Advice: Should I Get With an Old Flame???

[Killa DeX]

I was trumped as to whether or not I should try and get this old flame that has resurfaced backed into my life. I figured no better people to ask for advice then my fellow brothers on the hunt here on the boards. To really get the best advice, I'm gonna need to give a little background information on this woman I used to "talk to".

BACKGROUND INFO
Two years ago back when I was in my senior year of high school, I friended this girl from my school on Facebook we'll call her Becca. She was a beautiful latina, small waist, cute face, big butt, and she LOVED black men . I at first became friends with her and got to know her and was there for (AKA listening to all her life drama and bullshit). This was long before I knew about GirlsChase or anything about seduction; I was young a naive and believed that being there for a woman and listening to her would win her affection. Anyway, I befriended her but eventually down the road I got her affection and we started flirting with each other. She sent me a few naked pictures (I wish I still had those, she had the best butt I've ever seen). We talked about getting together and being together in a relationship and having sex. This was all taking place in the summer time(late August), she lived a bit far from me and I had not gotten my drivers license yet and so all interaction was through text messaging(I know I know dumb move).

Fast forward to September, school starts and I spend more time with her. I continue to treat her as a friend even though at this point I should be trying to escalate with her(The most escalating I do is get a hug and feel on her butt by the school lockers). A week after school starts she mentions that 'A' (the popular school football player who runs through girls easily, darker than me and 6'2 and bench pressed 300 at the time) invited her to watch his football game. I think nothing of it at the time(Dumbass) and just continue to talk to her. As time goes on she loses attract for me and starts talking to 'A' and eventually she stops talking to me completely and starts a relationship with him. One night she texts me saying she needs a friend, how she shouldn't have deeded me, how he did her wrong and blah blah blah. I (like a non-learning dumbass) try to win her affections back by listening to her whining and bullshit. This lasted a week before she fell back into that dudes arms and back together with him. After that I never talked to her again and lost her number.

Fast Forward To the Present
Two years go by and I've moved on with life, I've upped my seduction game and gotten a lot more experience with women. I've gotten into bodybuilding and now females can't keep their hands of me ... but I digress. Anyway a few days ago I come across a suggested friend on Facebook and low and behold its Becca. I just ignore this and don't friend request her(done with the past). Then a day later she friend requests ME, so I appease to this and accept it. Since then she's been liking my pictures and statuses, but hasn't messaged me yet.

I've been thinking if whether or not I should try to bag that. I've matured a lot since the last time I talked to her and I really wanted to put that to the test and bag this chick I lost back then.....but theres a catch. Long story short, she's close friends with another girl that I frequently talk to from time to time and whose also in love with me. If I try to talk to Becca theres no doubt that this other girl is gonna find out and get on my case and cause drama. I found out they were close last time I was with this girl. I honestly can care less about whether this other girl finds out about me getting with Becca. However you all know how women are, they gossip and she might fill Becca's head with nonsense or try to say that her and I are together and it will not be good.

So I'm asking what some of you guys think, is it worth trying to go after?
Thank you in advance

 

[Rhaegar]

FIrst of all, a kid in high school that can bench 300 lbs, is this real life? I don't beileve that.

Second of all, unless that other girl is having sex with you, then whatever she thinks of you smashing Becca should be irrelevent.

Third of all, message Becca asking her to hang out, and have sex with her the first time you guys hang out, or else another A will come around and steal her from you again.

Then after you're done, try and have sex with Becca's friend to.

Goodluck.

 

[Killa DeX]

This guy had been lifting weights since he was in 8th grade, so by senior year he'd been lifting for 5 years so 300 lbs isn't to unbelievable. He's also African and very genetically gifted; it was the same day I hit my own PR of 205 on bench and I was happy until I saw his 300 max.

And I really don't care what the other girl thinks but this she is pretty much in my life and it doesn't seem like she's going anywhere anytime soon. I can fuck her anytime I want but it comes with Drama, Clingyness, Immaturity, and her Irrationality and I don't think I really want to deal with that.

I was gonna wait to see if she would message me but fuck it I'll message her. That lay is too good to miss out on.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Hey Killa, sorry for not getting to this sooner.

I'd say go for it. You can see how far you've become and if you do conquer yourself and her pussy, you'll feel like a fucking god.

Just don't invest too much into this; treat her like every other girl. You can do your Final Fantasy victory dance AFTER you fuck her.

5 years ago I was played by a cute petite blonde girl who had a boyfriend. She put me through a 6 month depression (i.e., I LET her put me through that), and that lead me to Tucker Max, thus beginning the journey that has made me the man I am today. Still working on a lot, but I've come a long way.

Ever since then, I've been chased and chased her through the years, but still have yet to kiss her. Every once in a while she'll contact me again, wanting to hang out, and then flake on me when we do. It doesn't bother me that much, but it's still in the back of my mind. I may never talk to her again, or I may fuck her. It'll be one of the longest seductions in the history of ever if do. It's kinda cool to come back to an environment your old self suffered in, run through it like a fucking boss, and then reflect and smile on how far you've come

So yeah, go for it; just be calm, be chill, and run your normal process.

I'm interested to see how this goes. Also, for your first message to her, there's an article on here for getting back in touch with old flames. Try and find it, but here's a rough sketch of how you might craft the message

"Hey, Becca, long time no talk! Sorry for the radio silence over the years, I've been caught up in all sorts of crazy adventures I hope you're doing well! If you're still in town, we should grab a coffee and catch up sometime! "

Good luck!

- Anatman

 

[Killa DeX]

Thank you Anatman. You know your advice is always welcome and well-received. I definitely will keep a level-head with this girl, I want to conquer what I let slip away 2 years ago. I'm actually going to put up two FR+ today. One of them is related to this...well sort of....its Becca's friend who causes drama haha. I'll get into the details on the FR