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SteveUno said:HellAtlantic said:It's not very dominant to go to a forum and asking other guys what's the dominant thing to do in a situation. Just be yourself. Besides letting her pick the venue isn't going to make you a beta bitch all of a sudden. You show more confidence in yourself by showing an ability to defer to her better judgement on matters she excels in than foolishly picking a crappy play to go see all because you want to give the impression you're a dominant guy.
Lol Not even gonna entertain this passive aggressive douchey response. If you want to see dominance, get in a cage fight with me little man.
At 6'1 and 230 lbs of muscle I'd hardly qualify as a little man.
You letting the girl choose the play/theater shows confidence in yourself which ultimately is a dominant trait.
I recommend you read a book called "Models" by Mark Manson. In it he talks about being yourself and being the best version of yourself you can be and displaying non-neediness instead of getting caught up in all the little gamey things that ppl tend to worry about. Here is an excerpt for you, I highly recommend the book:
"You cannot fake not being needy for more than a moment. The only women you will manage to fake are women who are drunk or high or who are extremely needy themselves.
You cannot fake vulnerability. You cannot fake truth. Truth has to be a gift, given with no conditions or expectations.
You are who you are who you are. The truth is always shining through and people will eventually sense a disconnect.
You can tell women that you’re a record producer and are friends with Jay-Z, but chances are, unless you’re a really good actor, people are going to sense subtle inconsistencies in your behavior to back that up. Sooner or later, they will. Then your true identity will shine through, your lack of vulnerability with shine through, your neediness will shine through, and you will be a sad, pathetic and unattractive man."
Best of luck to ya young man.