Altair is back and he just got a lot more bold and daring!

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Long story short, if any of you remember me, I am the arab guy that could not manage to get laid in college and is a 21 year old virgin.

So over the past few months, I just said fuck it. Yes, it is true that a lot of the good looking girls at my university (maybe even all of them) prefer athletes and frat boys. True, I am an arabian guy in a region of the USA where interracial dating isn't thought too highly of and women likely won't dream of getting with a man with my appearance. But you know, I am not going to let my college years fly right by.

I started talking to guys at first in public, just to lighten the mood.

From guys, I went to talking to girls that I would normally not be attracted to (girls that are not white). Felt no pressure at all either and quite a few were receptive to me. Some continued the conversation with me but I kept it just to a conversation and nothing else.

Then I decided to take it to a different level now, I started approaching and talking to girls that were white but made sure they were not blondes (since I have always had an awful experience with them). Approached this brunette 8 and she seemed happy to talk to me and had this one ginger who was all over me when I went out for a jog, this happened a month back.

Feeling confident, I took it to another level, its time to get to those elusive blondes!

I noticed that there is this blonde that keeps checking me out at the school library, talk to her one day out of nowhere and get a random conversation going. Then I took it to a different level, talked to this one sorority girl, she was nice and all smiles when chatting with me.

AWWWW YEA!!!

Well, then I kept on pulling off the approaches left and right. Talked to about 6 more blondes that I found to be cute, about 4 of them were receptive and all smiles when I talked to them. A few even smile when they see me around campus!!!


The only burden I have now is that I am a 21 yr old virgin that does not know how to go about losing his v card in terms of the method. Like if I take them out on dates and then take them home or if I just wait and let it happen. How to get myself in a situation where I am alone in the room with them and we can finally do it. I know some of these girls are into me man!

 

[Zoro]

Nice work.

Social momentum is in my opinion a critical part of approaching, especially when you're new to it.

In my experience I have had great periods of approaching like a boss and having good interactions and then have it come crumbling down at some point. I just want you to be aware that it may go as fast as it comes, but perhaps can be lessened or avoided all together.

When it starts to come crashing down on me is when I start to let other parts of life slip up. It may be as simple as keeping up your good habits and avoiding those bad ones.

Also as Hector and many others have shared, being obsessed with improving and going at it HARD while being reflective and focused is usually the mindset of those on the boards who climb the ranks quickly.

I would like you to see you be up there brotha.

True, I am an arabian guy in a region of the USA where interracial dating isn't thought too highly of and women likely won't dream of getting with a man with my appearance. But you know, I am not going to let my college years fly right by.

Exactly. Fuck it. You can either subscribe to those beliefs or chuck them out the window and live the life you choose.

That blonde was checking you out, you're getting received warmly, and smiles are raining down upon you.

Yeah, leave those shitty limiting beliefs out on the curb. :}

You're still young. Youth is measured in vitality not time. I don't care if you're a 40 year-old-virgin (that guy got laid in the end too) You still have life to live. Chase shared he believes a man's prime is in his 50's should he take care of himself and his life and his mojo and I agree. You've got no time to waste and plenty to enjoy!

I'm not saying that I think its going to take you a long time to trade in the V card or that you can twiddle your thumbs or anything like that. No, I just want you to not be hung up on your age or anything else you may think is holding you back. It's 100% possible you get laid tomorrow. But that is up to you.

Go get 'em tiger.

-JW

 

[ray_zorse]

Good to hear. If you're wanting to convert cold approaches into dates then really you just have to ask her out, the details of how you do it are not super important since once you've done a few then you'll quickly get a feel for what works and what doesn't. I'm sure there's an article about this on the main site but the gist is basically "if you don't ask her out, you don't get dates". But it's important to be a boss about it, my favourite is something like "join me for coffee later in the week", just a simple command stated with confidence, she can always refuse but she'll probably at least give her number even if she's not planning to meet you really.

If you're looking for a step-by-step process it would look something like this:
1. Approach
2. Banter or cold read or both
3. Get her sharing
4. Ask her out at a high point
5. Discuss logistics, when she's free, etc
6. Continue the conversation for a bit
7. Eject

Some other ways:
1. Approach
2. Banter or cold read or both
3. Move her
4. Get her sharing
5. Suggest insta-date (lets go for coffee)
6. Go have insta date with her
7. Grab her number during insta date
8. Keep it to under an hour, unless you're planning to take her home then and there... eject and set up the proper date for later

Or, say you're in an insta-date location already:
1. Call her over to your table
2. Tell her to sit down
3. Have insta-date with her

Et cetera... see how you go with these templates. Good luck bro. I apologize if I was a bit snippy with you in the past, good to hear things are in a better place.

Ray

 

[Mr.Rob]

Way to go Altair, taking action is scary but it's the only way to go about getting the life you desire.

Instead of worrying about sex why not worry about getting a date or instant date and learning how to converse and escalate things further from there.

Get to the point where you're kissing these girls and you've made another milestone.

Get to the point where you're inviting them home with you and then kiss them, and then go from escalating further from there.

Try not to put much emphasis on the fact you're still a virgin. It doesn't mean anything. You're no less of a man or worse of a seducer because of it. When you go to have sex emulate a porno when you're escalating and having sex with her (not one of the MEGA aggressive tear her a new vagina porno but the average dominant fuck her until you both cum porno). When I lost my virginity I just emulated a porno I watched and the girl was into it so don't stress too much over that aspect.

Good luck and keep taking action my friend.

-Rob