Are women as aware as we'd like to think?

[Brentwoodbam]

It's late and I just got done with a good text convo with a long time squeeze, who due to my past AFC lifestyle, I've yet to fuck . Luckily, she's come back around and is really into me and i'm into her. With that being said, do girls know when a guy is trying to hint at sex? For instance, in this situation, she and a friend are house-sitting for the summer and I want to tell her to get rid of her friend for the night so we can watch movies, and ideally drink some. Does it need to be more black and white, or if she is accepting of this idea, should I proceed with the intent of sex on this particular evening?

Thanks guys,
Brentwood

 

[NarrowJ]

Fuck yea, man. I wouldn't necessarily make it "black and white" for her like you said (kills the intrigue/curiosity), but if she agrees to being alone with you then the thought of you guys being intimate is definitely there in her mind.

Good luck, and make sure you post a field report!


-NarrowJ

 

[trashKENNUT]

Brentwoodbam,

With that being said, do girls know when a guy is trying to hint at sex?

Depends. Some old friend, a girl, say that when a guy ask her over MSN messenger if she's sleep, She thought it was sex! I would say women brain are wired differently with different girls, but generally it's the same with mating. The sex is usually not addressed. Most women are open to sex. The word meaning "Open" doesn't mean yes, but rather it is not decided.

Zac

 

[Whizzy]

It's the same as with guys catching clues about interest from a girl. Some are just more tuned in than others and everyone is different. It would also depend how the text conversation was played out as well, friendly vs flirting etc.

 

[Anonymous]

Making generalities about humans in general is a dangerous thing. That said, men and women aren't all that different, in terms of basic human nature. Women like sex. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. And they like it with men who are sexy, and unapologetic about their masculinity.

Being upfront and blunt about wanting sex is pretty clumsy. Displaying your intent nonverbally, with your vocal tonality, your body language, the way you touch her, the way you look at her, is much, much more powerful and intriguing. Because she can't call you out on your sexy eyes or sexy voice... but her mind, whether consciously or unconsciously, will respond. Don't focus too much on verbally revealing your intent so explicitly... you can say things like "I like the way your lips taste" after you kiss her, or "Stop giving me those naughty looks, are you trying to seduce me?" ie. Chase framing... have fun with it, overwhelm her with your nonverbal communication and proper touch...