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Im in Cairo egypt visiting my mom so I have no wing man around here. Yesterday I went to the plaza solo to run some day game. The plaza is pretty huge and has strip after strip of stores so it attracts a lot of people. Egypt has a lot of religious/modest girls so when you see girls that look like there visiting the country or has even a touch of a liberal side to them you really got to make a move there an then. The only problem is when I'm day gaming solo, I run into a lot of situations where there are 2 or more girls and approaching them would be difficult.

Alright back to the plaza story. 20 mins into my plaza visit I got bored and decided to go for a cigarette. As soon a I sparked it two cute girls start walking by me. I was sort of screwed for two reasons. For one, I'm not good at approaching groups solo, but also I was in the middle of a smoke and if I approach them with the smoke it'll look real sketch. On the other hand if I flick the cigarette it'll look real desperate because I pretty much just sparked it. So I pulled out my phone and tried to act like I didn't even notice them. Once I finished I tried to see if I can find the girls and casually bump into them and start some convo, (i still have no clue what I would have said but I was gonna think of that later), but the girls vanished.

Later I seen 2 new girls, clearly less cute than the first two, sitting on a ledge in the front of the plaza. I went over and sat on a ledge parallel to there's about 20 ft away. I was checking out the vibes to see if they were giving me some looks or not. The vibes weren't amazing but they were still worth making an approach. I approach the girl closest to me and the dialogue went something like this

me: "hey do you know were mall 1 is".... (I knew where it was but I just wanted a bs convo starter)
her:"Im sorry I couldnt here you. What did you say"
me:"Do you know where mall 1 is"
her:"No"
me:"You live in this area"?
her:"Why do you wanna know"?
me:"I just moved to the area and I don't mind meeting cool people"
her:"Oh"
me:"how long you live around here''
her:"A long time"
me:"That cool. I come here every know and again. We should hangout some time"
her:"That's Okay"
me:(Smiling) "Why? you don't want to hang out with me"
her:"No its OK"
me:"Alright enjoy your day"

That approach was a bit easier because the girls were sitting down and they weren't on the move. How would you approach a group of girls on the move and was there anything I could have done better with the girls I actually did approach.

Also on a side note does anyone know where to meet girls that aren't impossibly difficult in Egypt. LOL I'm not looking for escorts but I really want to know where to look for girls that are game-able, (Pretty much a girl who has a western dating mentality).
 
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normajean106

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To be honest, maybe it would be better to learn more about Egyptian culture before you hit on girls out there. I don't mean to be pretentious or anything, but I'm pretty sure they have some radical Muslims out there who would kill a guy if they found out their daughter/sister/relative, friend, girlfriend or whatever was dating an American. I don't mean this to be insulting, and I haven't ever been to Egypt, and I'm guessing that they probably aren't as lawless as some of the other countries out there, but it could be bad when you start hitting on some dude's daughter, and next thing you know *BAM* her ISIS Dad knocks you out and now you're at his mercy in the back of his van. Like I said, you probably know more about Egypt than I do, and I certainly don't mean you shouldn't date at all in Egypt, I'm just trying to look out for ya since they take this stuff pretty seriously out in Egypt (as far as I know).

I'm also a new member to this forum and a complete beginner at this stuff, so I hope I didn't break any rules. Thank you all for having me.
 

Bboy100

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I'm a beginner at this, so take everything I say with a grain of salt.
Having said that, approaching girls in groups:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/5-ess ... rls-groups

Also, in the convo you linked, just by reading it, I saw two things.
A. The girl you were talking to still seemed more on guard like "who the hell is this guy and why is he talking to me" that's why she's asking "why do you wanna know?" I often run into the same problem. Some more light conversation to show her you're not a creep sometimes helps to alleviate those fears.
In the long-term, you probably just wanna work on your fundamentals so that she doesn't get that vibe from you in the first place (again, no personal experience to back this up, its just based off what I read here!).

B. You still hadn't reached the hook point before you asked her to spend more time with you. After said light conversation, I would have spent a few more minutes deep diving and screening/qualifying her before asking her to hangout with you. Otherwise, she doesn't really know why you would wanna spend time with her. Because of this, its very possible that she thought that you're just desperate to spend time with anyone you run into.

Cheers,
Bboy
 
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