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- Oct 21, 2015
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- 7
Has anyone else had the moment when the whole approaching, escalating, closing just clicked? Feel as though a light from heaven hit me 2wks ago. On 1 day Instinctivly opened 1 set then another then instadated the next 2 ( same. day). Was so afraid id lose the rythm that i kept heading out. Similar pattern has run well into last wk. Mainly instadates. A few number closes.
Now for the question. Phonewise i tend to follow chases' tetxing articles to the T. Had a horrendous flake rate before them. Now its about 1/5 rate of # closes. Opened an hb 7 during last Wk's rush. (cold approach). She seemed warm to approach, responsive to chase frames , so i number closed. She (19) gave me an odd restriction. Her rents took her phone so id have to text her on mon. (3 days later) i nodded then continued the conv. Til the close
I realized 4ish hours later, her objection seemed a bit weird in uni. Plus as she said it she had another phone in her hand (supposedly a friends'). 1. was wondering wether i did something wrong upon asking? Maybe she was trying not to be easy?2. Since 72 hours passed since meet, do i do the typical ice breaker text? Or hard push for meetup after a reminder of who i am? 3. Am i overcomplicating this?
Now for the question. Phonewise i tend to follow chases' tetxing articles to the T. Had a horrendous flake rate before them. Now its about 1/5 rate of # closes. Opened an hb 7 during last Wk's rush. (cold approach). She seemed warm to approach, responsive to chase frames , so i number closed. She (19) gave me an odd restriction. Her rents took her phone so id have to text her on mon. (3 days later) i nodded then continued the conv. Til the close
I realized 4ish hours later, her objection seemed a bit weird in uni. Plus as she said it she had another phone in her hand (supposedly a friends'). 1. was wondering wether i did something wrong upon asking? Maybe she was trying not to be easy?2. Since 72 hours passed since meet, do i do the typical ice breaker text? Or hard push for meetup after a reminder of who i am? 3. Am i overcomplicating this?
