Advice for a "club hook up" guy

[Wanga]

G'day lads I will start off with some background. I am 18 years old living in Melbourne Australia . I don't really know whether to consider myself a beginner or not, I have a large amount of experience approaching and flirting with girls making it easy to attract the ones i desire, in a nightclub or party environment anyway. However Despite having hooked up with many girls (70 give or take) I have only slept with one girl as a fluke- my sisters friend asked if i wanted to have sex outright after meeting her at a party before i had even kissed a girl so I learnt nothing in terms of process- I have also never had a girlfriend though this is by choice. I like kissing a lot and have gotten complements about my technique but I really need to start making seductions. My questions are
1) how to convince girls to come back from nightclubs when i live around an hour from all the nightlife without making things seem too much effort for them?
2) If a girl hooks up with you does that mean you have past her fundamentals test and just need the right logistics to seduce her?
3) as an 18 year old high school kid what would be the best kind of venue? I have read Chase's article on different nightlife venues but would my schoolboy status make it difficult to pull the more experienced women of dive bars and house clubs?

 

[Wanga]

actually don't worry taken a few girls home now using the advice on this site haha

 

[Chase]

Wanga-

Glad to hear you're meeting with success now.

On living far away, see these articles for some ideas:

• How to Go to Her Place Smoothly, Even If You Just Met
• Sex Logistics: How to Get Intimate in Unusual Places
• Out of Town Pickups
• Best way to work car sex?
• Car Sex

If you read Alek's articles on the site, he does a lot of logistics screening with women because he lives far away from the nightclub area and can only pick up women who live close and whom he can sleep with at their places. Don't think you're stuck just trying to get women to come all the way back to yours - there are tons of other options available.

On the "hooking up" question, I believe you're using "hook up" to mean kiss, correct? (seems to be a regionally differing term... some people use it for "kissing", some use it for "oral sex", some - like me - for straight sexual relations) Kissing is the commencement of sexual escalation, so she's at least somewhat in the headspace of being ready for it if she's kissing you - throw in the right logistics, and you have a shot. However, each girl has an escalation wall somewhere along the line - if she's very inexperienced, it might be kissing, but for most women it's taking their bras off or taking their pants or panties off. Everything up until the wall is easy; getting over the wall is harder. Once the wall is climbed, the rest is straightforward.

I can't comment personally on question #3, but it seems like a lot of the high schoolers on the discussion boards here specialize in meeting girls in shopping malls or pool halls (in Richard's case). Then again, if you have nightclubs you can get into at 18, I'm not sure many of the other high schoolers here hit those up, so... hard to say!

Chase

 

[Wanga]

Thanks so much for the reply Chase, I'll be sure to cheek out those articles, I've been taking girls back on the night-bus which seems like a decent option . By the way that adapted missionary position you discussed is every bit as effective as you said, really did take care of everything. Thanks again
-Alex