Are all girls bisexual?

shaneawi

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A friend told me that all girls are into other girls to some extent and I’m wondering how true that is?

My girlfriend who is 28 has dated and slept with guys her whole life and describes herself as straight but has admitted to kissing a girl in college and her friend in graduate school. She also watches a lot of shows with gay or lesbian male and female sex.

Are all women bisexual to some extent?
 

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No, they are not bi-sexual, but many are bi-curious. In addition women have this thing that they can please each other without being sexually attracted to one-another. Look at it as a form of advanced mutual masturbation.

Sidenote: A girl kissing a girl is no big deal. Girls do it all the time and there is no significance to it. They do it mostly for "fun" and in order to get attention.
 

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A friend told me that all girls are into other girls to some extent and I’m wondering how true that is?

My girlfriend who is 28 has dated and slept with guys her whole life and describes herself as straight but has admitted to kissing a girl in college and her friend in graduate school. She also watches a lot of shows with gay or lesbian male and female sex.

Are all women bisexual to some extent?
You are looking at this from a Male point of view I tortured mentally a 3 year relationship when I had madonna whore complex a girl for making out with another girl, totally destroyed that relationship. Women can make out, watch, Prefer and masturbate to lesbian porn and get super horny in strip clubs and be 100% straight. Just be careful you don't repeat my mistakes.
 

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bipolar!! :') :')

Or Borderline ;)

BPD is for me a mental illness that can be described as over-exaggerated female behaviour.

Women can make out, watch, Prefer and masturbate to lesbian porn and get super horny in strip clubs and be 100% straight. Just be careful you don't repeat my mistakes.

I think they get turned on by the act - the event itself and how they can construct or relate it to an already existing erotic narrative in their own mind; rather than being attracted to the other female bodies per.se! And for this reason their are neither lesbian nor bi, but may fall into the bi-curious categorie (which is still just an aspect of heterosexuality).

And yes, many.... women are bi-curious.

Sex is for women more of an "erotic" adventure into their own mental construct than a mere visual act. Hence themes, settings, sounds, narratives, stories, roles, and so on are big factors in female arousal - much more than physical attributes.

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A sidenote related to my comment above : I am not here talking about "sexual attraction" - which is purely biological. She sees man, man has dick, she wants dick. That is pure heterosexuality. That is the orientation, which will define WHO she mates with.

But in the realm of the Eros, the there are suddenly endless possibilities in regards to sexual fantasies and those fantasies are not always, in fact quite rarely linked to her orientation. Additionally, I also believe females have a more vivid imagination related to sex and a deeper Eros.

Eros definition: When the mind: the imagination meets sex, or rather sex meets the imagination. Eros is the merging of sex and the imagination.

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Teevster
 
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I used to be a member of a group for aspiring writers. It was amazing the obsession many of the women there had with homosexuality, with a preference for writing M/M, but also plenty of F/F stories. Male homosexuality seemed to really turn them on, even more than female. And the homosexual sex scenes of both types were typically more vivid and detailed than the same writer's straight scenes. I suspect that part of it is that hetero sex is the norm for them, whereas homo sex is exotic, as if they were tasting forbidden fruit in their fantasies and writing them out.

My life living with women has taught me that they are easily bored and need the new and different much more than men.
 

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Couldn't agree more with @Mike Silvertree, the best way I've heard women described (which for the life of me I can't remember where I heard it) is they they are 'givers and receivers of delight'.

I think women are much less concerned with the 'significance' - whatever that means - of homosexuality and bisexuality, than whether something feels good or not, and whether it gets them the approving attention of people around them. They will conform to what they think others want to see in them, while yearning to experience new pleasures and delights.

Based on what I've seen (as a straight guy) women don't generally disapprove of male homosexuality, and are fascinated by it. But they a) take into account other mens perception of it and the risk that poses and b) are pretty much universally turned off by psychological weakness in men, straight or otherwise.
 

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In my experience:

1) Women don’t always know WHY they’re horny and they tend to associate the feelings to whatever it’s going on / society tells them is acceptable.
How “bi” girls are is a function of the society they live in.

2) Being “gay” is an identity. Having sexual relationships with someone of the same sex is an act, it doesn’t define you as a person... yet most guys doing it label themselves as homosexuals. This kind of identity self-cornering is way more common among men.
Women are much less affected with saying one thing and doing another. They have a more “fluid” identity (a girl can stop “being gay”, a man will always have to deal with the social repercussions... this extends way beyond sexual preferences).
 
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