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I have been reading through a few lay reports and stories of a lot of members on this forum, a year ago it was another community.
It seems like most guys who are "players" or the kind of guys that Girlschase wants men to be are the types that either own a business or work a job. Then maybe they read some red pill PUA stuff or whatever, or even spend a lot of life on the internet, and that is their spare time wasted. Maybe they have a hobby that they are committed to like woodworking or some form of "manly" crap but that's about it. Then the time they spend socializing involves chasing pussy and getting women, which I find ironic that the same people talking about not putting pussy on the pedestal are somehow dedicating all social life to chasing pussy.
After a certain point, say early 20s, you supposedly have a few types of guys.
1. Married guy with kids and family.
2. Guy in an LTR heading towards marriage.
3. Guy who is chasing pussy and living the pickup artist/player lifestyle, successfully meaning he has women over.
4. Guy who is unsuccessful and incel.
5. The hermit that shuts himself off from society.
People will say coworkers and everything but everyone knows coworkers aren't friends. What I have had a tough time really grasping my head around so far or trying to get going is that outside of an extreme example like Dan Bilzerian, I have never had a guy in adulthood I can aspire to be like socially.
We see so many frat guy stereotypes being shoved deep down our throats in movies as Hollywood and American culture try to claim that college is the be all end all for social life but I don't see any examples of the socially successful guy in adulthood whose life does not revolve exclusively around pussy.
It seems like most guys who are "players" or the kind of guys that Girlschase wants men to be are the types that either own a business or work a job. Then maybe they read some red pill PUA stuff or whatever, or even spend a lot of life on the internet, and that is their spare time wasted. Maybe they have a hobby that they are committed to like woodworking or some form of "manly" crap but that's about it. Then the time they spend socializing involves chasing pussy and getting women, which I find ironic that the same people talking about not putting pussy on the pedestal are somehow dedicating all social life to chasing pussy.
After a certain point, say early 20s, you supposedly have a few types of guys.
1. Married guy with kids and family.
2. Guy in an LTR heading towards marriage.
3. Guy who is chasing pussy and living the pickup artist/player lifestyle, successfully meaning he has women over.
4. Guy who is unsuccessful and incel.
5. The hermit that shuts himself off from society.
People will say coworkers and everything but everyone knows coworkers aren't friends. What I have had a tough time really grasping my head around so far or trying to get going is that outside of an extreme example like Dan Bilzerian, I have never had a guy in adulthood I can aspire to be like socially.
We see so many frat guy stereotypes being shoved deep down our throats in movies as Hollywood and American culture try to claim that college is the be all end all for social life but I don't see any examples of the socially successful guy in adulthood whose life does not revolve exclusively around pussy.
