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Fusion

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Couple nights ago buddy of mine wanted to go out to the club. I usually don't do nightgame but I've been wanting to practice kino and sex talk so I thought this would be the perfect opportunity.

Had a bottle of wine to pregame and headed out.

When we got there we started making our way around checking the place out. Talked to a couple different girls but nothing of interest happened.

I have just recently become familiar with recognizing IOIs. I feel this is partly because I've been working on my fundamentals so girls are finally starting to give me them.

Anyway, I walk into a new room and I see this girl eye fucking me hard from across the room. I'm going to call her snap because she was wearing this Toronto raptors snapback which I found oddly attractive. I didn't have time to think of what to say, I just kept walking towards her. She's standing at the bar. I greet her with a smile and put my hand on her lower back.

Fusion: Youre really cute, whats your name?
Snap: name
Fusion: I'm fusion.

I go to shake her hand and just hold it for a couple seconds while making eye contact. She smiles back and moves closer to me. She bumps her hand into mine and just keeps it there. She moved her leg so it was touching mine as well. We make small talk. I find out she lives a couple hours away. She came to the city for the night to see a concert. Somehow her friends ditched her and so now shes at this club all alone and she says she has no idea where she is staying. It's 130am so I said fuck it and just went for it.

Fusion: That's cool. Why don't you come with me and we'll grab a couple drinks somewhere. (referring to my place here)
Snap: I need to find my friends!
Fusion: Youre a grown up, they trust you.
Snap: nooo they don't though!
Fusion: we'll go have a couple drinks then come back here and find them.
snap: noo I need to use facebook to get in touch with my friends, my cell is dead.
Fusion: awesome i'll let you use my phone, lets go.

I should have just grabbed her hand and started walking. Instead I held my hand out and let her make the decision.

Snap: haha, no.

I figured she wasn't going for sure at that point so I stop persisting.

Fusion: that's cool. take care!
snap: bye!

takeaways

-I've really wanted to start implementing day game and this proved to me that the opener doesn't really matter.

-Always act on IOIs!

Fusion
 
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Cro-Magnon Man
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Fusion said:
Fusion: That's cool. Why don't you come with me and we'll grab a couple drinks somewhere. (referring to my place here)
Snap: I need to find my friends!
Fusion: Youre a grown up, they trust you.
Snap: nooo they don't though!
Fusion: we'll go have a couple drinks then come back here and find them.
snap: noo I need to use facebook to get in touch with my friends, my cell is dead.
Fusion: awesome i'll let you use my phone, lets go.



Fusion
Instead of a YES ladder, you created a NO Ladder.
Instead say
"Would you like me to help you get in touch with your friends" or "why don't I keep you company over here until your friends show up" Then use that time to build some comfort based on the attraction.

Then once some time has passed you can infer she is ditched and her only hope to get home is you ( a little white knightish but gives plausible deniability).

Question...Did you get her # at least?
 

Fusion

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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TwoRocky said:
Instead of a YES ladder, you created a NO Ladder.
Instead say
"Would you like me to help you get in touch with your friends" or "why don't I keep you company over here until your friends show up" Then use that time to build some comfort based on the attraction.

Then once some time has passed you can infer she is ditched and her only hope to get home is you ( a little white knightish but gives plausible deniability).

Question...Did you get her # at least?

Thanks for the feedback TwoRocky. It didn't even occur to me that I did that haha i'll have to watch out for that.

As for the number once she mentioned how far away she lived I didn't even think of pursuing it. I could be wrong but wouldn't it have seemed kind of weak to ask her to leave with me and then just settle for the number? Not that settling for nothing is any better :)

Fusion
 
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