Actions beat words everytime

[Verisimilitude]

Its been said before, but too often I've seen myself or other guys talk themselves out of a lay when they should be taking action. The truth is, what you say means almost nothing if you take action. As long as it isn't completely out there, you're good. The truth is, words don't create sexual tension, actions do.

Take this for example:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XE8y4eQdic0

He doesn't say anything important. And this is a tv show. The lines are scripted. They're supposed to be brilliant. But there is no crazy confession of love, no running through the rain, but the scene is still dripping with sexual tension. But it doesn't really start until he stops talking and takes action. And even that isn't fireworks and rainbows.

He throws a chair leg.

But its powerful because it sends a message. Just like manhandle kissing a girl or taking her hand or even pausing and looking at her when she rambles. Its so many times more powerful than words.

So next time you find yourself wanting to kiss a girl or you're trying to fish for what to say, just say something simple (less than ten words, even less than that is better), and act. You'll be pleasantly surprised with how she reacts.

What do you guys think?

 

[Drck]

Definitely agree. When she is attracted (and if you have good fundamentals she is), just the mere suggestion to go to your place is HUGE. She will start blushing, thinking about sex, getting all nervous, trying to decrease the sexual tension (unless, of course, she is already decided to have sex) by postponing it for "next time" and switching the subject, and the guy needs to persist...

It is actually quite a bold move, big action she's not used to, you don't even need to look sexy or talk sexy, you don't really need much deduction skills, you can just be casual... She is not stupid, she knows what you want...