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Dudes! I was out with friends earlier today an one of my mates girlfriends asked if I was single. Her boyfriend commented that I was great at attracting girls but couldn't retain them. This is mostly true but I find I retain them in ways where they keep coming back later on. It got me thinking that I get similar outcomes but can't figure out the cause of my problem.
Went on a date with a girl, she was really enthusiastic and set up a second date immediately. She cancelled on the day of the date to say she really likes me but she can't do it. She's going back home in a few months and doesn't want any ties. I was cool about it and she came back 3 times since.
Met a girl with a boyfriend, she expressed how much she loved me and wanted me. Split up from her boyfriend to be with me and pushed me for a relationship. She then re framed and said she couldn't do that to me I deserve better. I was cool with it, she chased a bit then went on a rebound. She still comes back after a year to get my attention, marks me up and generally goes kamikaze.
I stupidly hooked up with an ex, set up a date. At the end of the date she run away from me. Immediately text saying sorry she didn't mean to do that. Set up another date with me and run away at the end again. She text sorry again and tried to set up another date and I left it. She'll still come up to me when we're out and texts after still chasing.
Met a girl, she cancelled on the date and didn't set up another, so I left it. Months later she came back said that she panicked that she liked me and begged for another chance. We went on a date, set up another that she had to reschedule then cancelled so again I left it. Months later comes back and begs for another chance. Went on a date, cancelled the second, I totally wrote her off at this point and again she's came back begging for another chance...
Met another girl (SNL) had a date set up and she cancelled saying she really likes me, can't do that to me it's not fair but she's not looking for that right now. Am confused what she can't do to me? at no point did I frame this as a relationship so no idea where that came from. Buyers remorse?
Any ideas dudes?
Went on a date with a girl, she was really enthusiastic and set up a second date immediately. She cancelled on the day of the date to say she really likes me but she can't do it. She's going back home in a few months and doesn't want any ties. I was cool about it and she came back 3 times since.
Met a girl with a boyfriend, she expressed how much she loved me and wanted me. Split up from her boyfriend to be with me and pushed me for a relationship. She then re framed and said she couldn't do that to me I deserve better. I was cool with it, she chased a bit then went on a rebound. She still comes back after a year to get my attention, marks me up and generally goes kamikaze.
I stupidly hooked up with an ex, set up a date. At the end of the date she run away from me. Immediately text saying sorry she didn't mean to do that. Set up another date with me and run away at the end again. She text sorry again and tried to set up another date and I left it. She'll still come up to me when we're out and texts after still chasing.
Met a girl, she cancelled on the date and didn't set up another, so I left it. Months later she came back said that she panicked that she liked me and begged for another chance. We went on a date, set up another that she had to reschedule then cancelled so again I left it. Months later comes back and begs for another chance. Went on a date, cancelled the second, I totally wrote her off at this point and again she's came back begging for another chance...
Met another girl (SNL) had a date set up and she cancelled saying she really likes me, can't do that to me it's not fair but she's not looking for that right now. Am confused what she can't do to me? at no point did I frame this as a relationship so no idea where that came from. Buyers remorse?
Any ideas dudes?
