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Approaching like a "lover", not a provider?

Zoro

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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So I am received well by the women I approach, but I feel like my vibe and my actions are not aligned.

I dress sexy, am direct, and aim for a lover vibe,

but I get the feeling I'm not flirty enough, and that my usual invite of coffee/smoothie doesn't really fit my personality.

Honestly, I think I should just invite these girls to something more "private or ambiguous" like straight to my place or "lets get together and talk about our bad tattoos". Instant dates might be a good idea too.

My value is definitely giving great sex, but my actions say something more like "nice boyfriend".

Point me to some relevant GC articles or weigh in, I'd like to know what you think...


PS

Any playas in South Florida want a wing? PM me ;)
 
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