Anyone in here experienced success with blonde bombshells before?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

-B-:

Arguments are a part of being a forum member, they happen. I have found your posts useful and don't think you are a bad person at all. What I do believe is that your statement was intended more towards the stereotypical Hindus who immigrated to America and not ones like the OP so while it might be true it wouldn't apply to someone like the guys posted.

This thread hasn't really been about race to me, it has been a thread where I had my chance to share my experience on something I have found to be true. As a White male who has struggled a lot with these kinds of women in the past (but is doing better now) I see this as more of a thread that recognizes different things work on different women. I too have been politically incorrect when I have admitted that these kinds of women know their market value and realize that they will have high status guys going after them. What really gets me about this whole thing is that it hasn't changed whether I lived in Kansas or in NYC, it has remained constant. I doubt it is any easier elsewhere in the US because these kinds of women are highly sought after and have tons of options.

I would love more threads in the future which give advice on gaming specific kinds of women because I have found that your game can require some slight twitches and adjustments based on that, and it can make a huge difference.

When I was growing up in Kansas it was always the most successful guy who had made it that managed to get with the kind of woman OP wants. Then I thought in NYC the game would get easier but it actually got harder because these women were not as easily found and when they were found their options in men were limitless. Many men I have talked to have seen similar things.

My advice to OP remains the same, you can't ignore your looks because most of these women are shallow unlike others so hit the gym to get the nice body. Get the kind of style you see men with these women have (how the guys at clubs and bars that are doing well are dressed). I notice that facial hair gets these girls going so find a nice style (Chase has an article on this which I found myself agreeing with). Find a way to be a part of the "in crowd" that these women run in, I find a lot of these girls in dance classes (taking one now myself) and I have managed to meet some that way (got the number of a few of them and have a date tomorrow night with one).

Just realize that consistent success with these women (you said blonde bombshells, not any regular plain blonde) won't come simply from doing lots of cold approaches. You have to invest time in developing the best version of yourself. If anyone else has something to add then add it but so far this is what I have discovered.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Nice to be back and check on some answers, seems like a lot took place when I was gone. I have taken up lifting and working out more seriously now though I am not obese or super skinny. It will take me a few months to get the ideal physique.

It was nice of Proactivity and others to post examples and it even seemed like a debate took place. Now from my own eyes I have seen men of my background with White girls but these girls were typically brunettes and more foreign too like say Eastern European for example. I said the blonde bombshell part because I am looking to do well with girls who are American, blond, and are more ingrained in the mainstream culture (cheerleaders in high school, sorority girls in college, etc.). Hope you guys know what I am getting at now.

It isn't that I haven't seen a guy of my background with a White girl or even an attractive White girl, it is just that the kind of guys I have seen with the girls I am trying to do well with were usually White, tall, and muscular. In some occasions I have seen athletic looking black guys have some success. It was nice of Proactivity and others to provide examples and even post pics but so far from my travel experiences and just looking around I haven't seen any success stories.

Right now as I move forward I am still a bit stuck in my head over this but I feel like what I am doing will yield good results regardless. I mean getting a good body and working on various styles can only improve my results if anything.

What Franco about changing locations is advice I am considering but how in the world does a young kid who isn't rich manage to live in Southern California?

 

[Marty]

Hey Oh Pry:

I was running in the park a week or so ago when I saw a Desi dude walk by arm-in-arm with a blond bombshell. Everything about their body language indicated they were in a stable relationship, too.

I briefly considered photographing them for your benefit, but there was no way to do it without being intrusive about it, short of asking them permission directly, and I was loath to interrupt their reverie.

So you'll just have to take my word for it He looked like a pretty sharp cookie, too.

-Marty

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Hey Oh Pry:

I was running in the park a week or so ago when I saw a Desi dude walk by arm-in-arm with a blond bombshell. Everything about their body language indicated they were in a stable relationship, too.

I briefly considered photographing them for your benefit, but there was no way to do it without being intrusive about it, short of asking them permission directly, and I was loath to interrupt their reverie.

So you'll just have to take my word for it He looked like a pretty sharp cookie, too.

-Marty

Well that is encouraging man, thanks for sharing your experience. IMO the guy doesn't even have to be Desi, he could somewhat look desi (a lot of latinos and persian men I know IRL are like this) and that would be enough for me to believe it can happen. As you can see, my beliefs about this whole situation are still present because throughout my life I have only seen these women with White Anglo looking males and in some instances Black men, nothing else.

On a more positive note, I have heard quite a few of them have a thing for men who look somewhat more exotic so I will keep working out, reading up on style advice, and as Franco said, move to a more welcoming area like Southern California.

I know Franco recommended So Cal but do you guys have any other recommendations for areas which might allow me to get the kind of women I want?

I was thinking NYC but I heard it doesn't have many blonde bombshells, one area that has been on my mind is Florida but I have heard mixed things about the people there.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Male of Korean heritage here but I am just as American as anyone else when it comes to how I behave because I was born in America. Like OP, I have had my struggles with the blonde bombshells. I used to ask myself why it isn't more common to see Asian (whether its south asian or east asian) or Arabic men with Blonde bombshells as girlfriends or wives. I thought that having a successful career and a promising salary would help to get these girls but then I realized that sometimes environmental pressures are so powerful that not even a good salary, successful career, "fundamentals", and even looks can't overcome them. As a well above average looking male I have received multiple IOIs from women of minority backgrounds but not as much from White girls. Why?

Reason being that I was in Louisiana, it is a terrible place for interracial relationships. Majority of the region I am in is a terrible place for interracial couples.

So then I decided to take a trip out west and it was another planet. I saw quite a few Asian men with White women in Seattle and these girls were hot too. Do not recall seeing a Blonde bombshell with an Asian guy but most of those blonde bombshells are just brunettes who color their hair. I had some luck with White girls there, way more than I had in the dixie.

What is sad is that this isn't talked about as much because so much seduction material is geared towards White males. I understand that and in fact I am okay with that. The one thing I have found is that some areas are just bad areas to truly grow and have success with women in no matter what background you are. The region I am in is very religious, highly conservative, and the idea of being with multiple girls instead of settling down at 22 is insanity. I only see very few guys here having success with women and these are football players and sometimes frat boys but outside of that it is hard to really break into social circles here because people are so close knit and not really open to letting outsiders in.

Chase should attack this topic of bad locations vs good locations because it is so important.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Hay guys, here are some places I have gathered which from this thread seem to be good for me if I want to get the kind of women I desire

1. Southern California (but way too expensive)
2. Upper Midwest

Any other ideas?

Might end up posting another thread on the locations if I can.

 

[Grand Pooba]

Hay guys, here are some places I have gathered which from this thread seem to be good for me if I want to get the kind of women I desire

1. Southern California (but way too expensive)
2. Upper Midwest

Any other ideas?

Might end up posting another thread on the locations if I can.

Boston
New York City
Washington, DC
Chicago
Houston
Los Angeles
San Diego

 

[Estate]

I still find this a bit off...

I mean, there's nothing bad about moving to a bigger city if that's what you really want and it ties into your own life, like different ambitions, career goals, etc...
But are you really going to move to another city without any prospects and just think these "bombshells" will all of a sudden be everywhere?

I mean, I have lived in and travelled to a lot of places in the US and Europe throughout my 20's and it's really a case of the grass always seeming greener.

I come from a small town in Ireland. While there are some beautiful girls, there's also a lower population so less "bombshells"....
But now in Boston, it's not like there's all these bombshells throwing themselves at me... there's might be "more" but it's still the same percentage. For every bombshell, there's still 20 ordinary girls and another 20 "No ways!" And it's no easier to get these women.

I'm not at all against moving and improving your overall quality of life, I did it myself. But it has to tie in with your life goals. And making PUA number one to all of that seems like a big mistake. It feels like you think moving to a bigger city without improving your skills will mean these girls suddenly throw themselves at you, which is just not the case.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Guys, thank you for caring about me so much but I don't want to move to find Blonde bombshells alone though that would be a nice plus and kinda why I asked the question. My problem is that I am in a small town type of setting where people generally don't associate much with those out of their circles. I find making friends slightly more difficult than average and there isn't much to do here either. What I find is that so many people who have social circles made them in high school and I find it harder to break into those social circles.

Then about the part about Blonde bombshells, we do have quite a few here but as I have said, the idea of them dating interracial is nearly unheard of. The problem is I am in a type of setting where it just feels like high school in so many ways. Everyone is in your business and wondering what you are doing. I just find that I cannot develop the abundance mentality Chase seems to talk about here. It is harder to find hot girls and the ones that are here seem to be married in their early 20s.

Now for Ozzo's suggestions. Ozzo, brother I am grateful you have given me good advice throughout this thread but from the research I have been doing it seems like NYC, Boston, and DC are areas where the White population is more darker in a way (lots of Italians such) meaning it will be harder to find the blonde bombshell and when I do the competition will be very stiff.

I agree with Los Angeles and San Diego as others have said in here. As for Houston I heard it is a terrible city in general for dating because hot girls are so hard to find. Not sure about Chicago.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Thought I would bring this up and this is the perfect thread for it. There is a guy named Dinesh D'Souza who is happens to be Asian and he has been with Ann Coulter and Laura Ingraham (look it up on Whos Dated Who). Not that good looking but has dated 2 tall blondes that are bangable IMO. Guess there is something to be said about a man and his passion and the importance of being able to connect with women.

 

[Marty]

There is a guy named Dinesh D'Souza who is happens to be Asian and he has been with Ann Coulter and Laura Ingraham (look it up on Whos Dated Who). Not that good looking but has dated 2 tall blondes that are bangable IMO.

I looked him up, yeah, he seems like a bit of a "player" actually and yes Laura Ingraham is definitely bangable considering she's pushing 50, that's some quite impressive retention of female good looks into middle age actually.

While we're with the pundits, S E Cupp is pretty hot stuff BTW and still within childbearing age.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

No e-brag but I have smashed a chick that looked a lot like her about 1 year after graduating college. We had a little argument at first but exchanged numbers and she was one of the best lays I have ever had. Lost count of how many times we had sex but it was a given everytime we met up. Girl was a total freak, she is in a relationship with some Latino guy who could easily pass for Indian due to how dark he is now though.

Something else I wanted to point out to OP that others may not have noticed, if he has a thing for women with blonde hair so bad he should pursue Russian girls, here in America and abroad. I have met a few HB8s who were Russian and had thing for exotic men. They don't carry the same biases that your typical bimbo here in the US might carry against foreigners.

Fast forward to 4:18 in this video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pO5Tt4JH4ws

I knew a girl that looks exactly like her (the blonde) that is currently in a relationship with an Indian guy (he was born and raised here though and good looking himself). We weren't close but she did have a preference for more of the foreign look. Before him she dated a Sicilian guy, a Latino (Argentine but darker than your average White), and Asian-White mixed guy.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I am a Middle Eastern male of a darker appearance so that includes the swarthy look with some middle eastern features. Living here in Tennessee and having visited other southern states I can tell you that Blondes are the beauty standard, the best of the best. There is a particularly powerful craze for Blonde hair above all. All of the former high school and college QBs are in relationships with women who have the blonde bombshell look (eg: Blake Bortles). Many women here drive themselves insane trying to achieve that look, go to any SEC football game and you will see how desperately women want to achieve the look. If you were to line up a blonde, brunette, ginger, and a girl from a minority background the blonde would get endless suitors even if she is average looking.

It gets to their heads too!!!

I am not sure about how it works in California (where Franco is from) but here in the region I am in the second you see a young woman that is blonde and above average looking (not fat or facially deformed) you can bet top dollar that she will have a high bitchshield and likely treat anyone outside of her social circle like a second class citizen. Among sorority girls this becomes exponentially worse as they have to prove themselves to their sisters.

About the minority part since that seems to be a theme in this thread. I find myself naturally attracted to blondes due to what I watched growing up and the fact that they are unique to me. In the Middle East, European looking brunettes are very common. I also like redheads who I seem to have much better luck with but my preference is mainly for blondes. At times I have been actively cockblocked by outsiders for even talking to one. One time I was talking to this California girl visiting the south and two guys (rural looking white males) step into our conversation, look at her, and say "mam is this person bothering you?". She says no, we ignore them, but they continue to barge into the conversation and one even says "shouldn't you be going for your own kind?".

This was an issue mentioned when former NFL WR Terrell Owens was seen on a Monday Night Football commercial with some blonde in a towel, the whole thing was controversial because they did not want to offend southerners who oppose that kind of stuff. I have known of Black men who have been with blondes here but it is far from common.

With all that being said I am still hopeful in my road to recovery. I know that there are bound to be some attractive women who don't fit the stereotype at all and I am going to try and find them. One girl I am talking to right now is planning on being a doctor and hates the culture that dominates the region, she wants to move out west. She fits the image of the cute blonde bombshell. My issue is not learning how to properly escalate and move forward with her, that I can fix.

Some situations are tougher than others but even in the worst areas I feel that we can still get what we are looking for, we would only have to work harder.

Wherever OP might be in the US, it cannot be as bad as the region I am in which has a history of racism. While the majority of the women I like (blonde and beautiful) here will disqualify me for my ethnic appearance alone, I feel that there are a good number who will give a man like me a chance and it is my job to find them and make them a part of my life.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Seattle!!!!!

Not only is it home to the Superbowl champs (go Seahawks!), it is also a very progressive area. TBH I did see quite a lot of White males with Asian female couples but when I saw Asian men with White women the woman was always above average to good looking, a lot of the times Blonde too. Indian guys seem to have it relatively good there. Most were your typical IT FOB types but you did get some who had their shit together and I saw a couple with the kind of women you describe. Best city in America hands down for interracial dating. Women might not be like the dime pieces of Miami or Los Angeles but there are hot girls there too. Go there and thank me later!

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

So relevant to this thread.

My girlfriend and I went out the movies yesterday (Neighbors starring Seth Rogen and Zac Efron, great movie!) and we got there early to where they were showing some of the previews. Right in front of us there was a couple, both seemed young and in their early 20s. Girl had long curly blonde hair and was attractive (I'd say an 8). The guy was a brown dude with a faux hawk, some facial hair, and good muscle tone. We were sitting near them and they were making a bit of noise which started to bother us because I wanted to see one of the previews. The girl let out a loud laugh and when we looked over the guy was munching on her neck and had his arm around her. Fortunately for us a person that worked at the theater came over to tell them to either quiet down and leave. Minutes later before the movie started the guy was still getting touchy and the girl was smiling, we looked over because I swore to my girlfriend and the people around me if they don't shut up I am going to call them out on it.

They did shut up when the movie started but after it was over with the guy had his arm around her and the two seemed to love each others company. My guess was going by the nose and facial features the guy had to be South Asian, maybe Middle Eastern (I have a hard time telling the difference), but the whole thing reminded me of this thread. There is hope for you yet OP.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Ya well I have picked up on a few things from guys who do seem to have success with these women, they seem to have tattoos but from what I have read most jobs that require a good education will not allow a guy with a tattoo to work there. Looking more into but it seems like I have found certain niche of guys out there that do well with these kinds of girls. Anymore advice from experienced guys in here will be appreciated.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I just had to bump this old gem after finding this.

Look at this geeky looking indian guy, he has date two tall blondes who work for Fox News. I would be interested in seeing how this happened.

http://dating.famousfix.com/tpx_4650/di ... uza/dating

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Just wanted to update this thread based on what I saw, OP if he is still around will be very happy about it.

Went to go see a movie this past Friday night and right in front of me I saw a young couple. The guy could have possibly been Middle Eastern but he was somewhat dark (medium brown type skin) and had straight hair so I am thinking Indian. He had sick facial hair game and was growing a nice beard. Sitting next to him was a blonde with a very Germanic/Nordic looking face, definitely above average looks. The two were enjoying each others company before the movie had started and he had his arm around her, was definitely on a date. BTW, this was back home and not in Seattle either, I mean this happened in Louisiana which is supposed to be racist as a state.

The guy was definitely good looking for his race and taller than the girl, saw her stand up at the end of the movie, she had a slim waist and a bubble butt. Judging by the way he grabbed it and how happy she was, I knew he likely hit it at the night of the end.