Are you a virgin?Ever had a girlfriend?

[Kopesh]

The title says it all.I am 20 years old,I am very proud of myself,I've succeeded in life alot,but I don't have a girlfriend and I never had sex.I am in second year in college.I am kinda embarrased about being asked this,so I thought I would ask for your feedback and advices.
IF a girl asks me this,how do I respond?

If my roommate,who has a girlfriend,asks me this,how do I respond?
If I tell him it's none of his business,he will pick up on it and realise I never had a girlfriend/never got laid and I am afraid to talk about it.So no
If I say yes,I did have a girlfriend and I am not a virgin,(and lie),it will get complicated,because I don't like lying and If I do lie,I won't behave like what I've said is true,I will act incongruent and people will realise this and I've lied just to keep up with their expectations.So no.
If I say no,I've never had a girlfriend and I am a virgin,I will come off as a weak,unsuccesful man,and kinda wierd.It will make my roommate/the girl or anybody else asking me this feel like he/she is so much more above me and will stop taking me seriously/probably make fun of me.So no.

All right,I admit,I do have a kinda big problem in the girl area,that's why I did all my best to learn everyhing I could about seduction and all this stuff.Been studying this thing for a year now,I think I have a big enough knowledge base,and yes I am making some progress,but so far haven't had a GF/got laid.And until I do,questions like these will eventually start popping and I want to be ready for them without giving the impression I am afraid of them.It's not like I can tell them I've been reading girlschase site just so I can get a GF/get laid.

So,how do I anwser these questions?

 

[Raqimus]

Man it's cool if your a virgin. I remember telling some dudesI was cool with before I was a virgin when u was and you wanna know what they did. They encouraged me and have advice,no one's gonna make fun of you becausewe all mature anddevelop differently and you said yourself that you are proud of yourself so why would you worry about what others think of you. Alsoyou could use it as a gimmick there are girls that like to take the virginity of a guy I don't mean goout and say it all the time but use it as confidence of you get what I mean. Also your roommate and his girl probablyalready knowyour a virgin, maybe they wanna help that's up to you to determine how they've treated you. Oh and it's not weak to to know and admit a weakness that's quite strong.

 

[Mr.Rob]

I remember my old social circle from long ago knew I was a virgin and teased me endlessly about it together but they didn't really think it was a big deal (ITS NOT). They never brought it up when girls came over and they'd always try and get me laid.

One friend went and fucked a girl, came back out, gave me a condom, and told me to go fuck her. I was scared as shit went in slept with her but was too afraid to fuck her. She gave me another chance in the morning but became bitter after the escalation window closed.

Virgin's always make the fact that their a virgin such a HUGE deal when in reality it's not, so I'd stop stressin to much.

As far as your question to how to answer the question when your roommate/girls ask you.

I'd personally make up some weird/funny answer like "yeah I only like really fat whores and I haven't come across a girl fat or whorish enough that I want to sleep with yet. Kind of like Shallow Hal but in real life... so anyway blah blah change subject" that way you say the real answer and it shows your not the typical insecure butt hurt virgin.

Another route you might can go (if congruent to your personality) is to own the shit out of it and get other people to think being a virgin is the shit.
A guy I went to highschool with was really good with girls (they were always all over him) because he wasn't needy and he followed the beat of his own drum (in his clothing, talk, shit he did, art) and he was a virgin and girls were all over him.
He was a bit dark and brooding and would be like "yeah all these American sluts, fuck em all to hell... I'm going to wait till I get back to my homecountry of Sweeden where I can make love to a true beauty".
Obviously don't say that but get creative and find a way to make being a virgin the shit. If you do this don't brag about it or bring it up purposely in conversation but just own it and get yourself to believe it's cool when it's brought up.

You can literally reframe anything to make it sound like it's the cool thing to do. Ever watch RSD video's? Tyler from RSD is always talking about how drinking when going out to clubs/bars is lame and how he doesn't do it (bars/clubs are for drinking!!! and that's what all cool people do at bars!!!).... the result?= Ton's of RSD followers going out to clubs/bars sober just because Tyler from RSD reframed it in a way where it sounded cool. (though to be fair when you watch the vid he brings up some good points lol)

Ultimately you should be able to laugh at yourself for being a virgin the same way other people would laugh/make fun of you for being a virgin. This will bring security and will honestly probably help you get laid faster in the long run.

Good luck my friend!

-Rob

 

[Troy]

Kopesh,

This friend of mine in my social circle always jokes about being a virgin. Contrary to that he has slept with over 40 girls and he is only 18 years old. His classical joke when people ask him if he's a virgin is

" Yeah lol I'm waiting until I'm 60 years old and cob web has clouded up around my dick. Maybe some spiders will live a happy life eating away at my cum until I get a girl at 60 to swallow my cum. Lol"

I tried this joke out already and surprisingly it worked. I don't believe in memorizing lines to get girls. Being spontaneous is my belief. So just joke around with it. Of course I got a answer to the same question from Mr.Rob. Thanks man.

Of course, the example I gave above may or may not work. So I would suggest trying it out. Any thoughts?

Troy