Are These Approach Invitations?

[Ambiance]

So I feel like I am still missing out on a lot of approach invitations, and wanted to clear some things up.

I've noticed that a lot of girls will fix or ruffle their hair as we walk past each other. They will do this without looking at me or doing anything else as far as I can tell to gain my attention. Are these ever approach invitations in anyone's experience?

Here's another that is giving me pause. When I am out and about, I make eye contact all the time with people I don't want to sleep with. But then again, I am a dominant outgoing man. Aren't women very conscious of every little thing they do, including who they make eye contact with? And with that in mind, when a girl and I are about to walk past each other and she makes eye contact, and does seemingly nothing else, how often does she want me to approach her?

Ambiance

 

[Zoro]

I personally want to improve my own awareness to this sort of thing, but I have a question for you.

If you see a girl you like, are you approaching her? Because you should be.

And if you see a girl you think may be giving you an invite, one way to find out is to approach her. If she's receptive and you think she gave you an invite, then I'd bet she did.


I once read a book called Undercover Sex Signals. It's all about approach invites. I still don't really notice invites, but I blame myself not the book haha

 

[Hue]

Yo yo,

Check out this list Hector made on reddit of Approach Invitations.

As far as the two you described, I would say probably.

Is she ruffling her hair like this?.

Is she looking at you for just more than a blink of an eye?


If so, get it.


Hue