “tricks” but instead grin and make things happen …
You can get to be the guy that has the last laugh.
I don’t say that to mean you hurt them .
Do leave them better than you found them
—---------------------------------------------
If your needs aren’t being met …
If she doesn’t do it for you anymore…
If she’s crazy and it’s a Whirlwind Of Chaos with her …
If she’s a (insert anything negative)
Believe me , you can have a choice to walk away .
You can get to do things on your own terms.
And game affords you that .
Internalize the tactics,the tech ….everything .
But most importantly, be able to pull out those aces when you need them.
Chad Tyrone
Game goes beyond shagging tons of chicks
It goes beyond tactics.
Most people when they hear game think of the tactics mostly.
But game is more than that for the skilled artist who knows his stuff .
Game gives you aces in the hole in situations where chicks would have easily checkmated you.
Most will rely on game for the tactics …ignoring what makes the tactics work.
Or give short-shrift to the thinking and mental models one should adopt if he’s to make the tactics work.
For instance, you can’t walk away from situations that don’t do it for you if you don’t have an abundance mindset.
You can’t pick up or meet hotties if you think of yourself as lowly.
You can’t stand rejection if you don’t build resiliency in yourself.
Heck, you can’t appreciate game if you don’t believe in asymmetric returns.
You’d see guys bash their heads against the wall again and again …
Others just quit because they couldn’t make it work.
And hey, if something isn’t working, it’s because you’re doing something wrong.
Usually.
And most of the time, the “doing something wrong’’ part comes down to your thinking.
It could be you hold unhelpful beliefs or mental models that chain you back inside the box.
Could be that you didn’t understand and did it wrong anyways.
99% of the time though it has to do with your thinking.
I’m not saying with good thinking you’ll win every single time.
I’m saying it does help if you are going to make things work …at least, consistently.
But I wasn’t set to write on that when I started tapping my keyboard.
I was thinking of something else.
And it’s got to do with this part
But game is more than that for the skilled artist who knows his stuff.
Game gives you aces in the hole in situations where chicks would have easily checkmated you.
Most chicks beat guys at game, by far.
And it’s kinda funny that most gals do it unknowingly.
Of course, you have got girls that do it consciously.
Say, she’s been doing this one thing with guys and suddenly guys just lavish her with attention (what women want).
She’ll keep doing that and get more attention from more guys as she wishes.
Whether she learned that one thing from a friend, a blog post somewhere that she read, or just came up with it, doesn’t matter.
She’s doing it consciously now.
Why? Because it works, silly!
One thing that comes to mind for instance:
Girls will dangle their pussy or give guys hope that they can get them by sexually or blatantly flirting with them.
They are dangling carrots and donkeys keep pulling the cart.
I didn’t call anyone not in the know a donkey btw.
It just aptly fits what I’m getting at.
Dangling carrots works because donkeys love carrots, you could say .
We want that that is unreachable yet within our reach .
It’s baked in our nature.
And girls will keep doing this because they know it works.
They know that guys will stick around if they believe they can get them.
And how do you make them believe they can get you , you ask a girl
(Lol, girls won’t tell you this…don’t shoot the messenger )
You make them believe they can get you by always dangling the carrot.
Now , guys stick around and finally they get to bite and chew the carrot.
Most of the time though the carrot keeps swingin’ back and forth…
Forth and back.
And sadly, these guys never get to bite.
How sad that these guys believed just lavishing her with attention…
Sitting there listening and just being by her side will make her pick them over other guys.
Of course, you should be an active listener …
You shouldn’t be listening if you aren’t moving things forward though.
You wind up being just a normal guy to her who is no fun.
You couldn’t break her out of her routine.
And her being a good gal decides to keep you around while still being nice with you.
Niceness that you mistake for interest.
Some will flirt with you , if flirts is what they are,and hint at sex but will never go to bed with you .
Not in a million years.
It shouldn’t be this way though.
And this is where game comes into play .
A skilled artist will have seen it before the girl played her hand.
He’s got his thinking down -pat.
He isn’t thinking that by sticking around and lavishing the chick with attention ,he’ll get into her pants.
He may keep things on a good note while meeting other chicks meanwhile.
And he may get her later on down the line.
But he isn’t betting on that.
This way he doesn’t grow in need of her.
This way he acts against his nature.
It’s hard to chase chicks, at least for him, if he is meeting other girls.
But most of all, he knows that chasing isn’t good a move.
Deep down he knows that the more you chase them, the more they run away.
Thanks, Chase.
If he gets the gal later on, if he does,it’s because he made a good move…
The right move.
He didn’t grow needy of her …he didn’t chase her down to make things happen.
There is an element to making things happen without chasing but that’s for another post.
What I’m getting at is that game affords you aces.
You’d see guys get a girl to bed then lose it after getting into a relationship with the chick.
You still need game after bedding her, converting her…hell, after making her your partner .
Hence my words at the start of this post.
Game will keep helping you every single time.
You’d see guys stick in sexless relationships…never walking away while the gal gets it from other guys or just keeps turning him down because she is “not in the mood”.
Guys that were once ladykillers can lose their choice with women after abandoning game.
Tigers tamed into cats.
You’d see guys get walked over by their partners …get treated like doormats
And they don’t mind it.
It’s not that they just don’t care …
It’s just that they don’t demand respect for themselves.
If I demand respect, I won’t be getting any tonight .
They think.
Been seeing a video online …can’t tell if it’s viral
But you’ve got this chick that says that she can’t spread her legs open for guys that won’t do her dishes .
Then the video goes on to show a guy doing the dishes …dozens,dozens and dozens of them in a rush to go get his “reward”
It’s hilarious and pitiful at the same time that you’ve got comments in the video of guys getting excited over cooch.
I can bet the farm you’d get guys out there doing far worse things…
Just to get box.
Truly , truly Napoleon Hill was right –
“ So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that men freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge it.”
The skilled artist got choice thanks to game .
And having this choice is available to just about everyone who has the willingness in him to learn.
I don’t care if the future seems bleak …girls may be rejecting you left,right and center right now .Stick in there .
By and large,you’ll figure things out .
It’s not guaranteed but for sure you can get things to work.
And it all comes down to what environment you put yourself in,who do you learn from,how much do you practice etc .
But I want you to know that you are not other guys to get walked over and get treated like a doormat.
And always know that you can act against your nature.
You can choose to be the one dangling the carrot.
Now don’t go and lead girls on.
But you know what I mean .
I wish I could write more about this but this post is getting longer .
May circle back and add something more but for now I want you to know that once you understand women ,you’ll never have to be in situations you can’t take yourself out of or maneuver intelligently around .
In a world where women have lost hope about meeting a fun guy that knows what he is doing …a guy that won’t fall for her “tricks” but instead grin and make things happen …
You can get to be the guy that has the last laugh.
I don’t say that to mean you hurt them .
Do leave them better than you found them
—---------------------------------------------
If your needs aren’t being met …
If she doesn’t do it for you anymore…
If she’s crazy and it’s a Whirlwind Of Chaos with her …
If she’s a (insert anything negative)
Believe me , you can have a choice to walk away .
You can get to do things on your own terms.
And game affords you that .
Internalize the tactics,the tech ….everything .
But most importantly, be able to pull out those aces when you need them.
Chad Tyrone
