The title says it all.I am 20 years old,I am very proud of myself,I've succeeded in life alot,but I don't have a girlfriend and I never had sex.I am in second year in college.I am kinda embarrased about being asked this,so I thought I would ask for your feedback and advices.
IF a girl asks me this,how do I respond?
If my roommate,who has a girlfriend,asks me this,how do I respond?
If I tell him it's none of his business,he will pick up on it and realise I never had a girlfriend/never got laid and I am afraid to talk about it.So no
If I say yes,I did have a girlfriend and I am not a virgin,(and lie),it will get complicated,because I don't like lying and If I do lie,I won't behave like what I've said is true,I will act incongruent and people will realise this and I've lied just to keep up with their expectations.So no.
If I say no,I've never had a girlfriend and I am a virgin,I will come off as a weak,unsuccesful man,and kinda wierd.It will make my roommate/the girl or anybody else asking me this feel like he/she is so much more above me and will stop taking me seriously/probably make fun of me.So no.
All right,I admit,I do have a kinda big problem in the girl area,that's why I did all my best to learn everyhing I could about seduction and all this stuff.Been studying this thing for a year now,I think I have a big enough knowledge base,and yes I am making some progress,but so far haven't had a GF/got laid.And until I do,questions like these will eventually start popping and I want to be ready for them without giving the impression I am afraid of them.It's not like I can tell them I've been reading girlschase site just so I can get a GF/get laid.
So,how do I anwser these questions?
IF a girl asks me this,how do I respond?
If my roommate,who has a girlfriend,asks me this,how do I respond?
If I tell him it's none of his business,he will pick up on it and realise I never had a girlfriend/never got laid and I am afraid to talk about it.So no
If I say yes,I did have a girlfriend and I am not a virgin,(and lie),it will get complicated,because I don't like lying and If I do lie,I won't behave like what I've said is true,I will act incongruent and people will realise this and I've lied just to keep up with their expectations.So no.
If I say no,I've never had a girlfriend and I am a virgin,I will come off as a weak,unsuccesful man,and kinda wierd.It will make my roommate/the girl or anybody else asking me this feel like he/she is so much more above me and will stop taking me seriously/probably make fun of me.So no.
All right,I admit,I do have a kinda big problem in the girl area,that's why I did all my best to learn everyhing I could about seduction and all this stuff.Been studying this thing for a year now,I think I have a big enough knowledge base,and yes I am making some progress,but so far haven't had a GF/got laid.And until I do,questions like these will eventually start popping and I want to be ready for them without giving the impression I am afraid of them.It's not like I can tell them I've been reading girlschase site just so I can get a GF/get laid.
So,how do I anwser these questions?