Hey guys.
So a while back I got a text message from a girl, let us assume she is named Ashley.
She texts me saying that I should come over and share my movies with her. I ask her the time and we agree on it. I have to meet up with another girl on the same night, so I figure that I’ll just try my luck with both girls and see where it leads me. I took a while because I showered first as I was nervous since I couldn’t put on any deodorant on because my armpits keep paining when I do that (though they're fine today for some reason).
Anyways, I get there and we chill. She asks random questions, I ask random questions, it felt pretty good. I made some incidental touches as I was there. We also spoke about the world of seduction. She told me about how she used to lead people on as a kid, but after finding herself she stopped, etc. And I pretty much told her that I wasn’t into the whole marriage and relationship thing (it more like slipped out because it’s such general knowledge about me that I assumed she already knew). It was quite a pleasant talk honestly. Then eventually I start sending her some stuff and then we watched a movie on her bed.
I put my arm around her and she doesn’t pull back. It’s pretty late and she falls asleep towards the end of the movie. it was round about 2 AM at that point, so I figure my other appointment is asleep by now. But Ashley is so comfortable with my touch that I’m certain that I’ll get laid. So I don’t pay it any bother.
She tells me that I can lie down if I want, and that she usually sleeps with the light on, and I figure that I gotta make my move fast. But I'm terrified at this point. So I lie down next to her, with her facing away from me. Surely this can’t be a sleepover? She must want me to try something right?
So, as my heart races and my balls freak the hell out, I decide to make my move
I stop as I’m relieved that I at least tried something. But then I realize that that was probably LMR and not rejection. So I squeak:
She ignores it.
I figure that I made a lot of progress. From doing nothing but pondering over girls to having a sleepover with one on the first “date”. I figured I was on the right track. So I decide to just try again in the morning. I struggle to sleep with the light on, but I make sure to get some kino in with my arm on her waist.
In the morning when she wakes up, I wish her a goodmorning, ask her what she dreamed, made some fluff talk, etc etc. It was 7 AM. Then I remind her that the movie turned me on. I believe that after I said that it opened the flood gates into her and I talking about religion and morality in terms of sex and why this and why that. I also kept trying to add more kino to the interaction with her. So I start kissing her body. AND SHE ALLOWS THIS!!!!!!!!!
I keep kissing her and talking to her, kissing and talking, then I try to remove items of her clothing but she ain't having that and keeps moving my hand away. Though she does let me caress her. She also faces away from me, but that didn't stop me. So I just keep kissing, talking and trying to slip off items. I eventually realize that I haven’t kissed her on her lips yet. However, I’m afraid that if she rejects that, then she’ll reach an ultimately conscious decision not to sleep with me. But I try anyway and she dodges it.
Fuck.
I keep trying anyways and kissing parts of her body and removing her items but she’s letting me kiss her, but wont let me take shit off or makeout with her.
I figure that this has to be LMR and not a rejection, because she’s letting me kiss her and isn’t showing any signs at all that kissing her body is off the table. So I decide to keep doing this until she lets up. So I keep it up. Her clothes slip off slowly as my kissing, talking and stripping confuses her, so I make progress little by little. She even allows me to caress her butt and the area above her pussy. However, everytime I try to kiss her on the lips, she dodges it, and once I get to close to her pussy she pushes me away. Eventually I remember that when I woke up, she told me about a group meeting she had to attend. She checks the time and hours had flown passed since we woke up. It’s afternoon now and she was late for the meeting. I tell her to tell them that she was buying groceries and she rolled with it. Then the group cancels the meeting because everybody had an excuse, so I kept doing what I was doing.
She tells me that even if i were to suck her nipples and kiss her all day, nothing would happen.
She made a lot of comments like that. They felt pretty teasey. So it kind of felt like she was giving me the greenlight to go ahead.
Eventually more hours passed by and then I realize that she invited me to go to her church. I reeeeeeaaaaaallllllly wanted to go to it so I stop and tell her that I'll go get ready for it. She says sure and I go off. I had to do a bit of walking around and then when I got back, she told me that the trip was cancelled. And I know this to be true because I would have seen the bus on my way back to her. So I go off to my regular church nearby after chilling with her for another hour.
I was as nice as I could to prevent her from going into autorejection.
If you’re wondering how long this all took I got there at 8 pm, we slept at 2AM, woke up at 7AM, and I left at 6 PM to go to my own church.
The entire interaction was 22 hours long, with the LMR making up 16 hours of it (and yes, I counted her sleeping as LMR. Girl was probably planning how to execute the LMR for the next day!). But, I enjoyed the talks with her. I bumped into her yesterday and we vibed well (as far as I can tell).
Still, pretty eye opening regarding the patience, stubbornness and endurance of LMR.
Lessons:
1. If you can’t makeout with her, then you can’t fuck her.
2. Freshen up on the sexy man articles
3. Datey relationship topics are not the same as sexual topics. Must ramp it up next time
4. I’ve realised that I appreciate LMR now. Since it indicates that I’ve at least tried to go all the way.
5. A few days later I found out that the other girl I was supposed to meet had gotten engaged over the break. Just goes to show that moving fast is a paradigm to be taken seriously. But more importantly, I thought that this girl and Ashley were guaranteed lays, and so it kind of got me lazy. So now I can wipe the slate clean and go for new chicks. Fucking awesome
6. I probably should have forgotten about church and just continued trying to fuck her. But I got afraid that I was on the verge of rape that I jumped on the first plausible excuse to run away. If anybody knows where I can buy enormous balls so this can stop happening, please point the way. Otherwise, I'll just have to get there the old fashioned way: Experience!!!!
7. I expect a lot more LMR in the future. And I am indeed prepared to learn how to deal with it and then prevent it.
Take care guys
So a while back I got a text message from a girl, let us assume she is named Ashley.
She texts me saying that I should come over and share my movies with her. I ask her the time and we agree on it. I have to meet up with another girl on the same night, so I figure that I’ll just try my luck with both girls and see where it leads me. I took a while because I showered first as I was nervous since I couldn’t put on any deodorant on because my armpits keep paining when I do that (though they're fine today for some reason).
Anyways, I get there and we chill. She asks random questions, I ask random questions, it felt pretty good. I made some incidental touches as I was there. We also spoke about the world of seduction. She told me about how she used to lead people on as a kid, but after finding herself she stopped, etc. And I pretty much told her that I wasn’t into the whole marriage and relationship thing (it more like slipped out because it’s such general knowledge about me that I assumed she already knew). It was quite a pleasant talk honestly. Then eventually I start sending her some stuff and then we watched a movie on her bed.
I put my arm around her and she doesn’t pull back. It’s pretty late and she falls asleep towards the end of the movie. it was round about 2 AM at that point, so I figure my other appointment is asleep by now. But Ashley is so comfortable with my touch that I’m certain that I’ll get laid. So I don’t pay it any bother.
She tells me that I can lie down if I want, and that she usually sleeps with the light on, and I figure that I gotta make my move fast. But I'm terrified at this point. So I lie down next to her, with her facing away from me. Surely this can’t be a sleepover? She must want me to try something right?
So, as my heart races and my balls freak the hell out, I decide to make my move
Me: Ashley?
Her: Yeah?
Me: That movie made me horny
Her: *raises head* What?!
Me: The movie. It turned me on.
Her: Who’s turned on?
Me: me
Her: I need to sleep. I’m tired.
Me: oh
I stop as I’m relieved that I at least tried something. But then I realize that that was probably LMR and not rejection. So I squeak:
She ignores it.
I figure that I made a lot of progress. From doing nothing but pondering over girls to having a sleepover with one on the first “date”. I figured I was on the right track. So I decide to just try again in the morning. I struggle to sleep with the light on, but I make sure to get some kino in with my arm on her waist.
In the morning when she wakes up, I wish her a goodmorning, ask her what she dreamed, made some fluff talk, etc etc. It was 7 AM. Then I remind her that the movie turned me on. I believe that after I said that it opened the flood gates into her and I talking about religion and morality in terms of sex and why this and why that. I also kept trying to add more kino to the interaction with her. So I start kissing her body. AND SHE ALLOWS THIS!!!!!!!!!
I keep kissing her and talking to her, kissing and talking, then I try to remove items of her clothing but she ain't having that and keeps moving my hand away. Though she does let me caress her. She also faces away from me, but that didn't stop me. So I just keep kissing, talking and trying to slip off items. I eventually realize that I haven’t kissed her on her lips yet. However, I’m afraid that if she rejects that, then she’ll reach an ultimately conscious decision not to sleep with me. But I try anyway and she dodges it.
Fuck.
I keep trying anyways and kissing parts of her body and removing her items but she’s letting me kiss her, but wont let me take shit off or makeout with her.
I figure that this has to be LMR and not a rejection, because she’s letting me kiss her and isn’t showing any signs at all that kissing her body is off the table. So I decide to keep doing this until she lets up. So I keep it up. Her clothes slip off slowly as my kissing, talking and stripping confuses her, so I make progress little by little. She even allows me to caress her butt and the area above her pussy. However, everytime I try to kiss her on the lips, she dodges it, and once I get to close to her pussy she pushes me away. Eventually I remember that when I woke up, she told me about a group meeting she had to attend. She checks the time and hours had flown passed since we woke up. It’s afternoon now and she was late for the meeting. I tell her to tell them that she was buying groceries and she rolled with it. Then the group cancels the meeting because everybody had an excuse, so I kept doing what I was doing.
She tells me that even if i were to suck her nipples and kiss her all day, nothing would happen.
She made a lot of comments like that. They felt pretty teasey. So it kind of felt like she was giving me the greenlight to go ahead.
Eventually more hours passed by and then I realize that she invited me to go to her church. I reeeeeeaaaaaallllllly wanted to go to it so I stop and tell her that I'll go get ready for it. She says sure and I go off. I had to do a bit of walking around and then when I got back, she told me that the trip was cancelled. And I know this to be true because I would have seen the bus on my way back to her. So I go off to my regular church nearby after chilling with her for another hour.
I was as nice as I could to prevent her from going into autorejection.
If you’re wondering how long this all took I got there at 8 pm, we slept at 2AM, woke up at 7AM, and I left at 6 PM to go to my own church.
The entire interaction was 22 hours long, with the LMR making up 16 hours of it (and yes, I counted her sleeping as LMR. Girl was probably planning how to execute the LMR for the next day!). But, I enjoyed the talks with her. I bumped into her yesterday and we vibed well (as far as I can tell).
Still, pretty eye opening regarding the patience, stubbornness and endurance of LMR.
Lessons:
1. If you can’t makeout with her, then you can’t fuck her.
2. Freshen up on the sexy man articles
3. Datey relationship topics are not the same as sexual topics. Must ramp it up next time
4. I’ve realised that I appreciate LMR now. Since it indicates that I’ve at least tried to go all the way.
5. A few days later I found out that the other girl I was supposed to meet had gotten engaged over the break. Just goes to show that moving fast is a paradigm to be taken seriously. But more importantly, I thought that this girl and Ashley were guaranteed lays, and so it kind of got me lazy. So now I can wipe the slate clean and go for new chicks. Fucking awesome
6. I probably should have forgotten about church and just continued trying to fuck her. But I got afraid that I was on the verge of rape that I jumped on the first plausible excuse to run away. If anybody knows where I can buy enormous balls so this can stop happening, please point the way. Otherwise, I'll just have to get there the old fashioned way: Experience!!!!
7. I expect a lot more LMR in the future. And I am indeed prepared to learn how to deal with it and then prevent it.
Take care guys
