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Anchoring:
Attaching emotion to a particular word, object or person. We all have many personal anchors in life, all around us, which affect us daily. As an example, lets say one day you were cleaning your apartment and you stumbled across an ex-girlfriends scarf. Perhaps this was as ex girlfriend from 2 years ago and her scarf has been here since. Lets say this girl was you first love, and whilst you were together the feelings you had for her were powerful. Lets say after 5 months of dating she, out of nowhere, decided to brake up with you. She leaves you with no real explanation. You obviously will feel sad for sometime, the feelings of love, despite breakup do no disappear instantly. Eventually though the pain eases and you feel as though you are over the girl. You live you life, go to work, have fun, meet other people. No longer does that girl evoke deep feelings in you. She has left your life. BUT, upon finding this scarf suddenly a wave of emotion takes over you and all that you felt comes streaming back, in an instant. Thoughts surface, and feelings arise. Because the breakup was negative for you, you will feel sad, negative emotions upon finding this scarf. You will be reminded of the pain and it will effect you. Perhaps the amount of pain differs from individual, but non the less your emotions are ANCHORED to this scarf. It's why they say when you want to truly get over someone you have to rid your self of them completely, you have to remove everything that reminds you of them, all the possible anchors. Anchors are very powerful and can be extremely useful in seduction.
Fractionation: Evoke a deep feeling or emotion in a girl, take her out of that state, either by changing the subject to a neutral one or opposite one, and immediately put her back into that state, she will feel those emotions even more powerfully than when she first entered the state. This is fractionation, and when used properly and truly efficiently it can be very powerful, especially when combined with anchoring.
How to combine the two:
You must decide upon what you want to use as your anchor. Anchoring at its very most basic would be how you are taught in seduction to always discus positive topics, or at least keep conversation on positive grounds, and steer clear of negativity. Part of the reason why you do this is because it will lead a girl to see you as a positive person, and will enforce in her mind that when she speaks to you, she will feel positive emotions. You have anchored yourself as a beacon to positive emotions. In my opinion fractionation and anchoring can be a little clunky and unorthodox if done incorrectly. I believe the easiest thing to anchor would be yourself, specifically your eyes.
When you speak positive things, especially powerful, thought evoking subjects that you know will draw her towards you, always look deeply into a girls eyes.
To add fractionation to this you can enter neutral or, even better, negative states whilst looking away, or not directly at her eyes. It can take a few times before the fractionation/anchoring has any truly useful effect, but it is worth noting, positivity - eyes, negativity - break contact
What this also does is generate fast, powerful roller coaster-esque emotions in a girl, which they are so attracted to.
At its very most powerful it can be used to elicit negative emotions in a girl the entire time she is not around you, as you essentially anchor everything but yourself as negative. This causes dependence in a girl, and it a harsh thing to do, and something not to be discussed. Creating an anchor that powerful isn't that easy to appropriately and quickly develop, anyway and is stepping out of seduction.
This area of seduction is very much queried and questioned, but I believe the science is there and above all else it is very interesting to discuss and learn.
Peace
Attaching emotion to a particular word, object or person. We all have many personal anchors in life, all around us, which affect us daily. As an example, lets say one day you were cleaning your apartment and you stumbled across an ex-girlfriends scarf. Perhaps this was as ex girlfriend from 2 years ago and her scarf has been here since. Lets say this girl was you first love, and whilst you were together the feelings you had for her were powerful. Lets say after 5 months of dating she, out of nowhere, decided to brake up with you. She leaves you with no real explanation. You obviously will feel sad for sometime, the feelings of love, despite breakup do no disappear instantly. Eventually though the pain eases and you feel as though you are over the girl. You live you life, go to work, have fun, meet other people. No longer does that girl evoke deep feelings in you. She has left your life. BUT, upon finding this scarf suddenly a wave of emotion takes over you and all that you felt comes streaming back, in an instant. Thoughts surface, and feelings arise. Because the breakup was negative for you, you will feel sad, negative emotions upon finding this scarf. You will be reminded of the pain and it will effect you. Perhaps the amount of pain differs from individual, but non the less your emotions are ANCHORED to this scarf. It's why they say when you want to truly get over someone you have to rid your self of them completely, you have to remove everything that reminds you of them, all the possible anchors. Anchors are very powerful and can be extremely useful in seduction.
Fractionation: Evoke a deep feeling or emotion in a girl, take her out of that state, either by changing the subject to a neutral one or opposite one, and immediately put her back into that state, she will feel those emotions even more powerfully than when she first entered the state. This is fractionation, and when used properly and truly efficiently it can be very powerful, especially when combined with anchoring.
How to combine the two:
You must decide upon what you want to use as your anchor. Anchoring at its very most basic would be how you are taught in seduction to always discus positive topics, or at least keep conversation on positive grounds, and steer clear of negativity. Part of the reason why you do this is because it will lead a girl to see you as a positive person, and will enforce in her mind that when she speaks to you, she will feel positive emotions. You have anchored yourself as a beacon to positive emotions. In my opinion fractionation and anchoring can be a little clunky and unorthodox if done incorrectly. I believe the easiest thing to anchor would be yourself, specifically your eyes.
When you speak positive things, especially powerful, thought evoking subjects that you know will draw her towards you, always look deeply into a girls eyes.
To add fractionation to this you can enter neutral or, even better, negative states whilst looking away, or not directly at her eyes. It can take a few times before the fractionation/anchoring has any truly useful effect, but it is worth noting, positivity - eyes, negativity - break contact
What this also does is generate fast, powerful roller coaster-esque emotions in a girl, which they are so attracted to.
At its very most powerful it can be used to elicit negative emotions in a girl the entire time she is not around you, as you essentially anchor everything but yourself as negative. This causes dependence in a girl, and it a harsh thing to do, and something not to be discussed. Creating an anchor that powerful isn't that easy to appropriately and quickly develop, anyway and is stepping out of seduction.
This area of seduction is very much queried and questioned, but I believe the science is there and above all else it is very interesting to discuss and learn.
Peace
