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This isn't really a post written around a question, merely to keep track of my progress and possibly inspire any disbelievers out there...
ITS ALL IN THE MINDSET!!
3 months ago, I was the same guy I am now, with a few differences...
I was a thin, 5'10" blonde guy with blue eyes, had just come out of a 3 year engagement that ended badly and had been rebounding for a while, I was doing Ok, getting regular lays with an old crush from school (one I'd viewed as "the one that got away!" for about 8 years, I succeeded in my conquest in the end but that's beside the point) and was experiencing the best sex of my life to date (she was FAR more experienced and adventurous than any girl I'd been with previously) which, combined with the feeling "something was missing from my life, I need to replace what I had and had lost when my fiance broke up with me" led me to start thinking "maybe this chick is the one" and chasing her hardcore, even being needy, possessive and weak, obviously this blew up in my face and she ran for the hills (and who could blame her?!)
But this experience did one thing for me, it made me DETERMINED to be successful with women, not just one woman, but lots of women, it made me realize that I hadn't found my identity as an individual yet and had been building myself up to be "Dan, the provider, the long term partner, the "husband material" guy" I'd been with someone so long I'd forgotten who I was, and that had to change!
So I made the decision to move area, start afresh and shape myself into the person I'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE, yet NEVER had the balls to become! I was to become "Dan, the skilled and successful seducer of women and provider of extreme and intense pleasure and passionate encounters!" Thus the day I started reading Chase's E-book.
In the last few months, my mind set has shifted drastically, and the results have been far more drastic and consistent that I could ever have imagined, I'm getting more numbers (this week its been at least 1 per day, every day from limited approaches (5 at most)) going on more dates and becoming more confident, outgoing, approachable, strong and dominant in the process!
I took the time to work on my fundamentals, walking slower with a more upright, confident posture, making and maintaining eye contact with everyone, smiling and saying "Hi" to everyone who held my gaze, I started seeing opportunity that I'd otherwise not have noticed or noticed BUT TAKEN NO ACTION TOWARDS! I began being more direct in my intentions, started escalating far faster than I normally would and breaking the touch barrier FROM THE OUTSET!
I BECAME A MAN OF ACTION, a man who isn't afraid to seize an opportunity, or create one. A man with a goal, a mission to succeed!
The change in myself and the results I'm getting is remarkable, I'm getting consistent results, dating more women that I ever thought possible, getting women to ask me for my number, getting approached by women, getting early compliance, I feel far more confident in myself and my ability to be a sexy man, something I'd never viewed myself as before, but biggest of all, EVEN THOUGH i'M GETTING MORE RESULTS THAN I'D EVER DREAMED OFF, I NOW SEE IT AS ONLY THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG!
All this comes down to 2 things, the helpful advice I'm obtained from the website, E-book and this forum, which leads on to the next, the change in mindset from then to now!
It all comes down to the mindset, before I viewed myself as a guy "no woman could ever find sexually desirable" I was afraid to make any moves and wasn't making any effort. That then shifted to a mindset of "I WILL become a man women can find sexy, can be attracted to and will want to sleep with" and as I started implementing what I had read and field testing some of the techniques myself, the results lead to my current mindset "I AM a sexy man, I AM desirable to women, I AM a man women Do want to sleep with!"
and the change in results has increased with every step of that mindset, obviously there's still a very long road in front of me, I'm no where near where I want to be, but rather than seeing that road as a dark, winding trail through a spooky, vermin infested and dangerous forest, I see it as a bright, wide straight path, with fun interactions with every step! I'm having far more fun now than I ever thought I would!
I guess I'm writing this because I'm shocked by the results I've gotten off of an average amount of effort, I'm surprised by how effective the materials provided here have been and want to tell anyone who's doubting this, or thinking "it might work for them, but it'll never work for me!" I was one of you, I had doubts, but had I not taken any action, I'd be no where near where I am now, not getting results and still feeling like something was missing from my life!
Take action, and as you do, your mindset will shift, and as it does you'll see results!!
ITS IN THE MINDSET AND TAKING ACTION!!
ITS ALL IN THE MINDSET!!
3 months ago, I was the same guy I am now, with a few differences...
I was a thin, 5'10" blonde guy with blue eyes, had just come out of a 3 year engagement that ended badly and had been rebounding for a while, I was doing Ok, getting regular lays with an old crush from school (one I'd viewed as "the one that got away!" for about 8 years, I succeeded in my conquest in the end but that's beside the point) and was experiencing the best sex of my life to date (she was FAR more experienced and adventurous than any girl I'd been with previously) which, combined with the feeling "something was missing from my life, I need to replace what I had and had lost when my fiance broke up with me" led me to start thinking "maybe this chick is the one" and chasing her hardcore, even being needy, possessive and weak, obviously this blew up in my face and she ran for the hills (and who could blame her?!)
But this experience did one thing for me, it made me DETERMINED to be successful with women, not just one woman, but lots of women, it made me realize that I hadn't found my identity as an individual yet and had been building myself up to be "Dan, the provider, the long term partner, the "husband material" guy" I'd been with someone so long I'd forgotten who I was, and that had to change!
So I made the decision to move area, start afresh and shape myself into the person I'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE, yet NEVER had the balls to become! I was to become "Dan, the skilled and successful seducer of women and provider of extreme and intense pleasure and passionate encounters!" Thus the day I started reading Chase's E-book.
In the last few months, my mind set has shifted drastically, and the results have been far more drastic and consistent that I could ever have imagined, I'm getting more numbers (this week its been at least 1 per day, every day from limited approaches (5 at most)) going on more dates and becoming more confident, outgoing, approachable, strong and dominant in the process!
I took the time to work on my fundamentals, walking slower with a more upright, confident posture, making and maintaining eye contact with everyone, smiling and saying "Hi" to everyone who held my gaze, I started seeing opportunity that I'd otherwise not have noticed or noticed BUT TAKEN NO ACTION TOWARDS! I began being more direct in my intentions, started escalating far faster than I normally would and breaking the touch barrier FROM THE OUTSET!
I BECAME A MAN OF ACTION, a man who isn't afraid to seize an opportunity, or create one. A man with a goal, a mission to succeed!
The change in myself and the results I'm getting is remarkable, I'm getting consistent results, dating more women that I ever thought possible, getting women to ask me for my number, getting approached by women, getting early compliance, I feel far more confident in myself and my ability to be a sexy man, something I'd never viewed myself as before, but biggest of all, EVEN THOUGH i'M GETTING MORE RESULTS THAN I'D EVER DREAMED OFF, I NOW SEE IT AS ONLY THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG!
All this comes down to 2 things, the helpful advice I'm obtained from the website, E-book and this forum, which leads on to the next, the change in mindset from then to now!
It all comes down to the mindset, before I viewed myself as a guy "no woman could ever find sexually desirable" I was afraid to make any moves and wasn't making any effort. That then shifted to a mindset of "I WILL become a man women can find sexy, can be attracted to and will want to sleep with" and as I started implementing what I had read and field testing some of the techniques myself, the results lead to my current mindset "I AM a sexy man, I AM desirable to women, I AM a man women Do want to sleep with!"
and the change in results has increased with every step of that mindset, obviously there's still a very long road in front of me, I'm no where near where I want to be, but rather than seeing that road as a dark, winding trail through a spooky, vermin infested and dangerous forest, I see it as a bright, wide straight path, with fun interactions with every step! I'm having far more fun now than I ever thought I would!
I guess I'm writing this because I'm shocked by the results I've gotten off of an average amount of effort, I'm surprised by how effective the materials provided here have been and want to tell anyone who's doubting this, or thinking "it might work for them, but it'll never work for me!" I was one of you, I had doubts, but had I not taken any action, I'd be no where near where I am now, not getting results and still feeling like something was missing from my life!
Take action, and as you do, your mindset will shift, and as it does you'll see results!!
ITS IN THE MINDSET AND TAKING ACTION!!
