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I was at a club in Whistler Canada last night. I started chatting up this super hot Persian girl named Sonya It was just her and her Sandy there. She was very receptive to everything I said. She was pretty much instantly laughing at everything I said (some of which weren't even jokes lol), touching her hair, pointing her body towards me...the whole shebang. Within 5 minutes, I move her to a different part of the club to get a drink with me. So far, Sandy hadn't really said or done much. We both tried to include her in the conversation, but she kept saying that she's fine and we should just keep talking.
So for the entire conversation, its basically just Sonya and I (which is good cause she's the one I'm interested in).I deep dive on a few topics. She's from Aran, asked her for her whole story. She told me her dad was a refugee who got rescued. I related back to her saying I knew a Persian girl who went through the same type of stuff, I explained her experiances etc.
Then we moved on to talking about music, edm festivals we've both been to etc.
I also asked her "what's the craziest thing she's ever done". She said she got in a fight with three dudes lol.
I also teased her and fake mocked her throughout the entire conversation. She was digging all of it. About 10-15 mins in, our legs were touching, she was playing with her hair a lot (she probably doesn't even realize this lol). And so on. Unfortuntely, she also mentioned several times throughout the conversation that she feels really bad for leaving Sandy (who is sitting right across from us). Apparently Sandy just got out of a huge breakup and my girl is trying to help her feel better. I tried inviting her Sandy to join us several times. But she declined saying "I'm fine, you guys keep talking" several times.
About 15 minutes into the conversation, my girl told me she feels really bad for leaving Sandy and she wants to go pay attention to her. I tell her that's fine, but she should grab her number so we can hang out after Sandy goes to bed (basically me asking her to fuck). She said she's down. As she was giving me her number, one of my female friends who I was at the club with (she's my buddy's insanely hot GF) started winging me on her own. She started chatting up Sandy so I could continue talking to my girl.
So after I get Sonya's number, I point out to her that Sandy found a friend. She looks like she's having fun. I try to be persistant and convince Sonya to stay. She declines saying that Sandy is just being nice, but she's not actually enjoying this. She tells Sandy that they need to go. Sandy says "no its fine" again. But my girl insists that they leave. I tell her she at least needs to give me a kiss goodbye. She smiles and gives me a kiss on the cheek, and they get up and go.
Normally, I would assume that I did something wrong here. But I'm not 100% sure if that's the case because of two things:
1. Sonya mentioned she feels bad for leaving her friend out several times.
2. Her body language very much indicated that she was still into me even as she was leaving. Most the time, if a girl gets uncomfortable, or feels the need to eject from a conversation with a guy, it's usually very sudden and her voice has a certain tonality to it (those who are experienced know what I'm talking about). In this case, that's not what happened. She sincerely seemed like she wanted to keep talking to me.
So I'm confused as to what happened here.
I should also mention she didn't reply to my text. But that's probably because she ran into a dude she apparently knows from back home at that same club. And I'm pretty sure she went home with him. I definitely saw them making out, grinding up on each other etc.
So for the entire conversation, its basically just Sonya and I (which is good cause she's the one I'm interested in).I deep dive on a few topics. She's from Aran, asked her for her whole story. She told me her dad was a refugee who got rescued. I related back to her saying I knew a Persian girl who went through the same type of stuff, I explained her experiances etc.
Then we moved on to talking about music, edm festivals we've both been to etc.
I also asked her "what's the craziest thing she's ever done". She said she got in a fight with three dudes lol.
I also teased her and fake mocked her throughout the entire conversation. She was digging all of it. About 10-15 mins in, our legs were touching, she was playing with her hair a lot (she probably doesn't even realize this lol). And so on. Unfortuntely, she also mentioned several times throughout the conversation that she feels really bad for leaving Sandy (who is sitting right across from us). Apparently Sandy just got out of a huge breakup and my girl is trying to help her feel better. I tried inviting her Sandy to join us several times. But she declined saying "I'm fine, you guys keep talking" several times.
About 15 minutes into the conversation, my girl told me she feels really bad for leaving Sandy and she wants to go pay attention to her. I tell her that's fine, but she should grab her number so we can hang out after Sandy goes to bed (basically me asking her to fuck). She said she's down. As she was giving me her number, one of my female friends who I was at the club with (she's my buddy's insanely hot GF) started winging me on her own. She started chatting up Sandy so I could continue talking to my girl.
So after I get Sonya's number, I point out to her that Sandy found a friend. She looks like she's having fun. I try to be persistant and convince Sonya to stay. She declines saying that Sandy is just being nice, but she's not actually enjoying this. She tells Sandy that they need to go. Sandy says "no its fine" again. But my girl insists that they leave. I tell her she at least needs to give me a kiss goodbye. She smiles and gives me a kiss on the cheek, and they get up and go.
Normally, I would assume that I did something wrong here. But I'm not 100% sure if that's the case because of two things:
1. Sonya mentioned she feels bad for leaving her friend out several times.
2. Her body language very much indicated that she was still into me even as she was leaving. Most the time, if a girl gets uncomfortable, or feels the need to eject from a conversation with a guy, it's usually very sudden and her voice has a certain tonality to it (those who are experienced know what I'm talking about). In this case, that's not what happened. She sincerely seemed like she wanted to keep talking to me.
So I'm confused as to what happened here.
I should also mention she didn't reply to my text. But that's probably because she ran into a dude she apparently knows from back home at that same club. And I'm pretty sure she went home with him. I definitely saw them making out, grinding up on each other etc.
