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So I'm in the process of making Koala into a consistent FB. Venice on the other hand I would like to make into a MLTR. Was thinking about how I go about this process in its own post, but there's the general mindset I have right now. Both girls are relatively recent lays from last month that I fucked the same weekend.
Anyways, in the case of Koala - she has been a bit weird compared to other girls I've made FB's.
As far as I know, she's only had boyfriends up till this point, and has had very few ONS's. She's a "serial monogamist", so fucking me is a bit different for her. I also have a striking resemblance to her last boyfriend which naturally makes her like me more. We had good sex the first night we met after I persisted, and went on to fuck again the week after that where she had much better orgasms and I lasted like 3 times as long. Unfortunately, she flaked on the date we had after that because of being busy, and found out a few days later she had an STI.
So, after our most recent fuck, she went out with her girlfriend again who encouraged her to try another guy (try the being single thing for what it's worth) and she fucked some other dude. It could have been either of us that gave her the STI. In any situation, she texts me what happened and I call her. I was kinda thinking out loud and gave complete honesty to my sexual relations before our most recent fuck, and there were 2 likely candidates that could have given it to me.
Since this conversation, she has been trying to get more investment out of me, and also was not down for sex our last meet because "the STI isn't out of our system yet". While we were lying in bed she asked me a bunch of questions about my relationships and this time I was slightly more honest than the usual dodges of "I've fucked millions of women" because of the STI situation. My buddy even speculates that the STI could have been a ploy to find out more about my sex life since I still haven't heard a "you tested positive" call from my health provider.
Finally, while we're lying there she suggests "let's take things slow" and I asked what she meant. She just said "I think we should just take things slower" and I told her that I'm not sure if she's talking about sex or relationshipy stuff, and that it's best just to see where things go with no titles or expectations (though in the past she said word for word she wanted to be FB's). Eventually I also tell her I'm not into this whole "withholding sex" thing if that's what she's going for, because that doesn't leave either party happy (and I've tried it, it fucking doesn't).
So I'm confused on what all could be going on here, but my gut says that she just wants more investment out of me. Or, that she wants more control with how this "relationship" has been working. The sex is good and she's cool, so I enjoy having her around. Part of my mind is thinking though, "if she's withholding sex, next", and I think she can notice this. I also understand that building relationships is a different animal than simply seducing a girl, so I thought I'd reach out here.
What do you guys think, and how can I turn this into FB's given the current dynamic? Should I not be expecting sex, or should I be?
Hue
Anyways, in the case of Koala - she has been a bit weird compared to other girls I've made FB's.
As far as I know, she's only had boyfriends up till this point, and has had very few ONS's. She's a "serial monogamist", so fucking me is a bit different for her. I also have a striking resemblance to her last boyfriend which naturally makes her like me more. We had good sex the first night we met after I persisted, and went on to fuck again the week after that where she had much better orgasms and I lasted like 3 times as long. Unfortunately, she flaked on the date we had after that because of being busy, and found out a few days later she had an STI.
So, after our most recent fuck, she went out with her girlfriend again who encouraged her to try another guy (try the being single thing for what it's worth) and she fucked some other dude. It could have been either of us that gave her the STI. In any situation, she texts me what happened and I call her. I was kinda thinking out loud and gave complete honesty to my sexual relations before our most recent fuck, and there were 2 likely candidates that could have given it to me.
Since this conversation, she has been trying to get more investment out of me, and also was not down for sex our last meet because "the STI isn't out of our system yet". While we were lying in bed she asked me a bunch of questions about my relationships and this time I was slightly more honest than the usual dodges of "I've fucked millions of women" because of the STI situation. My buddy even speculates that the STI could have been a ploy to find out more about my sex life since I still haven't heard a "you tested positive" call from my health provider.
Finally, while we're lying there she suggests "let's take things slow" and I asked what she meant. She just said "I think we should just take things slower" and I told her that I'm not sure if she's talking about sex or relationshipy stuff, and that it's best just to see where things go with no titles or expectations (though in the past she said word for word she wanted to be FB's). Eventually I also tell her I'm not into this whole "withholding sex" thing if that's what she's going for, because that doesn't leave either party happy (and I've tried it, it fucking doesn't).
So I'm confused on what all could be going on here, but my gut says that she just wants more investment out of me. Or, that she wants more control with how this "relationship" has been working. The sex is good and she's cool, so I enjoy having her around. Part of my mind is thinking though, "if she's withholding sex, next", and I think she can notice this. I also understand that building relationships is a different animal than simply seducing a girl, so I thought I'd reach out here.
What do you guys think, and how can I turn this into FB's given the current dynamic? Should I not be expecting sex, or should I be?
Hue
