Approaching a moving girl

[Lawliet]

Hey seducer bros!

Had this question for awhile and didn't see any articles on the site about it.
If you saw one, let me know.

How do we approach someone who is moving?
How do we approach her on the spot or stop her smoothly?

And to rid the chasing pursuing frame from beginning.

Your bro,
Lawliet

 

[lao che]

i'll give you one example.

a girls walks past me when i am standing still, she's wearing earpones, i turn as she walks past, i'm a step in front but matching her pace, "what are you listening to?" keep talking and walking same speed as her, so she is 'following' you


also, youtube "yad stop"

 

[Ree]

Hey
Ivs seen ur posts and questions and i think that what you need isn,t a specific tactic....but a way to rid yourself of approach anxiety....i might be wrong.....but i remember most of the times i couldnt approach a girl unless it was the "perfect angle" the problem really wasnt the angle ,it was the anxiety
Sonething i would also like to drop,is at the start you must chase.....no matter how u slice it it is you who must approach her.....i literally ran after girls who hadnt seen me or given me any kind of invitation....after i get their number.....i will still have to text her first...will i not?..is that chasing?.....avoid the trap of wanting to seem so spetezura and james bondish to the point where you are actually embracing inaction

 

[Lawliet]

Hey
Ivs seen ur posts and questions and i think that what you need isn,t a specific tactic....but a way to rid yourself of approach anxiety....i might be wrong.....but i remember most of the times i couldnt approach a girl unless it was the "perfect angle" the problem really wasnt the angle ,it was the anxiety
Sonething i would also like to drop,is at the start you must chase.....no matter how u slice it it is you who must approach her.....i literally ran after girls who hadnt seen me or given me any kind of invitation....after i get their number.....i will still have to text her first...will i not?..is that chasing?.....avoid the trap of wanting to seem so spetezura and james bondish to the point where you are actually embracing inaction

That's a good reminder! I'll be sure to double check when I get those thoughts and kick out if it's just excuses.
We do have to just do it at times if there isn't a better way. And you're absolutely right about that. Experience is key.
With all this in mind, I do believe that hearing others' advice and experience is good too. While gathering experiences, I like to hear what others do and then try them out. Who knows

Lawliet

 

[lao che]

ree isn't wrong but isn't all right either. there is a specific "way" to do many things with approaching, talking to, dating etc. or rather there are specific things not to do. e.g approaching from behind is a no no. doesn't matter how many approaches you make if you're making a fundamental error which impedes your progress.

keep reading girlschase, man. you'll be alright. and remember, there are no stupid questions, only stupid people (south park reference, is all. no offense to you or anyone else)

 

[Lawliet]

ree isn't wrong but isn't all right either. there is a specific "way" to do many things with approaching, talking to, dating etc. or rather there are specific things not to do. e.g approaching from behind is a no no. doesn't matter how many approaches you make if you're making a fundamental error which impedes your progress.

keep reading girlschase, man. you'll be alright. and remember, there are no stupid questions, only stupid people (south park reference, is all. no offense to you or anyone else)

Of course, all good
Have you approached a girl at night?
Any tips for it?
In a couple approaches while she was moving, got some weird looks the moment I said, Hey!
They would pause before turning to look at me, giving this look of fear. Caught me unexpectedly!

That reaction made me worried about giving her more creeps so I didn't continue to walk next to her. Just bid her good bye before continuing my way.
What's your thoughts on this worry?

Lawliet

 

[lao che]

i'm not the right guy to be asking about approaches. it does sound like you are in your head a little bit about it. as a result of that you might be giving off a bit of a creepy vibe.

just remember a few basics and then get out there and do it. i would say the most fundamental thing to remember is to not scare a girl, approaching from behind will scare her, and if it's at night find the right moment, in front of a brightly lit shop or under a street light. use common sense.

check out ree's LR for an example of approaching a moving girl.

https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=12144

as an aside, from ree's report and my example above, you'll notice both times we will be walking ahead of her, in front of her. do you see why this is an important detail?

also, one more thing! everything you need is on this site. there are about 5 essential articles which will propel you forward. one is entitled, everything you need know to get girls, or something like that,


keep on keepin on man

 

[Lawliet]

Thanks lao che, really appreciate the detail and help!

I just read rae's report, hilarious!
I think I'll read more field reports and use the bits to adjust as well.
You're right, gotta keep approaching, keep em coming!
Walking in front or side, under light.

Thanks bro
Lawliet