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that'll never happen.
Go ahead and join a fencing or martial arts group. You wont obliterate shit. You'll be humbled by people who will fuck you up big time.
"Desire to obliterate people"...what a kid lol.
Go ahead and join a fencing or martial arts group. You wont obliterate shit. You'll be humbled by people who will fuck you up big time.
"Desire to obliterate people"...what a kid lol.
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Perfectly normal desires.
Go do some MMA, boxing, etc. I'd avoid street fights; good way to get killed or arrested. Also, try some meditation. But yeah, punching people and getting punched is fun, just don't do anything too fucking stupid or illegal. You're responsible for everything you do.
Hector
Go do some MMA, boxing, etc. I'd avoid street fights; good way to get killed or arrested. Also, try some meditation. But yeah, punching people and getting punched is fun, just don't do anything too fucking stupid or illegal. You're responsible for everything you do.
Hector
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Mostly bad advice here, aside from what Anatman said.
Fencing and martial arts are all about precision, control, and timing. You might break some boards and bricks but you won't be any good at sparring if you're berserking out. Boxing and MMA would be better; they're more force-based with some of the other elements thrown in. There are also some weapons sparring clubs around (few and far between but they're fun) that might be more your style.
Depending on where you live, shooting can be a fun recreational hobby. Lots of power and room to control it. But if you can't control your temper, you probably shouldn't get a gun. Just a bad idea.
Fencing and martial arts are all about precision, control, and timing. You might break some boards and bricks but you won't be any good at sparring if you're berserking out. Boxing and MMA would be better; they're more force-based with some of the other elements thrown in. There are also some weapons sparring clubs around (few and far between but they're fun) that might be more your style.
Depending on where you live, shooting can be a fun recreational hobby. Lots of power and room to control it. But if you can't control your temper, you probably shouldn't get a gun. Just a bad idea.
i'm a competitive submission grappler, and do a little MMA too. I can honestly say Jiu-jitsu has greatly improved my life in a number of ways, and i would strongly recommend it to almost everyone, including the OP. having said that, it's not a cure-all, or the solution to his problems. for that we need to look deeper, find the root causes and the catalysts for his temper.
I imagine the OP is in his late teens or early 20s, and lives with his parents. this is a crucial time for a young man.
when i was in the same situation no amount of broken boards or bricks, no amount of weight lifted in the gym, could suppress the rage my parents and siblings were able to arouse in me.
even now, as my parents are old and grey and i glide gracefully into middle age, even now that i am relatively calm and centered and reasonably happy, even now my mother has an innate ability to boil my blood.
in fact it's only now, as i think about what to write here, do i realize that most of my anger was caused by feelings of helplessness because i didn't have, and didn''t believe i could have, control over my life.
it's a long journey and one which i spent a good part of my 30s navigating. fortunately for Cacc, he has the internet, the manosphere, the red pill, and most importantly, he has girlschase. he doesn't need to wait till he's 40 or 30 to take control.
take control of your finances, take control of your love life, take control of your health and take control of your future. the anger will take care of itself.
claim your independence, move away from the well-intentioned toxicity of your family, set goals and reverse engineer the outcome so you can see the path you need to walk, don't fear straying from the path and keep your eyes open for opportunities along the way, but know that it is within your power and within your grasp.
and try to fucking enjoy it!
I imagine the OP is in his late teens or early 20s, and lives with his parents. this is a crucial time for a young man.
when i was in the same situation no amount of broken boards or bricks, no amount of weight lifted in the gym, could suppress the rage my parents and siblings were able to arouse in me.
even now, as my parents are old and grey and i glide gracefully into middle age, even now that i am relatively calm and centered and reasonably happy, even now my mother has an innate ability to boil my blood.
in fact it's only now, as i think about what to write here, do i realize that most of my anger was caused by feelings of helplessness because i didn't have, and didn''t believe i could have, control over my life.
it's a long journey and one which i spent a good part of my 30s navigating. fortunately for Cacc, he has the internet, the manosphere, the red pill, and most importantly, he has girlschase. he doesn't need to wait till he's 40 or 30 to take control.
take control of your finances, take control of your love life, take control of your health and take control of your future. the anger will take care of itself.
claim your independence, move away from the well-intentioned toxicity of your family, set goals and reverse engineer the outcome so you can see the path you need to walk, don't fear straying from the path and keep your eyes open for opportunities along the way, but know that it is within your power and within your grasp.
and try to fucking enjoy it!
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That's how I feel. Which is why I'm trying to get out of dodge asap. I'm a bit younger than 20 and I've never felt in control of anything because I always had to rely on someone for whatever I wanted to do, so it was always by their rules.
Anyways, I attended a boxing gym yest and looks like I have the adequate athleticism for it. I will join an mma gym today and I'll shoot to become very good because I truly like the art and skill of beating people up.
I also have a job interview in the nightlife industry tomorrow
P.s lao che, I'm only ever angry in my house. When I go outside my house, ive never felt any kind of rage or anger ever.
As someone who bartends at a local popular (1000+ people a night) club, and does Muay Thai, I think the two combined will level you up almost accidentally.
That being said, besides martial arts, you should have a strength program too. Weights, advanced calisthenics, whatever floats your goat, but strength training is essential too.
And just go out to clubs with some socially attuned friends, when you're not bartending.
The girlschase writers advocate serious focus on pickup and approaching because it will get you results the fastest, but lifestyle design does get you results too. Gym plus bartending plus martial arts plus being a social, engaging guy will level you up perhaps not as quickly, but very steadily.
Good luck to ya
Byron
That being said, besides martial arts, you should have a strength program too. Weights, advanced calisthenics, whatever floats your goat, but strength training is essential too.
And just go out to clubs with some socially attuned friends, when you're not bartending.
The girlschase writers advocate serious focus on pickup and approaching because it will get you results the fastest, but lifestyle design does get you results too. Gym plus bartending plus martial arts plus being a social, engaging guy will level you up perhaps not as quickly, but very steadily.
Good luck to ya
Byron
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knowing you....you shoud probably look for someone who wont mind you punching them (you might have to pay extra though)Cacc said:
serious note....boxing seems a perfect fit for you
boxing is cool...even just punching the bag makes that primal rage fade