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The girl i was seeing is no longer seeing me because she "doesn't feel the same". I asked her why and she said she doesn't know. This was after I was at her house for the second time and because of people telling me she didn't really like me, I got nervous and buckled up. I never made a move on her like last time. Last time I kissed her and it was very passionate, while this time we kissed once and cuddled watching tv the rest of the time. We had longer kisses saying goodbye though.
2 weeks past with no contact and I asked again. She was drunk at the time and she said she'd being having panic attacks etc. I left it there for another two weeks and I sent her a big message saying everything I should've told her when we were together. I told her i would wait for her as ong as i can and I praised everything I liked about her. Apparently she cried over not liking me because... guys, she basically loved me! She remembered my height after I mentioned it to someone else in fornt of her, she knew my birthday days after I told her (she told me she knows my birthday when drunk), she told me my kisses were amazing and heck, she even trusted me enough to fall asleep on me. She also said I brought her out of her shell because she hasn't been more comfortable with a guy before. We cuddled a lot too watching films and she would put her arm around my body and then proceed to holding my hand etc... I know, cute, huh? ahaha
I have being doing my own thing, acting myself and being happy. We see each other but it is awkward for her because she knows she basically broke my heart. I've being going crazy looking at websites on how to get her back because i pushed the best thing to ever happen to me out of my life and I feel I can't fix it.
I have a few questions, so please help me on all ?
I see her at a party tomorrow night. Knowing the problems that occurred between us, what should I do? I feel should go up and talk to her (we'll both be drinking) or should I just ignore her? Also, should I flirt (or even kiss other girls?)
I want to ask her to meet up and talk about it to get closure. I think she'll accept this because she feels she is in the wrong, when in fact, I was the one that pushed her away. I want to tell her this and explain I understand why it went wrong. I then want to ask what changed her mind again.. Which lead me to thinking that I should ask her if it was attraction. If it wasn't, should I just kiss her there and then?
I wanted friends like she did as we're so similar to each other, but ater thinking about it, she leaves for uni in September and although I could be going down there too, I don't know if she'd make the effort to stay in touch.
I was thinking on asking to be friends as she made me tell her that I would stay in touch and we both needed time to have space and to do that, but if I don't go for just kissing her, I'll never know, right?
Thanks for reading and I hope that you can help me
2 weeks past with no contact and I asked again. She was drunk at the time and she said she'd being having panic attacks etc. I left it there for another two weeks and I sent her a big message saying everything I should've told her when we were together. I told her i would wait for her as ong as i can and I praised everything I liked about her. Apparently she cried over not liking me because... guys, she basically loved me! She remembered my height after I mentioned it to someone else in fornt of her, she knew my birthday days after I told her (she told me she knows my birthday when drunk), she told me my kisses were amazing and heck, she even trusted me enough to fall asleep on me. She also said I brought her out of her shell because she hasn't been more comfortable with a guy before. We cuddled a lot too watching films and she would put her arm around my body and then proceed to holding my hand etc... I know, cute, huh? ahaha
I have being doing my own thing, acting myself and being happy. We see each other but it is awkward for her because she knows she basically broke my heart. I've being going crazy looking at websites on how to get her back because i pushed the best thing to ever happen to me out of my life and I feel I can't fix it.
I have a few questions, so please help me on all ?
I see her at a party tomorrow night. Knowing the problems that occurred between us, what should I do? I feel should go up and talk to her (we'll both be drinking) or should I just ignore her? Also, should I flirt (or even kiss other girls?)
I want to ask her to meet up and talk about it to get closure. I think she'll accept this because she feels she is in the wrong, when in fact, I was the one that pushed her away. I want to tell her this and explain I understand why it went wrong. I then want to ask what changed her mind again.. Which lead me to thinking that I should ask her if it was attraction. If it wasn't, should I just kiss her there and then?
I wanted friends like she did as we're so similar to each other, but ater thinking about it, she leaves for uni in September and although I could be going down there too, I don't know if she'd make the effort to stay in touch.
I was thinking on asking to be friends as she made me tell her that I would stay in touch and we both needed time to have space and to do that, but if I don't go for just kissing her, I'll never know, right?
Thanks for reading and I hope that you can help me
