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Reave Krieger

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There was a girl standing in the entrance of a super market. She was beautiful and she looked inside the market with a cute smile on her lips. I was standing inside and putting ketchup onto my sandwich.

When I was done I went out and asked her: “Why are you smiling this way?”

She said: “I just had to smile because of my friends…”

There were two male friends, standing at the cash point. I they said „Aah okay.“ and left. I thought it would be no good idea talking to her, as she was there with two male friends (of which one might have been her boyfriend).

I then went to the library.

There was a girl at the lockers in the library. I stood there, eating my sandwich. She was very pretty. She opened her locker and packed up her stuff. I thought about making a compliment about her shirt. It was blue. She also had blue fingernails and the library bag was also blue.

I imagined saying something like: „Hey, I really like your shirt. The color fits perfect to your nails and the bag as well.“

But guess what. I came up with some silly excuses to avoid talking to her. I said to myself: “I better wait until I’m done eating my sandwich.” Then another man arrived and I thought: “Better wait until that man has gone, so he won’t see what I am doing here.” When the man was gone (the girl was still there), other people were coming and I couldn’t do it because of the same reason.

Then she left and I beat myself up for it! How can I improve?
 

NinthSanguine

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Honestly there's really nothing to tell yourself you just have to do it. As you do it more and more it gets easier, and remember the more time you're stuck on this problem with yourself, the less time you'll be actually improving your skills with women. Push through it man, I know you can!
 

Reave Krieger

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Thanks

Hey NinthSanguine,

Really appreciate your support! You're totally right. I won't make progress this way.
Sometimes I just need some approval that I can actually do it :)

Cheers,

-Jumok93
 

NinthSanguine

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Yea man, I just fucked up big today too. Girl on my bed, was kissing her. Just couldn't make myself push it to the next level. It's a problem I am struggling to overcome.
 
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