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Here's another FR from two weeks ago. Unfortunately it didn't turn into a LR; my own fault obviously. Still, it was such a fun night; I learned a ton and I met such a cute Colombian girl.
Preamble:
After work and study all day I had to prepare for a performance in the evening (yeah, I'm in a dance group). 6pm: Rehearsal, food and hanging out with partner and the group. At 10 pm we perform and we are done. I grab only one drink to celebrate with everyone, and despite being tired I feel like partying a little.
So I decide to hit one of my favorite places.
11:30, I get there and surprisingly it's almost full. I find several acquaintances there and I try to socialize (but I'm feeling awkward). I'm not having any more alcohol; I'm intent on meeting people naturally. I dance with two girls and it's still awkward: my conversation and my salsa are too rusty.
Time to grab a glass of water and observe the scene. After dancing with two different girls I gain some momentum.
The approach:
Another quick survey and see two girls dancing with each other. Extend my hand and end up dancing with both (Both are cute). "Hey, you two have a pretty cute style of dancing" (meaning not regular style). I pull some nice moves with both at the same time. First time doing that, but I'd seen a dance teacher do it before, so I knew it was doable.
One from my country and the other from Colombia, let's call them Elisa and Alina (I'm putting them fake names). I ask them where they're from. Then some teasing and banter. Elisa leaves and I dance one more song with Alina (she is the cutest one). The song ends and I invite her to go outside and grab some air. We go out and in the way there's a couple I know from dancing who make surprise faces hahah.
Outside is her friend Elisa on her cellphone. More chatting with both. I ask Alina her number just in case (GC advice). There's some girl sitting nearby and they laugh at this wtf? Haha. Even Elisa jokes about it, but I had asked very casually.
Alina tells me she want to find her other friend and wants me to accompany her. We go inside then, and we found her friend kissing with a guy lol. I see her friend closer and suddenly I remember her name and where she is from. Let's call her Angy. She was the girlfriend of a friend of mine three years ago, but we had never met and I had just seen her in pictures. She is amazed I knew her name and country and she had never even heard of me. Alina was also like, what's going on?
More talking, Me and Alina grab some water, Then we go outside again. There's a lot of attraction now but I don't know how to invite her home. The three girls live outside the city.
I set some chase frames. I also guess how she came into the country initially (A nanny program, I suspected because I've met other girls that did the same).
After a few moments I feel I was missing the window so I pull the trigger:
Me: "I think they're about to close here, how about we have an after party?"
Her: "Where? All of us girls?"
I said, yeah all of us. She then agrees enthusiastically. We go inside to find Angy and grab our coats. I don't have a car so we are trying to figure out how to get to my place. The friend of the guy Angy met had a car, so we walk all of us to his car and get to my place which was about 20 min away.
At my place:
Here's I where I didn't fare that well, maybe I was getting tired?. At my place I give them a quick tour, while I'm frantically trying to organize all the mess I had around like papers all over the place and an ironing board. The guy that was with Angy wanted to use the toilet but some girl was using it and I suggested he use the backyard (he ended up not having to, though). I invited some cereal to the girls casue they were hungry. I opened a bottle of an exotic alcohol I had, which they didn't like. In short, I was being too much of a nice guy (fail). Even Elisa told me "Oh you're so nice" when I gave her food.
Angy and the guy were kissing on the couch, and later they got into a bedroom. I hadn't made any move with Alina. She asked me to dance with her, and we did for a while, akwardly. I don't know why I didn't took her to my room and try to escalate (I think that's what she really wanted rather than dancing). We sat down and talked some more. After too long I did took her hand and led her to my room, but she stopped me at the door and we kissed. After a few seconds she stopped, thinking about something, so I say:
I wanted to kiss her again, but she just said no and walked back to the living room with the other guys (Angy and her guy were still in one of the bedrooms though). Only later I remembered Seppuku's great line for do you have a girlfriend/wife?: "Yeah, one for each day of the week, except Sundays. On Sunday I rest like the lord". That's really the best one fellas haha
About 5 minutes later Angy was done with the guy, and them girls got ready to leave. I still asked Angy to not let them leave. She kind of tried, but I realized asking that was silly. Alina already leaving told me: "You are cute but..." I then asked what was going to happen, and she said something like nothing, which was what I expected. I hate being nice
Angy wanted my number because she was still astonished I knew "so much" about her, and she didn't knew anything about me (I do have a good memory for faces and names, and stuff). She was also drunk, that's why she accidentally erased herself after putting her # my phone. Their Uber was waiting so they had to hurry.
At the end Angy's guy and his friend were discussing something and the friend started to insult Alina, and she was talking back. I jumped in holding my laugh and told her to just go to her Uber and ignore the guy. I think Angy's guy was begging to go with them and stay with Angy, but Alina refused and the friend insulted her saying she was a killjoy among other things. It was all really silly.
Wow, anyway guys. Long post for a long and interesting night. Any comments and suggestions are welcome!
Here's another FR from two weeks ago. Unfortunately it didn't turn into a LR; my own fault obviously. Still, it was such a fun night; I learned a ton and I met such a cute Colombian girl.
Preamble:
After work and study all day I had to prepare for a performance in the evening (yeah, I'm in a dance group). 6pm: Rehearsal, food and hanging out with partner and the group. At 10 pm we perform and we are done. I grab only one drink to celebrate with everyone, and despite being tired I feel like partying a little.
So I decide to hit one of my favorite places.
11:30, I get there and surprisingly it's almost full. I find several acquaintances there and I try to socialize (but I'm feeling awkward). I'm not having any more alcohol; I'm intent on meeting people naturally. I dance with two girls and it's still awkward: my conversation and my salsa are too rusty.
Time to grab a glass of water and observe the scene. After dancing with two different girls I gain some momentum.
The approach:
Another quick survey and see two girls dancing with each other. Extend my hand and end up dancing with both (Both are cute). "Hey, you two have a pretty cute style of dancing" (meaning not regular style). I pull some nice moves with both at the same time. First time doing that, but I'd seen a dance teacher do it before, so I knew it was doable.
One from my country and the other from Colombia, let's call them Elisa and Alina (I'm putting them fake names). I ask them where they're from. Then some teasing and banter. Elisa leaves and I dance one more song with Alina (she is the cutest one). The song ends and I invite her to go outside and grab some air. We go out and in the way there's a couple I know from dancing who make surprise faces hahah.
Outside is her friend Elisa on her cellphone. More chatting with both. I ask Alina her number just in case (GC advice). There's some girl sitting nearby and they laugh at this wtf? Haha. Even Elisa jokes about it, but I had asked very casually.
Alina tells me she want to find her other friend and wants me to accompany her. We go inside then, and we found her friend kissing with a guy lol. I see her friend closer and suddenly I remember her name and where she is from. Let's call her Angy. She was the girlfriend of a friend of mine three years ago, but we had never met and I had just seen her in pictures. She is amazed I knew her name and country and she had never even heard of me. Alina was also like, what's going on?
More talking, Me and Alina grab some water, Then we go outside again. There's a lot of attraction now but I don't know how to invite her home. The three girls live outside the city.
I set some chase frames. I also guess how she came into the country initially (A nanny program, I suspected because I've met other girls that did the same).
Her: Yeah, how did you know?
Me: You just look like you're patient and good with kids
Her: No! Stop with the guessing games. You've met Colombian girls in the same program, Haven't you? [hitting my arm]
Me: Yeah, well I met and old lady once in the same program. [I don't know why I didn't say the truth, would've been better I think]
After a few moments I feel I was missing the window so I pull the trigger:
Me: "I think they're about to close here, how about we have an after party?"
Her: "Where? All of us girls?"
I said, yeah all of us. She then agrees enthusiastically. We go inside to find Angy and grab our coats. I don't have a car so we are trying to figure out how to get to my place. The friend of the guy Angy met had a car, so we walk all of us to his car and get to my place which was about 20 min away.
At my place:
Here's I where I didn't fare that well, maybe I was getting tired?. At my place I give them a quick tour, while I'm frantically trying to organize all the mess I had around like papers all over the place and an ironing board. The guy that was with Angy wanted to use the toilet but some girl was using it and I suggested he use the backyard (he ended up not having to, though). I invited some cereal to the girls casue they were hungry. I opened a bottle of an exotic alcohol I had, which they didn't like. In short, I was being too much of a nice guy (fail). Even Elisa told me "Oh you're so nice" when I gave her food.
Angy and the guy were kissing on the couch, and later they got into a bedroom. I hadn't made any move with Alina. She asked me to dance with her, and we did for a while, akwardly. I don't know why I didn't took her to my room and try to escalate (I think that's what she really wanted rather than dancing). We sat down and talked some more. After too long I did took her hand and led her to my room, but she stopped me at the door and we kissed. After a few seconds she stopped, thinking about something, so I say:
Me: You have soft lips [I should've asked "what are you thinking?" instead]
Her: [She rolls her eyes] We shouldn't do this.
Me; No we shouldn't
Her: I have a boyfriend.
Me : Well, it doesn't surprise me that a girl like you has a boyfriend.
Her: No, I can't, you too have a girlfriend? [this was more like assertion than question].
Me: Hmm, I don't know [weak answer]
Her: See, you do have one.
I wanted to kiss her again, but she just said no and walked back to the living room with the other guys (Angy and her guy were still in one of the bedrooms though). Only later I remembered Seppuku's great line for do you have a girlfriend/wife?: "Yeah, one for each day of the week, except Sundays. On Sunday I rest like the lord". That's really the best one fellas haha
About 5 minutes later Angy was done with the guy, and them girls got ready to leave. I still asked Angy to not let them leave. She kind of tried, but I realized asking that was silly. Alina already leaving told me: "You are cute but..." I then asked what was going to happen, and she said something like nothing, which was what I expected. I hate being nice
Angy wanted my number because she was still astonished I knew "so much" about her, and she didn't knew anything about me (I do have a good memory for faces and names, and stuff). She was also drunk, that's why she accidentally erased herself after putting her # my phone. Their Uber was waiting so they had to hurry.
At the end Angy's guy and his friend were discussing something and the friend started to insult Alina, and she was talking back. I jumped in holding my laugh and told her to just go to her Uber and ignore the guy. I think Angy's guy was begging to go with them and stay with Angy, but Alina refused and the friend insulted her saying she was a killjoy among other things. It was all really silly.
Wow, anyway guys. Long post for a long and interesting night. Any comments and suggestions are welcome!