Hey guys this FU is about an interaction I had Saturday while I was working at my retail job. The girl had a fantastic body and was very chill, I want to say she was latina or some type of middle eastern and she was also from NY. This interaction has shown me that there are things that are possible as long as I believe they are possible and that I have to remain in the moment and not go into auto pilot because my auto pilot is not skilled enough to fuck girls while not thinking about it... at least not yet 
So the is closing in about 10 or 20 minutes when this girl comes in and the store is practically empty and I'm really the only one in the back so it's totally time to work my moves.
I help her out and I'm assisting her finding her stuff and she's just relaxed with me and even gives me a compliment saying shes gonna go to my amanger tell em how amazing I am etc. Throughout this shes just using sexual body language, for instance as we were talking and she does this role with her tongue and I'm just like. O.O nigga... Yea Either way I could tell she was down.
The end of the interaction is when is when I got her number. I used a barrier, my second time using a barrier when getting a number (the first time was earlier that day, tried it again and it didn't work I'm pretty sure the girl I used it on today was too nervous...back to the story) I said something along the lines of, "You know your so fucking cute, if I wasn't working I'd totally grab your number". Don't remember what she said but we exchanged numbers and as I was walking away. She asked me do you smoke bud(Which was an incredibly big escalation window that I missed). I just responded nah I quite. Then she said "Oh well we'll hangout another time" (She gave me a sign by letting me know that was a window). I was on autopilot and didnt think about what it really meant.
I tried to recover later when i was leaving the store and so was she. Tried to see where she was walking she said she was taking a cab so i just turned around and left. I feel like I could have made things go better by walking more closer to her but I was a bit too far away and I didnt wan't to walk alll the way over to her because of my pride. Which has probably cost me a few lays.
I figured out where I went wrong in the interaction and I recognized later that this was a large window that I didn't recognize. I have to focus on remaining present and moving thing's forward, sort of viualizing the lay if you will. I sent her the icebreaker and she responded but she hasnt responded to a subsequent text. I'm going to try once again but I doubt she's going to respond since I missed such a large window with a woman showing such obvious signs of attraction. I'm not mad, sad, or even angry, nothing negtive. I'm incredibly happy to have been able to even realize such a thing (like 2 mins later ahahaha), I know I'm learning and there will be more women, I am so fucking happy
So the is closing in about 10 or 20 minutes when this girl comes in and the store is practically empty and I'm really the only one in the back so it's totally time to work my moves.
I help her out and I'm assisting her finding her stuff and she's just relaxed with me and even gives me a compliment saying shes gonna go to my amanger tell em how amazing I am etc. Throughout this shes just using sexual body language, for instance as we were talking and she does this role with her tongue and I'm just like. O.O nigga... Yea Either way I could tell she was down.
The end of the interaction is when is when I got her number. I used a barrier, my second time using a barrier when getting a number (the first time was earlier that day, tried it again and it didn't work I'm pretty sure the girl I used it on today was too nervous...back to the story) I said something along the lines of, "You know your so fucking cute, if I wasn't working I'd totally grab your number". Don't remember what she said but we exchanged numbers and as I was walking away. She asked me do you smoke bud(Which was an incredibly big escalation window that I missed). I just responded nah I quite. Then she said "Oh well we'll hangout another time" (She gave me a sign by letting me know that was a window). I was on autopilot and didnt think about what it really meant.
I tried to recover later when i was leaving the store and so was she. Tried to see where she was walking she said she was taking a cab so i just turned around and left. I feel like I could have made things go better by walking more closer to her but I was a bit too far away and I didnt wan't to walk alll the way over to her because of my pride. Which has probably cost me a few lays.
I figured out where I went wrong in the interaction and I recognized later that this was a large window that I didn't recognize. I have to focus on remaining present and moving thing's forward, sort of viualizing the lay if you will. I sent her the icebreaker and she responded but she hasnt responded to a subsequent text. I'm going to try once again but I doubt she's going to respond since I missed such a large window with a woman showing such obvious signs of attraction. I'm not mad, sad, or even angry, nothing negtive. I'm incredibly happy to have been able to even realize such a thing (like 2 mins later ahahaha), I know I'm learning and there will be more women, I am so fucking happy
