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Anybody else find girls with fewer friends are easier to date?

Aussiedude

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Curious if anybody can relate to this, but I always find girls I get along the best with tend to have fewer friends, & a more quiet social life. Not that they're like socially conservative or anything, totally cool with sex and all that. Just they go out a bit less, or have a couple of friends they hang out with.

I always find for me anyway, these girls are more easy going and fine with anything really. Like they're just easy to chill with and don't make things difficult.

Idk if anybody else can relate to this or not. But when I meet chicks with a more active social life, going out a lot etc. I generally find them more annoying to casually date, and even hang out, they tend to expect we gotta go out and do stuff all the time kind of.

And I like going out, but I prefer where it's like a more casual kinda vibe. Where we're already chillin and then we're like lets do xyz. But it's not like 'planned' kind of thing.

Just a general observation, but curious if anybody else has thoughts on this. Because now that I think about, most women I see on an ongoing basis. Basically always fall into the fewer friends/quiter social life category.
 
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empath

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Yes because less people to influence their decisions.

Good for casual relationship but there is a risk that they will become co-dependent.

Tbh extroverted girls will fall in two camps.

1) friend circle with lot of relationship talk and those girl getting influenced so they need to maintain an image in front of their friends of having a socially accept sex/relationship life. Basically less independent kind.

2) independent girl with her own interests with big soical circle, these girls will be busy minding their own busines and you might not need to spend a lot of time, heck there is. Achance you becoming needy incase your social life sucks compared to her.
 

Aussiedude

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Yes because less people to influence their decisions.

Good for casual relationship but there is a risk that they will become co-dependent.

Tbh extroverted girls will fall in two camps.

1) friend circle with lot of relationship talk and those girl getting influenced so they need to maintain an image in front of their friends of having a socially accept sex/relationship life. Basically less independent kind.

2) independent girl with her own interests with big soical circle, these girls will be busy minding their own busines and you might not need to spend a lot of time, heck there is. Achance you becoming needy incase your social life sucks compared to her.
Not what I was asking but ok
 
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I would say it makes no difference on the number...it is more important the type of friends and her core believes, attitude towards dating snd and communication skills and history of past relationships
 

RisingCane

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Man I think that it is a paradox of sorts. Yes, women who are not popular or obsessed with trying to have a bunch of friends are better to be around from my experience. Sometimes, you can have the best girl but her friends suck and that makes her suck or at least unveils some flaws in her to be attracting friends like that. However, I also find that the hottest girls also have the large circle of friends, big social media, and all of that stuff.
 
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