An Average Joe being seduced by a "Leftover" Woman in China

[Rakkum]

Hey fellas,

Happened up ton this Youtube clip and thought it worthwhile sharing.

Interesting points:
* analysis of the Chinese cultural context - Leftover Women being a thing
* an enlightening and somewhat humorous account of how an average joe (dating wise) is being seduced hard by a successful career woman


Cheers,
Rakkum

 

[trashKENNUT]

It has been going on for a long while

 

[Madara Fire Annihilation]

because of their unrealistic goals make them leftover

 

[trashKENNUT]

because of their unrealistic goals make them leftover

That's a way to put it, Unrealistic standards.

But really. If you want to understand why the world "sucks", look around you and you feel more empathy for women, and men and everyone.

Not as in I'm better than you or vice versa

Because it's not as straightforward. I can explain many different nuances that get us to this point.

 

[Dr.X]

Thank you, that's new for me.

 

[Madara Fire Annihilation]

That's a way to put it, Unrealistic standards.

But really. If you want to understand why the world "sucks", look around you and you feel more empathy for women, and men and everyone.

Not as in I'm better than you or vice versa

Because it's not as straightforward. I can explain many different nuances that get us to this point.

if you know any Chinese girls and women, unless you have love at 1st sight feel you definitely wouldn't give the side empathy you just mentioned, that's no point, as they are hungry lions with a mindset of a zero-sum game, come off asking questions like your in interrogation.

of course, high-level empathy is applied

 

[trashKENNUT]

if you know any Chinese girls and women, unless you have love at 1st sight feel you definitely wouldn't give the side empathy you just mentioned, that's no point, as they are hungry lions with a mindset of a zero-sum game, come off asking questions like your in interrogation.

I live in Asia.

95% of the girls i dated are chinese, some mix blood of chinese. Most of the girls i have had relations with (lolx), all been fairer skin girls.

I agree that they are hungry lions with a mindset of zero-sum game, IF THEY ARE MAINLY FROM CHINA. I notice that this seems to be the case. A lot of them.

For Asian Chinese from Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia, Thailand, Philippines, Myanmar, there's some level of this zero sum game where they will ask if you have a job or some sort of it. Their families is rather zero-sum game compared to the daughters.

Westerners don't see this until later on.

I agree that you kinda need to be somewhat draw a line.

Let me rephrase it. It's better to have empathy when looking at the world, on a macro level. That's a better way to put it.

z@c+

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

This a good video on it.

Not a hideous woman by any means. But she's not doing her self any favors with her hair cut. And her education focus took her out of the market for a bit. That's the reality of her market.

From what I heard about her situation, she ended up leaving China and is dating/engaged to a foreigner.

 

[trashKENNUT]

From what I heard about her situation, she ended up leaving China and is dating/engaged to a foreigner.

Enough number of them do leave China. Yea man.

China Revolution and Chinese Men are either rich Playboys or men who are commoners, all play a part.

It's very interesting seeing it live.

 

[Madara Fire Annihilation]

This a good video on it.

Not a hideous woman by any means. But she's not doing her self any favors with her hair cut. And her education focus took her out of the market for a bit. That's the reality of her market.

From what I heard about her situation, she ended up leaving China and is dating/engaged to a foreigner.

women have fundamental

I live in Asia.

95% of the girls i dated are chinese, some mix blood of chinese. Most of the girls i have had relations with (lolx), all been fairer skin girls.

I agree that they are hungry lions with a mindset of zero-sum game, IF THEY ARE MAINLY FROM CHINA. I notice that this seems to be the case. A lot of them.

For Asian Chinese from Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia, Thailand, Philippines, Myanmar, there's some level of this zero sum game where they will ask if you have a job or some sort of it. Their families is rather zero-sum game compared to the daughters.

Westerners don't see this until later on.

I agree that you kinda need to be somewhat draw a line.

Let me rephrase it. It's better to have empathy when looking at the world, on a macro level. That's a better way to put it.

z@c+

what's your take on Chinese or Asian girls in general. overall I see a great amount of being very opportunistic and wanting to spin plates similar to putting you in their back pocket to try and engage you by stringing you along with mental investments.

From my experience is the better-looking ones who are more forward and less likely to manipulate compared to the 6-7's who are more likely to do so.

my exposure are them.

 

[trashKENNUT]

what's your take on Chinese or Asian girls in general. overall I see a great amount of being very opportunistic

Generally i do not have a problem with them. But I agree with you on the opportunistic part. This is very true and very real. Opportunistic in a sense where if they find a better guy, they will.

BUT This usually happens with girls who are kinda semi interested with you. My experience reflects this. But this also happens with all girls. So i'm on grey on this opinion.

wanting to spin plates similar to putting you in their back pocket to try and engage you by stringing you along with mental investments.

With chinese girl friends, girls whom you do not date, this tend to be somewhat true. Where you guys go out together and she, the chinese girl will say that her friend likes this and then she will kinda convince you on it to buy her friend, shoes. This usually happens with girls who are the 6-7 or lower, like you mentioned.

With the girls that you do dated, stringing you along with mental investments usually happens with girls who are inexperienced. or the 6-7 and lower. It is important to handle your fundamentals, processes and compliance.

This eliminates 75% of the problem. Perhaps this is why i don't see this things as often.

From my experience is the better-looking ones who are more forward

You also won't likely marry the better-looking ones. Because chinese culture is based on 'face'. And marriage is usually held at hotels with expensive fucking tables. It also depends on the family.

You just won't see shit until later on. No matter what race and religion. It just so happens that while Americans and Westerners gets shit on, Asians have a lot of skeletons in the closet. A lot!

Which is why i am happy. Because the internet revolution will destroy Asians. and we deserve it. We hide too many things for so long.
Anyway, as long as you don't plan to marry, it usually is not a problem, if you handle your part.

z@c+

 

[Madara Fire Annihilation]

yeah, I see you...

The one you see as lower on the scale 6-7 they pretty much know that they are ugly wanna manipulate and string you, outta whatever insecurity. so with them, if they try or even I get a hint of this I just delete them. not worth the headache.
I have really pretty ones who are upfront and straight-up come over that wants to have sex 8-10
of course not as black and white and maybe I need to up my game and mental state more to keep the 6's or nawwww

I assume the skeletons you mentioned are like past abortions that they try to hide, current plates that they are spinning that in their back pocket, property rights and disputes over them, visa hunters(towards white guys especially), have no long term plan on commitments to you but will say that they want you forever and bla bla and etc.

In terms of revolution, I don't wanna get really political but communism is likely the root, and habit of survival mode is a norm.

But I don't see how you are not able to marry the pretty ones if you making yourself the highest value possible and making her submissive to you, which I believe is doable unless she has alottttt more money and power from her family background she would be less likely. I could this marriage less possible or her cheating the future for the better prospects if you were to fall out.

How would you position yourself to those girls who drive rolls Royce and becoming their lovers? any experiences?

 

[trashKENNUT]

The one you see as lower on the scale 6-7 they pretty much know that they are ugly wanna manipulate and string you, outta whatever insecurity. so with them, if they try or even I get a hint of this I just delete them. not worth the headache.

Yea.... But understand that they are "physically unblessed."

I have two ends of opinion on this. Too many high level guys and guys tend to dismiss ugly girls like a politician.

There's an effect on your dating prospects when you doing social circle game, and you keep doing that dismissing.

I assume the skeletons you mentioned are like past abortions that they try to hide, current plates that they are spinning that in their back pocket, property rights and disputes over them, visa hunters(towards white guys especially), have no long term plan on commitments to you but will say that they want you forever and bla bla and etc

I don't think that the numbers add up to anything significant that many should worry. But my mindset on Asians on a macro level is similar to Gary Vaynerchuk.

In terms of revolution, I don't wanna get really political but communism is likely the root, and habit of survival mode is a norm.

Yeaaappppppppppppp

But I don't see how you are not able to marry the pretty ones if you making yourself the highest value possible and making her submissive to you, which I believe is doable unless she has alottttt more money and power from her family background she would be less likely. I could this marriage less possible or her cheating the future for the better prospects if you were to fall out.

Its about 'face'. Not so much her but her family and wealth background.

Prevent Cheating wise, I recommend reading that GC articles. It handles so many nuances. It's more than enough.

But always room for more.

How would you position yourself to those girls who drive rolls Royce and becoming their lovers? any experiences?

Are you TROLLING me?

You won't get this girls. Read my latest post on my journal.

I answer that there.

z@c+

 

[Madara Fire Annihilation]

Yea.... But understand that they are "physically unblessed."

I have two ends of opinion on this. Too many high level guys and guys tend to dismiss ugly girls like a politician.

There's an effect on your dating prospects when you doing social circle game, and you keep doing that dismissing.

u saying i should keep them on spins and let them pursue ?

I don't think that the numbers add up to anything significant that many should worry. But my mindset on Asians on a macro level is similar to Gary Vaynerchuk.




Yeaaappppppppppppp
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Its about 'face'. Not so much her but her family and wealth background.

Prevent Cheating wise, I recommend reading that GC articles. It handles so many nuances. It's more than enough.

But always room for more.

face is the money maker, their wealth background is reflective on their face for some reason. you notice the really pretty ones have a great family background and are mostly wealthy for some reason

Are you TROLLING me?

You won't get this girls. Read my latest post on my journal.

I answer that there.




z@c+

u said I should keep them on spins and let them pursue?
and in terms of the wealthy girl I beg to differ

 

[trashKENNUT]

and in terms of the wealthy girl I beg to differ

Doesn't matter.

If you know how to date them, then good.

I just don't see many doing it and they don't date ppl they don't know. Their social circle and acquaintances is enough for them to pick n choose.

Not to mention that you don't even drive a BMW or Mercedes Benz

 

[Madara Fire Annihilation]

Lmfao typical to assume and be jealous. But I guess that doesn't matter to you either .


Doesn't matter.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Not jealous.

But telling all guys that they can date girls with money, without having some sort of tangible value, like social circle value, or money and connections, let alone not having fundamentals are mastered to a TEE,

I have yet to see any ordinary man date them TOO OFTEN. That's not to say that it has not happened.

Julien RSD dated a doctor. That's like only one.

NarrowJ dated a sexy blonde bombshell because of an old company partnership. I'm sure that Chase noted that he dated girls with master degrees.

i have yet to seen a lot of guys, date a high caliber women (those without daddy's money)have no credentials.

Almost all of those guys have something that is perceived "valuable".

Telling guys that they can have any girls they want, is great, for advertising.

But this is a forum.

 

[Madara Fire Annihilation]

you basically just made a bunch of assumptions. if it satisfies you making statements, that aren't correct, knock yourself out.

the abstract of the situation of the PUA coach. it's almost hilarious on how much you know about them, how much time you spend paying attention to other people instead fo yourself. very creepy and analytically sharp, Asian guy.
I can see why Asians aren't as progressive as they should, as people like you always need to find superiority over someone and cut them down, low value.

from the years that you've expenses on this websites and 4770 comments you've made and read all of their articles you assume that you know a lot, I highly doubt you've had even good numbers or qualities. but if that's your life and if is your goal, knock yourself out.

there are plenty more videos awaiting you on youtube...

 

[trashKENNUT]

Haha. Okay bro.

If you feel better that a girl with a Rolls Royce dated you before, by all means that's an achievement.

Congrats on that.

 

[Madara Fire Annihilation]

that is my goal. 4771 and counting.