anyone experience this on tinder?

[mindful]

What's up guys, this just blows my mind and I thought it was a one time thing but... it's not.

So, I have this tinder girl on my match list that is 31 yrs old. She sends moment pics at least once or twice a week that are really revealing. Pictures of her bare ass, close up panty shot where you can almost see her pussy, and just recently... an actual photo showing her nipple.

She's been on my matched list for a few months, and she actually messaged me first asking if I had instagram. I tried to steer it into a conversation after that but she never responded.

Anyways, I'm just curious why a girl would do this? Obviously she loves the validation, and given her age, she is probably more than comfortable with her sexuality. But still, she is revealing this stuff out in the "open" so to speak.

Now, I love checking in once every few days just to see where her creativity goes next, but the question still stands... why is she doing this besides the validation?

 

[Ross]

She's just looking for social media follows and adds. Probably sends those messages out to a large list, which is why she never responded to anything conversation related.

 

[Franco]

mindful,

My roommate friended this chick on Snapchat that straight up records videos of her getting fucked by guys and publicly sends them out. Sometimes they are done in the dark where you can just hear her, or sometimes it just shows her face as she's getting romped by some guy in the background. My roommate followed her, and I'm sure he's not the only guy that said, "well this is kinda cool." I think he said she once "Liked" one of the videos that he sent out, so they probably occasionally see what the people they friended are posting.

Anyway, girls will do lots of things for attention. Half the time they aren't sending "you" anything personal (as Ross notes), and if they do, it's usually just for more validation. I wouldn't think about it too much; most women don't crave attention to that type of level, and if they do, they're usually a bit crazy and not the type of girl you would want to date anyway.

- Franco