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Advice On Making a Non-Creepy Move On a Young Girl

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Space Monkey
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So I tried reading the articles on attracting younger women but it seems to be geared towards much older men and women my age. But I'm 27 and I have a friend who's sister is a drop dead gorgeous 18 year old. She definitely acts her age but everything about her is ridiculously hot. I'm talking the whole package (looks wise). Now, I have her number since she's a friends sister and actually my neighbor. I'd say I saw some flirting here and there but as of late we never really talk. Although, whenever she sees me I notice she fixes herself. Also, a while ago she texted me asking what I was doing and I said "are you trying to chill with me? Lol" and she responded "you'll never knowww". But then I asked her if she wanted to at a later date (meaning i asked at a different time) and she said she was busy with school but then saw her go out with friends.

Anyway, she once showed me a picture of her friend the same age and how her friends boyfriend was a creep for dating her friend. She was saying how her friend is so pretty and she is dating this ugly guy who is actually my age. She then stated how not only that but he is definitely too old for her. The guy is actually my age.

I was curious if there was any tips on how I can tread lightly and make a move without the issue if she's not into it she doesn't label me a creep and tell her brother. Or maybe a way to see if its a possibility before making a move.

Any articles on something like this would be greatly appreciated.
 

The Tool

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Ah the classic wanting to date your friends sister.

In order to not come off as a creep you cannot move fast. (dating your friends sister is a time when moving fast is a no no. I have a post on this in the tactics and techniques section. probably about page 2 or 3 or so.)

Essentially you want to start off with light flirting and she if she reciprocates.

As well as the occasional (intentional) unintentional touch to see how she reacts when you touch her. (Example Whenever my buddys sister was on the computer I would go over to her learn over her and press the escape button on her laptop and softly have part of my arm touch her.) drove her nuts in a good way ;)

comparatively this is a slow process and if you like her and you get the vibe she likes you you ask her out on a coffee date. (note on the first date do NOT SLEEP WITH HER OR TRY TO!!!!) if you come across as a creep she will tell her brother and he WILL FIGHT YOU!!!

If you are going to try to get with your friends sister you must have the purist of intentions (as in potential LTR) if you want to maintain that friendship. You have to take the relationship slow so end the first date on a kiss.

I have more on my post which you should check out in techniques. Id post the link but im running short of time.

Cheers, The Tool.
 

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T Vaunswa said:
Ah the classic wanting to date your friends sister.

In order to not come off as a creep you cannot move fast. (dating your friends sister is a time when moving fast is a no no. I have a post on this in the tactics and techniques section. probably about page 2 or 3 or so.)

Essentially you want to start off with light flirting and she if she reciprocates.

As well as the occasional (intentional) unintentional touch to see how she reacts when you touch her. (Example Whenever my buddys sister was on the computer I would go over to her learn over her and press the escape button on her laptop and softly have part of my arm touch her.) drove her nuts in a good way ;)

comparatively this is a slow process and if you like her and you get the vibe she likes you you ask her out on a coffee date. (note on the first date do NOT SLEEP WITH HER OR TRY TO!!!!) if you come across as a creep she will tell her brother and he WILL FIGHT YOU!!!

If you are going to try to get with your friends sister you must have the purist of intentions (as in potential LTR) if you want to maintain that friendship. You have to take the relationship slow so end the first date on a kiss.

I have more on my post which you should check out in techniques. Id post the link but im running short of time.

Cheers, The Tool.

Interesting, however it is not often I actually see or talk to her. Although it does happen.

Is there a way I can initiate a text convo with her and tell by her responses if she's being flirty? Also, what are some tell tale signs that she is enjoying the little flirting or touching.

I remember saying I thought I saw her once and text her because I was mad she didn't say hello. It turned out it wasn't her and she said something like "I hope she was hot! Lol". Not sure if she was fishing for a compliment. However, I'd like a way to ease in on text. I'm just out of ideas or openers.
 
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The Tool

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Honestly because she is your friends sister. and in your social circle the only way you really wont come across as creepy is if you ask her out in person. wait untill you see her next and say something like "Hey ashleigh was thinkin you and I should grab a coffee sometime. Hows your schedule look this week" This will get you mega brownie points for being cool and confident.

Is there a way I can initiate a text convo with her and tell by her responses if she's being flirty? Also, what are some tell tale signs that she is enjoying the little flirting or touching.

You can tell if she enjoys it if she giggles, has a smile on her face and flirts back. Or gives you a good ribbing back.Its that sexy smile you should always look for on the woman.

you can tell she enjoys the touching especially if she doesnt mind it or say anything about it. Does it back. or smiles everytime you do it.

What I mean by doing it back.

You sitting on the couch at your friends place and suddenly she is in close proximity towards you on said couch when she could easily be at a spot further away. Or she just comes right up next to you and has a little bit of her arm, leg, foot, touching yours. This happened to me quite a bit.

Cheers, The Tool
 

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T Vaunswa said:
Honestly because she is your friends sister. and in your social circle the only way you really wont come across as creepy is if you ask her out in person. wait untill you see her next and say something like "Hey ashleigh was thinkin you and I should grab a coffee sometime. Hows your schedule look this week" This will get you mega brownie points for being cool and confident.

Is there a way I can initiate a text convo with her and tell by her responses if she's being flirty? Also, what are some tell tale signs that she is enjoying the little flirting or touching.

You can tell if she enjoys it if she giggles, has a smile on her face and flirts back. Or gives you a good ribbing back.Its that sexy smile you should always look for on the woman.

you can tell she enjoys the touching especially if she doesnt mind it or say anything about it. Does it back. or smiles everytime you do it.

What I mean by doing it back.

You sitting on the couch at your friends place and suddenly she is in close proximity towards you on said couch when she could easily be at a spot further away. Or she just comes right up next to you and has a little bit of her arm, leg, foot, touching yours. This happened to me quite a bit.

Cheers, The Tool

Hmm, this is interesting to know. A hit unrelated, but there are times when I am on the train on my way to work and there is a pretty chick sitting next to me and more often than not, I find when our shoulders touch, they are reluctant to move. I know it might sound corny, but this one time I had a REALLY HOT girl sit next to me on the two seater . I mean, she had plenty of room but yet decided to have half her body leaned on mine. Man, I should have known this was a tell.

Man, I got my fair share of women without knowing all this stuff. This site is going to make me blow the lid off lol.
 

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Man, I got my fair share of women without knowing all this stuff. This site is going to make me blow the lid off lol.
Boom goes the dynamite my friend ;)
 
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