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So met this AMAZING girl on a dating app and after 2 weeks of messages, voice messages and call we meet up on a Friday
PLAN
Dinner, then either go to some standup or an electric scooter with her round the park (its fun and I know she had never done it)
DINNER
So we meet, and she is super hot, we get our table in the restaurant and the seats are opposite (Fuck !!), despite this the dinner could not really have gone better, amazing rapport and eye contact, we were laughing joking and vibing, it was going great. At around 10 we decided to leave.
She tells me that she passed 2 really good friends of hers at a bar nearby and that we should stop and say hi .... sounds good to me (FUCK ME I AM STUPID)
The bar 30 seconds away, here friends have a table for 4 despite being 2, they shuffle so that we are sitting next to each other, we order drinks and start to talk, they are really fun and banter is good. The vibe was very much my date showing me to her friends.
THE DECLINE
So after some time I am aware that this situation had gone on too long, things were not progressing and one friend was a big personality swallowing attention.
BUT, my 2 plan B's had been fucked, the comedy had ended and rain meant the Scooter ride was out.
I had no plan C bar as just moved to the city.
Then the girl started to slip away ... This was a combination of the group dynamic of us 4 losing interest and her disappointment that this is what we had ended up doing !!! FUCK FUCK.
THE END
Then it turned out that she lived really far out of town and her friend offered her a to stay at her place !!! FUCK FUCK FUCK
Then night ended when they decided to get a cab home, leaving me alone, dick in my hand without even a kiss !!!! SHOOT ME
POST MORTEM
I should have had a Plan C
I need a way to get out of a situation that is comfortable for the girl but not good for you without it making you look like a tool and seem appealing
In the absence of a plan C, I think I should have tried to move the whole group to a new venue, it would have been a stepping stone to getting what I wanted.
ADVICE
Any of you guys been in a situation like that ? How did you handle it ?
What should I have done differently ?
Can I save the situation ?
PLAN
Dinner, then either go to some standup or an electric scooter with her round the park (its fun and I know she had never done it)
DINNER
So we meet, and she is super hot, we get our table in the restaurant and the seats are opposite (Fuck !!), despite this the dinner could not really have gone better, amazing rapport and eye contact, we were laughing joking and vibing, it was going great. At around 10 we decided to leave.
She tells me that she passed 2 really good friends of hers at a bar nearby and that we should stop and say hi .... sounds good to me (FUCK ME I AM STUPID)
The bar 30 seconds away, here friends have a table for 4 despite being 2, they shuffle so that we are sitting next to each other, we order drinks and start to talk, they are really fun and banter is good. The vibe was very much my date showing me to her friends.
THE DECLINE
So after some time I am aware that this situation had gone on too long, things were not progressing and one friend was a big personality swallowing attention.
BUT, my 2 plan B's had been fucked, the comedy had ended and rain meant the Scooter ride was out.
I had no plan C bar as just moved to the city.
Then the girl started to slip away ... This was a combination of the group dynamic of us 4 losing interest and her disappointment that this is what we had ended up doing !!! FUCK FUCK.
THE END
Then it turned out that she lived really far out of town and her friend offered her a to stay at her place !!! FUCK FUCK FUCK
Then night ended when they decided to get a cab home, leaving me alone, dick in my hand without even a kiss !!!! SHOOT ME
POST MORTEM
I should have had a Plan C
I need a way to get out of a situation that is comfortable for the girl but not good for you without it making you look like a tool and seem appealing
In the absence of a plan C, I think I should have tried to move the whole group to a new venue, it would have been a stepping stone to getting what I wanted.
ADVICE
Any of you guys been in a situation like that ? How did you handle it ?
What should I have done differently ?
Can I save the situation ?
