Hi Zac,
I see it differently. It is difficult to talk about seduction, so lets use simple analogy.
One of those nice days you wake up and you finally decide to go to fitness and lift weights because you don't want to be a pussy. So you go there, and you see a guy, lets call him Joe, who claims that he can bench press 300 pounds after 3 years of training. You say wow, I want to do that too, after 3 years I can lift even more. You load the weight, but the best you can do is 120 pounds. You are quite disappointed with yourself. How did the other guy lift so much weight? But you don't get discouraged, you just train and train.
So you practice and practice, you are doing your best, you train honestly, and after 3 years of training your best lift is 230 pounds. You think that this guy Joe is lying, that he must have been lifting weights much longer, but now after another 3 years he is lifting 400 pounds. How is it possible? It can't be, you say, it just doesn't make sense. He must be on steroids.
Another guy comes, call him Frank, and he claims he's never bench pressed in his entire life. Frank grabs a weights and he benches 250 pounds, more than you after 3 years of honest training. Is it possible? Is he lying?
It is possible, but you have to put things in perspective. For example, Joe is using totally different strategy then you. He has faster metabolism than you, he eats more proteins, he has robust anatomy, he trains with other guys who are equally good. They compete with each other, try to beat each other. Joe also trains biceps, back, legs, and the rest of his body. He trains 2x a day, 6 days a week. He trains to be pro, he has no other life, whereas you are busy chasing girls and bench only 2x per week. You don't excercise biceps, back, nor legs.
But how about that liar Frank? How can he bench 250 pounds without ever benching before? What Frank didn't mention is, that he grew up in woods with his grandfather from Russia. He was doing hard labor all day, lifting heavy objects pretty much every day. He never benched in his entire life, but he was doing lots of push ups, trying to beat his grandpa. He also weighs 100 pounds more than you, his testosterone levels are double of yours, and he will easily bench 300 pounds in the next 2 months of training.
So that is the analogy. Back to the girls: Imagine a guy who grew up between guys who were good at seducing girls, in family where everybody is friendly, open, supportive. He is smart and extroverted, that is just his personality. He is not shy, he is confident around girls because he grew up around them. He has no problems with girls, he can easily seduce girl without any knowledge, he can figure out on his own how to get girls in bed. He's got all he needs - vibing personality, friendliness, smartness, and he also whitnessed many times that seducing girl is no big deal. For him, seducing girls is a joy, fun, pleasure, ease...
Compare it to a different guy. This guy doesn't have many friends, he is also very smart but introverted, that is just his personality. He never met anyone who is good with girls. He has anxiety issues, he is shy, he didn't really talk much to girls since he was little. For him seducing girls is suffering, work, it brings him depression, anger, stress...
You just can't compare these two guys. The first guy needs minimum knowledge to be good with girls, it is more natural to him to be around girls. The other guy will struggle, he just doesn't have the underlying experience and personality, he needs to learn a lot about girls, he needs to get the experience being around girls and talking to them, he needs to work on his personality, open up, cheer up, relax, become more positive...
