Online & Apps Any Black Guys Getting Laid On Tinder In 2019?

[SexNotValidation]

no this is not a race whining thread.

I love being black and I was actually pretty happy with the amount of matches i got on tinder when i tested it.

Unfortunately, i guess my text game was so bad since my last 200-300 matches i got before i quit i never got laid or even a meet from these matches.

to be honest, I was not taking tinder seriously at all when i tried it and I was running a strategy where i basically asked for sex within the first 2-3 messages.

I had 4-6 girls who where clearly down to fuck but they where all 6s and below so i never pursued it.

I had 2-3 girls who where 7s who seemed down but then after basically agreeing to fuck they would stop responding when i tried to arrange logistics

and the 8+, first i did not get a lot of matches from girls 8+ when i tried tinder and the few i did get would just stop responding immediately when i became sexually explicit; weirdly they did not unmatch me, they just stopped responding

so that's the results i saw with my strategy of basically asking for sex i tried when i was on tinder

what is the point of this thread?

I'm thinking of testing tinder again and I'm curious if there's any black guy on here who was a messaging sequence that is working to convert your matches to sex.

Feel free to share your sequence even if you're not black and maybe it can tweaked to work for me.

 

[ThePhoenix]

Not black (go for mainly black girls, though), and not an on‑line guy either (mostly do day game), but I have an idea what I suspect could be the problem.

If youʼre asking for sex directly, or in a way that may as well be direct (“Netflix and chill ”), a few girls will go for it (I imagine especially on Tinder, being hot would help), but many girls, especially hotter ones, who are interested in fucking (well, thatʼs probably most girls), nevertheless donʼt want to feel like theyʼre a slut, and so theyʼre going to refuse a direct proposition, even though they want it.

I think you might do better to just throw in some sexual innuendo — especially in a way that implies that sheʼs trying to get sex with you — and go for a meet‑up that is casual but not directly sexual. For instance, to grab a coffee, or something like that. You just set that date up in such a way that you can invite her home afterwards. Again, use some little excuse to get her home, like something unique you have at home which you want to show her. You may find they go along with you much easier this way, and once at home, will still be open to sexual escalation if you do it smoothly.

 

[Chase]

SNV-

Do you know any guys the "ask for sex right away" approach works for?

This is something I see a lot of black guys do. Mostly the guys who have not much honed their game yet. The black guys I know with good game are still very sexually forward, but they mask it with a lot more flirtation, humor, and ambiguity. Like, the girl will think "I think he means it and he really wants sex. But maybe he is just flirting? I can't tell! But anyway, he's cute and I like him! Let's go along with this and see what happens!"

If it's clear she wants sex, and especially if you are getting some sort of agreement out of her that sex is going to happen, that basically just takes all the mystery out back and shoots it in the head.

The flirtation's over. The curiosity is over. All there is left to do now is consummate the previously-agreed to act.

A woman will do that if it is clearly advantageous to her to engage in that sex. Most of what women are looking for from random strangers is a thrill ride... to feel seduced, and confused, and attracted, and entranced, and batted about, and excited but unsure... until the very end, when it all falls into place and it is magical.

If you rob them of the thrill ride, there needs to be some other mighty strong reason for them to just come out to meet you for matter-of-fact sex.

Like, you are going to pay them some respectable amount of money.

Or, you are the hottest guy who has ever wanted to have sex with them, and are also just far-and-away amazing in a whole lot of ways. Enough so that she can say "Well, there's no seduction here, really... but I will take this bang, just to have once slept with a guy who is THIS hot!"

That obviously isn't going to work on beautiful girls. Because beautiful girls can find hot men who will also provide them the experience they want. They don't need to settle for hot men who can't or won't give them that.

Usually however, you are going to have to seduce girls.

Colt (our resident black Tinder guru) does not usually talk about sex at all in messages with girls, so far as I'm aware.

He will make some jokes, like about them making beautiful babies together, and some such.

But it is always veiled in humor and ambiguity: "Does he mean that, or is it just flirtation?"

His date invitation is to meet up for an "adventure."

You can't rob women of the experience of the seduction.

If you do, it severely limits a.) the quality of woman you can get, and b.) your ability to get women without having to offer other, typically much more time- or money-expensive, enticements.

Chase

 

[SexNotValidation]

SNV-

Do you know any guys the "ask for sex right away" approach works for?

This is something I see a lot of black guys do. Mostly the guys who have not much honed their game yet. The black guys I know with good game are still very sexually forward, but they mask it with a lot more flirtation, humor, and ambiguity. Like, the girl will think "I think he means it and he really wants sex. But maybe he is just flirting? I can't tell! But anyway, he's cute and I like him! Let's go along with this and see what happens!"

If it's clear she wants sex, and especially if you are getting some sort of agreement out of her that sex is going to happen, that basically just takes all the mystery out back and shoots it in the head.

The flirtation's over. The curiosity is over. All there is left to do now is consummate the previously-agreed to act.

A woman will do that if it is clearly advantageous to her to engage in that sex. Most of what women are looking for from random strangers is a thrill ride... to feel seduced, and confused, and attracted, and entranced, and batted about, and excited but unsure... until the very end, when it all falls into place and it is magical.

If you rob them of the thrill ride, there needs to be some other mighty strong reason for them to just come out to meet you for matter-of-fact sex.

Like, you are going to pay them some respectable amount of money.

Or, you are the hottest guy who has ever wanted to have sex with them, and are also just far-and-away amazing in a whole lot of ways. Enough so that she can say "Well, there's no seduction here, really... but I will take this bang, just to have once slept with a guy who is THIS hot!"

That obviously isn't going to work on beautiful girls. Because beautiful girls can find hot men who will also provide them the experience they want. They don't need to settle for hot men who can't or won't give them that.

Usually however, you are going to have to seduce girls.

Colt (our resident black Tinder guru) does not usually talk about sex at all in messages with girls, so far as I'm aware.

He will make some jokes, like about them making beautiful babies together, and some such.

But it is always veiled in humor and ambiguity: "Does he mean that, or is it just flirtation?"

His date invitation is to meet up for an "adventure."

You can't rob women of the experience of the seduction.

If you do, it severely limits a.) the quality of woman you can get, and b.) your ability to get women without having to offer other, typically much more time- or money-expensive, enticements.

Chase

Do you know any guys the "ask for sex right away" approach works for?

Yes I got the idea from a male model and I was curious how the strategy would work for me.

This guy travels around for work and within 12 hours of landing in a new city he is able to schedule
1-3 girls per day straight to his place for sex for the next week or so using tinder

I was inspired by this guy and wanted to see how his lines would work for me

That obviously isn't going to work on beautiful girls. Because beautiful girls can find hot men who will also provide them the experience they want. They don't need to settle for hot men who can't or won't give them that.

Yes this makes sense.

Even this male model admitted that he fucks anywhere from 6s to 8s with this strategy
so it seems even a male model cannot fuck the best looking girls using just looks.