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My number 1 is a girl asking me when I was next free while on the 1st date and getting it in the diary there and then. I would initially think this is needy but if the girl is into you she'll have no issue with it and it reduces flakes/fizzles out as well as helps you filter out who your "hot" prospects are if you're mass dating.
Green light girls will agree, amber will pencil in and red light girls will make an excuse > super efficient.
Some other note worthy things learnt is ignoring questions I don't want to answer (usually "what are we types") and carrying on as normal. It's almost laughable how a lot of people will get in frame to not look pushy.
My final one is when saying no to a meet up or just being hard to pin down in general be super happy and almost blonde ditzy. Texts like "Sorryyyyyy - work is so busy and I FORGOT I had plans lol... Let's try again another time
" Again girls fall in the frame as no one wants to look "pushy" or needy by saying look you've flaked 3x time now... please get your shit together.
This has kept girls sweet who aren't quite in the rotation but I have wanted to keep round.
What are yours?
Green light girls will agree, amber will pencil in and red light girls will make an excuse > super efficient.
Some other note worthy things learnt is ignoring questions I don't want to answer (usually "what are we types") and carrying on as normal. It's almost laughable how a lot of people will get in frame to not look pushy.
My final one is when saying no to a meet up or just being hard to pin down in general be super happy and almost blonde ditzy. Texts like "Sorryyyyyy - work is so busy and I FORGOT I had plans lol... Let's try again another time
" Again girls fall in the frame as no one wants to look "pushy" or needy by saying look you've flaked 3x time now... please get your shit together.This has kept girls sweet who aren't quite in the rotation but I have wanted to keep round.
What are yours?
