Afternoon, fellas. Questions involving interactions.

[OldSelf]

Sneaking away from work for 15!

Should I say thanks to my girlfriend, girls in general for complying? I usually throw on a warm smile and look into her eyes. my girl has made some comments like, do you ever say please or thank you? In a non upset way. She complies anyway.

Are there any actors, movies, analogies you use for moving slowly (being a strong and deliberate man)? I feel like I'm practicing fucking Tai Chi I'm moving so slow.

Thanks all

ST

 

[Frost]

Do your smile and eye contact and add a "thank you" while holding eye contact. You don't have to say thank you every time but you should reward her compliance with more than just a smile. A girl will love it when you let her know that she's done well.

 

[Smurf]

I usually sprinkle in "Please" and "Thank yous" lightly. Maybe two or three times total. Not so much that the words lose meaning, but enough so that the times I do say it she thinks, "Oh, so he's not a complete dick after all!" I've had girls tell me they really appreciate when I say thank you because I'm not spouting it off after everything they do for me, so they know when I say it I really mean it.

The warm smile is also a good nonverbal way of saying thank you. Also a physical touch or giving her more of your attention is another way.

Jake.