Akaash Singh wife drama - how can guys avoid this

[Bill]

The podcaster Myron Gaines had some sort of feud with the comedian Akaash Singh, and he and his friends have been spreading clips from his wife.

In summary while Akaash lost his virginity to her and married her, she’s been posting stuff that basically implies resentment for him. Such as entitlement to his money, irrational complaints like about not getting her a bigger closet, and posting about how she missed college because she got a lot of attention and hook ups, how shes attracted to her friends husband, some rumors she lied about being a virgin or inexperienced initially, and essentially kind of publicly embarrassing him.

The key thing I want to discuss is how to avoid ending up in this scenario.

For one, while she seems strangely honest about her past and feelings towards her husband, obviously most women like this wouldn’t be Like this. Instead they’d register the guy as this commitment option and shift to coming across like what he’d want.

I believe it was in his now gone product Hot Seat at Home (maybe it was in a different video), it always stuck with me when during the lecture RSD Tyler said that if a guy follows “mainstream / womens advice“ and tries to get a girl by offering commitment and financial support, she will interpret that as him taking advantage of her insecurity aging and that he dangled money to pressure her into a relationship when really he wouldn’t have been able to get her without it. To drive home this point he had infield clips where he stole a girl off of some wealthy guy throwing a party and later unknowingly pulled a girl in front of her boyfriend.

While this makes sense to me, the PUA solution is usually that you should try to be a “lover“ and start the relationship from a casual frame right away then shift it from there.

But wouldn’t that lead to you attracting girls who primarily respond to this, and when you do eventually commit just end up in the same scenario regardless?

This is a recent semi-viral tiktok RSD Tyler posted where he describes this happening to him, and this is despite literally decades of constant Game practice and starting the relationship off on the right foot as he and others in the community would recommend

TikTok - Make Your Day

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

The only way to avoid this particular situation is to stay out of the public eye. If you live by social media, like everyone in this situation, you will die by it as well.

If you're trying to control a woman's actions, or screen out "bad" women, it's a fool's errand.

Moreover, a PUA isn't seeking a long term relationship. You smash, and then the chick invests and convinces you to be only with her. You don't start off the relationship, you don't steer it. She has to legitimately win you over, not you pretending to be won over.

Most guys don't listen to proven pickup advice the first time. They only see the wisdom in it after they get burned. She's not different, she is like all of the other girls.

And even if you do everything "right" chicks will change up on you. Stone Cold pimps lose women. Famous actors lose women Hugh Hefner was divorced twice. Almost every famous pickup artist, had dealt with the reality of women, despite being able to bag as hundreds, if not thousands. Despite making her invest everything and more.

Females change. It's their nature.

There are a lot of cope strategies out there like Red Pill, but the problem is expecting a chick to stay the way you want her to stay. Your expectations about women are misplaced.

 

[AspiringStoic]

The only way to avoid this particular situation is to stay out of the public eye. If you live by social media, like everyone in this situation, you will die by it as well.

If you're trying to control a woman's actions, or screen out "bad" women, it's a fool's errand.

Moreover, a PUA isn't seeking a long term relationship. You smash, and then the chick invests and convinces you to be only with her. You don't start off the relationship, you don't steer it. She has to legitimately win you over, not you pretending to be won over.

Most guys don't listen to proven pickup advice the first time. They only see the wisdom in it after they get burned. She's not different, she is like all of the other girls.

And even if you do everything "right" chicks will change up on you. Stone Cold pimps lose women. Famous actors lose women Hugh Hefner was divorced twice. Almost every famous pickup artist, had dealt with the reality of women, despite being able to bag as hundreds, if not thousands. Despite making her invest everything and more.

Females change. It's their nature.

There are a lot of cope strategies out there like Red Pill, but the problem is expecting a chick to stay the way you want her to stay. Your expectations about women are misplaced.

This is gold.

I think everyone is looking for a "guarantee".

A guarantee that a woman wont cheat on them or leave them or do x or y or z.

Everyone has a different solution. Different camps handle this insecurity/fear/possibility from a different angle.

Some say put them in burqas, keep them at home and keep them under constant supervision.

Some say pick virgins or extremely inexperienced women and they will have nothing to compare you to.

Some say be the lover and then this will never happen.

Some say have open relationships so it will never happen.

Some say women are all fucked, give up on them completely and go your own way.

I guess you can figure out which camps I am referring to and their respective solutions.

But the truth is like many many things in life, there is absolutely no guarantee that this wont happen.

You can adopt some best practices on how to ensure that you reduce the chance of this happening.

That is what all the debate is about because each camp thinks their solution is the "best" practice.

Instead of debating that, my view is always have the toolkit to bounce back if that ever happens or to have the toolkit to be able to have the strength to walk away if you feel that it is happening to you.

The toolkit is the ability for you to meet and attract new women.

That choice is powerful.

Women who start disrespecting you like that start doing so only when they know that you wont leave regardless of their bad behavior or if they know you cannot leave because you are tied up due to finances, kids etc.

So the only way to protect against it is by having the ability to walk away or the skills to rebuild it if that happens to you.

In short instead of praying and worrying about if you are ever going to face a bad storm, prepare for what you can do if you do get caught in a storm.

 

[Skills]

The dude us a beta, did not screen correctly prior to wfing up and has not boudaries. He failed the betatizations attempts and he is a beta... None of my relationships have ever looked like that... Only during the checkout stage one acted like that, but it was already over...and she should have never made main, pre community... There are 3 areas of mastery in seduction:

- bedding women pick up

- relationships (most puas not good at it)

- reproduction (if you choose this)

Dude in question is not a pua...

Owen has the bad habit of getting onitis, leading with money and status and being a weirdo at times...

I have post on all of these stuff will link later... Eventually a lot of girus with the money get lazy and tired all lead with money and status...

I have seen guys successfully lead with money and status... Balzirian, my wing primo etc... There is a way to this right karea also knows guys that do it correctly we were having discussions on this on tribal elder forum...

Tldr. Dude is betazized, no boundaries, didn't screen right...

With that being said women will behave in a relationship how you allow them to behave... I bet you any amount of money, if she was with me, she would not be acting or talking like that, nor staying home with no job... I had girls lose jobs during relationships i just help them out with resume, 0 dollars...

 

[Will_V]

The podcaster Myron Gaines had some sort of feud with the comedian Akaash Singh, and he and his friends have been spreading clips from his wife.

In summary while Akaash lost his virginity to her and married her, she’s been posting stuff that basically implies resentment for him. Such as entitlement to his money, irrational complaints like about not getting her a bigger closet, and posting about how she missed college because she got a lot of attention and hook ups, how shes attracted to her friends husband, some rumors she lied about being a virgin or inexperienced initially, and essentially kind of publicly embarrassing him.

The key thing I want to discuss is how to avoid ending up in this scenario.

For one, while she seems strangely honest about her past and feelings towards her husband, obviously most women like this wouldn’t be Like this. Instead they’d register the guy as this commitment option and shift to coming across like what he’d want.

I believe it was in his now gone product Hot Seat at Home (maybe it was in a different video), it always stuck with me when during the lecture RSD Tyler said that if a guy follows “mainstream / womens advice“ and tries to get a girl by offering commitment and financial support, she will interpret that as him taking advantage of her insecurity aging and that he dangled money to pressure her into a relationship when really he wouldn’t have been able to get her without it. To drive home this point he had infield clips where he stole a girl off of some wealthy guy throwing a party and later unknowingly pulled a girl in front of her boyfriend.

While this makes sense to me, the PUA solution is usually that you should try to be a “lover“ and start the relationship from a casual frame right away then shift it from there.

But wouldn’t that lead to you attracting girls who primarily respond to this, and when you do eventually commit just end up in the same scenario regardless?

This is a recent semi-viral tiktok RSD Tyler posted where he describes this happening to him, and this is despite literally decades of constant Game practice and starting the relationship off on the right foot as he and others in the community would recommend

TikTok - Make Your Day

Don't know anything about this Akaash Singh but going by what you wrote there, seems like a guy who simply has very little experience with women or relationship skills. There are lots of those guys out there!

How is it surprising that a guy marries the woman he loses his virginity to, and then proceeds to get dominated and have his woman mess him around. No doubt the relationship started with:

- Him being head over heels in love.
- Her being rational and practical and thinking 'he's not such a bad guy'.

In every relationship someone is on top and someone is on bottom. And if you are the neediest of the two, you'll sooner or later end up on bottom. And once that happens she loses respect for you and starts to mess around.

This is the equivalent of a male seducer bedding a virgin, her falling in love, him thinking "well she's not too bad" marrying her and then getting sick of her/wanting new experiences. And when someone wants out of a relationship, and they are not a particularly strong personality, they will typically start with disrespect, complaints, provocations, public embarrassment, and various ways of trying to provoke a change in the state of affairs without directly being responsible for doing so. It boils down to "either he'll become the dominant man I need and put me in my place, or he'll give me a clear excuse to leave". Either of those two results is acceptable for a woman.

The sort of thing going on here happens throughout society ad nauseum, the only difference here is that it's in the public eye.